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Posted: Sat Jul 24, 2010 1:04 pm
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Posted: Sat Jul 24, 2010 9:37 pm
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Yes, I have had it happen...twice. The first time I knew for a fact I didn't like him that way and it took me around 10mins to think of a nice but to the point way of telling him. I said "I'm sorry but I don't feel the same, I like you but not in that type of way." Second time I was confused because I didn't know for sure if I did or didn't love him. This took me forever, a month to finally tell him that I loved him, but only as a friend. And the reason it was so hard was I didn't want to lose him because he was a very good friend almost like a boyfriend. But I still cringed when I thought about dating him.
However it sounds like you did/do like this guy...quite a bit. If you can still see yourself with him, then tell him you like him, a lot. But you aren't quite ready to tell him you love him, you want to make sure you truly love him and you don't want to tell him when you don't mean it. If he truly loves you, he'll understand. That being said, he won't wait forever so take some time, 2 weeks or 2 months to figure out your feelings.
I hope I helped and good luck. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jul 24, 2010 10:12 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 1:54 am
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[I'm the kind of guy who laughs at a funeral]
[Many people have told me that they liked me, were attracted to me, or even loved me without me returning those feelings.] [A man who's like a brother to me recently confessed that after 6 years, he's still in love with me.] [My best friend in the entire world fell in love with me.] [Quite a few of my friends have fallen in love with me.] [Usually, I like to deal with it BEFORE they tell me. Making it very clear that I am NOT available, and not interested in them in that way without actually saying it.] [I've even gone so far as to bring up what it would be like if we dated and laughing about it, saying that it would just be weird, because "we're just too good of friends, y'know?"] [If it does come down to it, I simply tell the person. "Look. I love you. I care about you. And I don't want to lose you as a friend. But I can't love you in that way."] [I usually leave it at that, because sometimes, there's nothing else you really can say but the truth.]
[Can't understand what I mean? You soon will.]
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Posted: Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:28 am
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Posted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:09 pm
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Posted: Wed Jul 28, 2010 2:29 pm
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Posted: Sun Aug 01, 2010 5:04 pm
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