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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 5:24 pm
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I'm a woman, who is bi. I'm very dominate, and I take a very in charge role sexually. You men get great ways of saying where you stand in the relationship, ie: Seme, Seke, Uke. Yet, I have not seen a set of words that are use in the same way for women. It's not fair, damnit. The definitions describe those roles as being male. Am I just not finding the female equivalent? Or is it true that we simply don't have them? If not, I vote we make some. Women can be dominate, or submissive, or a switch. The idea of women being limited to the use of the direct definitions that a Dominatrix would use, or to apply the words used for the male gender is simply unfair. I say we make this PC!
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 5:47 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 7:48 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 8:02 pm
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Orion_s Charm I'm a woman, who is bi. I'm very dominate, and I take a very in charge role sexually. You men get great ways of saying where you stand in the relationship, ie: Seme, Seke, Uke. Yet, I have not seen a set of words that are use in the same way for women. It's not fair, damnit. The definitions describe those roles as being male. Am I just not finding the female equivalent? Or is it true that we simply don't have them? If not, I vote we make some. Women can be dominate, or submissive, or a switch. The idea of women being limited to the use of the direct definitions that a Dominatrix would use, or to apply the words used for the male gender is simply unfair. I say we make this PC!
um,ok, im kinda confused? i see what your wanting to do i think but i thought any gender could be be descibed as dominate, or submissive, or a switch or is there something im not understanding here?
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 8:33 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 9:06 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 17, 2010 9:18 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2010 3:27 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 18, 2010 4:46 pm
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um,ok, im kinda confused? i see what your wanting to do i think but i thought any gender could be be descibed as dominate, or submissive, or a switch or is there something im not understanding here?
Yes, you are missing the fact that Uke, Seme, Seke are male gendered terms, yet women do not have a set for their use, sole for the use of women. Yes, any gender can use the terms Dominate, Submissive, and Switch. Yet, we, as women, do not have a set belonging to us. This seems sexist in my opinion.
Uke, Seme, Seke are gender oriented roles assigned to MEN based on their sexual preference in the male on male relationship. Many people have assumed them to be unisex. They are not.
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Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 4:56 am
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Orion_s Charm I'm a woman, who is bi. I'm very dominate, and I take a very in charge role sexually. You men get great ways of saying where you stand in the relationship, ie: Seme, Seke, Uke. Yet, I have not seen a set of words that are use in the same way for women. It's not fair, damnit. The definitions describe those roles as being male. Am I just not finding the female equivalent? Or is it true that we simply don't have them? If not, I vote we make some. Women can be dominate, or submissive, or a switch. The idea of women being limited to the use of the direct definitions that a Dominatrix would use, or to apply the words used for the male gender is simply unfair. I say we make this PC!
It's probably because of the fact these are stereotypes used in anime and manga, and gay couples in manga and anime send the fan girls crazy, especially in Loveless xD It doesn't really matter anyway, it's just a stupid word made up by some person no one remembers.
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Posted: Sun Dec 12, 2010 8:39 am
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Posted: Sat Apr 02, 2011 4:16 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 05, 2011 8:31 pm
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blackroze_dragon Orion_s Charm I'm a woman, who is bi. I'm very dominate, and I take a very in charge role sexually. You men get great ways of saying where you stand in the relationship, ie: Seme, Seke, Uke. Yet, I have not seen a set of words that are use in the same way for women. It's not fair, damnit. The definitions describe those roles as being male. Am I just not finding the female equivalent? Or is it true that we simply don't have them? If not, I vote we make some. Women can be dominate, or submissive, or a switch. The idea of women being limited to the use of the direct definitions that a Dominatrix would use, or to apply the words used for the male gender is simply unfair. I say we make this PC! um,ok, im kinda confused? i see what your wanting to do i think but i thought any gender could be be descibed as dominate, or submissive, or a switch or is there something im not understanding here? Actually, nowadays they're unisex terms
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Posted: Mon May 16, 2011 7:54 pm
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Posted: Mon May 16, 2011 8:17 pm
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