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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 9:03 am
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I need some major help.
I had been her boyfriend for almost a year, and then we broke up and lost contact with each other.
She moved away, and I haven't spoken to her since.
Today, she talked to me over AIM. I talked to her for a little bit, when she changed her status from the number eleven, to the number twelve, and said she was happy about twelve weeks. I asked her what she meant, and she dropped the bomb.
"I'm pregnant." She said.
I had no idea.
Now, the kid isn't mine, but I have a feeling she wants it to be.
Why?
If it's a boy, she going to name it after me. First and middle name exactly.
If it's a girl, it's still going to have my initials.
Lastly, she said she wanted to move back and move closer to me.
I have no idea what to do, so I need some advice.
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 9:17 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 9:29 am
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yaoinut Remember a few things here. 1. You guys broke up for a reason. I don't know what that reason is, but obviously something wasn't clicking. 2. This baby isn't yours. Which means it has a biological father, who may or may not want to be part of the kids life, but even if he doesn't, I don't think he's going to want to find out it was named after an ex. 3. The name thing. It isn't really endearing so much as kinda desperate. This ex is essentially using her pregnant status to show how much she misses you, by saying she'll name the kid who isn't yours, after you. Think about the complex this kid might have when they grow up, finding out they were a ploy for mummy to get her ex-boyfriend back. My advice, cut contact completely or least keep it too a minium. She's playing an old emotions and I don't think you want to be involved in this mess.
About number 2, she said she told her current boyfriend (The one who impregnated her) about the name thing. He said it was alright, but he doesn't know the story behind the name.
I never thought that she would actually do something like what you are saying...
I don't want to cut contact, because I feel like I am obligated to help her if she needs someone to talk to.
She's not that much older than me, and I'm 15.
This is too much to handle right now.
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 10:22 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 11:42 am
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 12:29 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 12:35 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 12:50 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 3:22 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 4:00 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 5:13 pm
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Posted: Sun Oct 24, 2010 10:07 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:51 am
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Posted: Mon Oct 25, 2010 1:32 am
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