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Posted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 11:25 pm
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Posted: Tue Jun 09, 2009 11:32 pm
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Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 12:04 am
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Posted: Wed Jun 10, 2009 10:27 am
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Yeah, sorry about that. Well, yes he was buying the ticket, he said he would, that he had the money to do so. I kept asking him because I was worried about taking so much time off of work. We talked a whole lot then monday of last week I called him, he said he was busy but that he would call me back, it was about two in the afternoon, I called him after work and got no responce. The next day his phone was turned off, I left a message and a text, still no responce. He turned his phone back on that night and still no answer. He still has people texting him and such, even changed his mood on facebook to that effect. Then two nights ago he was on facebook, I asked him what the deal was and he instantly logged out.
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Posted: Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:18 pm
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Posted: Fri Jun 12, 2009 7:30 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 13, 2009 1:04 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 11:48 am
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The Last Chase Ok, so all who dealt with me talking about the Marine, well quess what....? We were talking for a long time, everything seemed great... I kept asking him when he was going to get my ticket, because I was worried about work. Then last week, he just stopped talking to me. He got a phone and was talking to me, everything seemed to be fine. Now he's just completely dissapeared. Did I do something wrong? I'm just trying to figure out what could've happened... crying crying crying crying Okay calm down; there could be several reasons. Maybe he's been deployed, maybe he's out doing manuvers, maybe he's found someone closer to home. Don't jump to conclusions until you know for sure. It maybe that he's a little affraid of committment and he's stepping back for a minute. Unless he's told you that it's over completely allow him some space. In the meantime don't stop living your life in order to hold on to what might never happen. Good luck Sweetie... heart
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Posted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 5:10 pm
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Posted: Sun Jun 14, 2009 11:43 pm
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Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 9:44 am
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Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 10:45 am
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Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 11:50 am
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Posted: Mon Jun 15, 2009 3:57 pm
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High-functioning Businesswoman
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Posted: Tue Jun 16, 2009 1:36 am
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ThisEmptySoul I could be completely wrong about this, but from what you just said, it actually sounds like what you need is to -not- date and -not- marry.... at least not for a while. I have witnessed that when someone has been dating constantly for a long time, they become used to always having someone there and feel as if they need someone... which stifles personal development and independence.
If you're "so done with dating", marriage is not going to be any better for you. Marriage is not a "cure" for dating or an "alternative" to dating... it practically is dating, only it's always the same person.
If you've dated so many guys and only have two good ones to speak of, that says something about your choice in men.... it needs to be fixed. Being alone for a while will help you feel more comfortable with yourself and give you time to determine exactly what it is you need in your life that you should be looking for in a partner rather than just guessing and hoping that whoever you happen to come across is "Mr. Right". Contrary to popular belief, good guys are not "hard to find"... you just have to actually be keeping an eye out for them.
I have actually dated very few people and didn't start until after I graduated high school. Part of the reason is because I was very particular about who I chose to be with. I wouldn't date just anyone because they had a pretty face or we had one good conversation. I wanted someone that I could relate to and consider my friend first and foremost. Everyone I dated started out as my friend... not someone that I met, talked to once, then suddenly decided we were going to swap genetic material for a while. I also always thought dating was a means to find someone to eventually marry... not just something to do for the sake of doing it.
You are my most ultimate favorite person ever. There are way too many people in this world who simply don't get what you've just said. I agree with every word 100%. People need to be able to be comfortable by themselves and not in a dating relationship in order to be truly happy within a relationship, otherwise, it'll just turn into a lopsided co-dependent sort of deal.
Once you learn how to make yourself happy, you'll know what other people need to do in order to make you happy as well, and you'll learn how to make others happy from having had to do it for yourself. I'm in a similar position where everyone around me is getting married and having children. As much as I fit the girly stereotype of wanting the perfect wedding and three kids, I am in no rush to fulfill those. There is a guy I'm interested in, and while we haven't met face to face yet, we're planning to take things slowly when he visits- we're just friends and anything that develops out of that will happen on its own. I'm happy being single. When I want cuddles, I just ninja cuddle my friends; when I want smoochies, I initiate a game of spin the bottle. And it's totally okay, cuz I'm not attached; I can flirt with whoever I want and not worry about a jealous boyfriend. xd Sometimes I wonder if I actually prefer being single. sweatdrop
But I'm sorry to hear about your marine guy. He sounds like a douche anyway. confused
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