Back in the day:
We were best friends in elementary/middle school before i moved. It took us three years to re-communicate and on my 16th birthday when i was totally head over heels for him he said he'd never push the just friends boundary ever and that he would never ever consider me a "girlfriend" or any similar term of endearment. I got the hint so i never thought much of it when he asked me to go out with him to a fair on my 18th birthday.
Filler:
We never actually went to the fair, got annoyed by traffic and went to the movies instead. After the movie he kissed me, and then it was an awkward silence until we got some ice cream and he took me home, where he kissed me again. It's been roughly three months since then and we've definitely pushed passed the awkward one kiss quite time.
Current Times:
Since our second date he's changed all his status' from single to In A Relationship but he refuses to say with whom.
What's really confusing me:
1) At one point i had been at his house spending some time with him and a friend came over and when he saw me he asked "Who is this? Is she your Girlfriend?" His answer was "what does it matter to you" and less than a minute later we were gone.
2) My family keeps calling him my boyfriend and i said no, eventually i got annoyed and to prove it i text'd him "we are NOT a couple right." expecting to get a No as the answer instead i got a "Idk" followed by a phone call where he said "are we" I said "i don't know" and hung up. The whole point was to get a no so i could show my mom and get her to butt out of my personal life, now she's more focused on it because he picked me up from school a few times in the past week.
3) Every time we've made plans to have lunch he's blown me off or had some reason to cancel; and when he made plans he got called an offer to go to work and blew me off.
It's A Girl Thing! ♥
A Family, A Home.
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