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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 8:57 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:03 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:05 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:05 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:06 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:10 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:12 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:22 pm
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Posted: Tue Sep 21, 2010 9:28 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 6:53 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 7:01 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 27, 2010 10:20 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 3:35 pm
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Emmm. I don't think little teenies should be thinking about sex and such that seriously yet. Dx Just enjoy who you are! Don't get caught up in the dating fad. Honestly, you're way too young. You may not think it now (I definitely didn't!) but you are immature. You do have a ton of growing up to do. You can't love someone without first developing into yourself. With all the new stresses that will be introduced in your life...the question of sexuality is something that really should be seriously addressed later.
Yeah, I'm bisexual. I know what you're going through. It's confusing. It's hard to understand why those little butterflies erupt for both guys and girls. I have a crush on a girl? It's not something you can entirely deny, even if maybe it's wrong, even if you tell yourself no. It just happens. It isn't a choice like many straight conservatives will push. It's a choice to ignore it, or to acknowledge it. Right now, just as with boys, do yourself a favor and ignore it. Flirt, have fun. Hang out and go to the movies. But you don't need "love" right now. I, and many others, regret focusing so much on petty "relationships." I was not ready at 13 to have a serious boyfriend. I would be just as not ready if it were a girlfriend!
NOTE: bisexuality does tend to be a phase. It's often related to your suddenly raging hormones. Your mind and body are really, really confused. It's often part of the weird mood swings and random changes in interestes and tastes. Sometimes not--most the time it won't carry on past peburty. It's lasted much longer for me. I don't do it for attention (almost no one knows) and I'm not confused about it anymore.
(I am an overly protective mother hen, btw!!)
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Posted: Mon Oct 11, 2010 3:56 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 3:52 pm
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What I hate (and I am not saying specificaly that any of you have said this) is when people say "If you haven't done anything with a girl, then you can't like girls." So basically what they are saying is: If a girl has a crush on a guy then it is fine, and probable, but if she likes a girl she is lieing to herself unless she gets physiciall. It goes on a basis of Heterosexuality being a default and saying that bisexual/homosexual girls are just doing it for the orgasm. I hate it when people say that.
I remember when i was in highschool that I got a big crush on a girl in my grade. Her name was Lexi. she was short, cute, funny, pretty, and sweet. I still like her today, even though I have moved. But the next year when we started highschool someone told me that becuase i hadn't done anything with a girl, that I wasn't bisexual. so they were saying that all of those daydreams, the hopes and the love that i felt for that girl as strongly as I had felt for any guy at that time was a lie? No, it wasn't.
To this day i am still bisexual. I believe that if a girl feels that she likes othet girl, that she is probably bisexual.
I am sorry if I sounded angree or something in this, but that thought just came to mind and upset me for a bit. i have never been able to rant about it this freely before!
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