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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 10:16 am
Lately, i have been getting turned on by sleeping with my best friend, but im straight! is that normal,when she comes over she kisses me and i pin her against the wall can someone give me an answer
 
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Are you sexually attracted to her or other women?
 

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 11:14 am
if you enjoy kissing her and get turned on when sleeping next to her then i would assume your probably bi, open or bicurious

just to be clear. when you say sleeping with do you mean sleeping over at her house or do you mean sex?

and do you imagine her as a guy when you 2 are doing stuff? or do you think of her as a girl?  
PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 12:09 pm
It's not unusual to get turned on by someone you're close to. Just observe yourself and your reactions not just to her but to other women in general. You don't have to try and force it to go in any direction. It's perfectly alright to say that you are unsure.  

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 12:10 pm
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if you enjoy kissing her and get turned on when sleeping next to her then i would assume your probably bi, open or bicurious

just to be clear. when you say sleeping with do you mean sleeping over at her house or do you mean sex?

and do you imagine her as a guy when you 2 are doing stuff? or do you think of her as a girl?


Basically ask yourself these things. But don't worry about it too much. Just know yourself and be happy with who you are.

Also, how old are you? (not to pry or anything, just curious), becuse you mentioned 'sleeping' and mentioning that you two kiss.  
PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 3:44 pm
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if you enjoy kissing her and get turned on when sleeping next to her then i would assume your probably bi, open or bicurious

just to be clear. when you say sleeping with do you mean sleeping over at her house or do you mean sex?

and do you imagine her as a guy when you 2 are doing stuff? or do you think of her as a girl?
agreed  

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 4:08 pm
Im 19 and shes 19,we both sleep over at each others houses and i do get turned on
 
PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2011 6:10 pm
I smell a troll...  

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 3:59 am
Asking a question is not trolling -__-
 
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:11 am
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You just know these things.

From what I can tell, you're straight. Most straight people have one or two homoerotic fantasies. Some have more. Don't worry. Take your time. If you find yourself attracted to more girls overtime, you may be gay. Just look back at your love life. That's what I did.






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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 4:51 am
but do you imagine her as a guy when you get turned on or do you think of her as a woman? thats one of the big questions here.  
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 6:07 am
i think of her as a girl and the same thing happend last night
 

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PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 11:51 am
you may be a bisexual who just prefers men then  
PostPosted: Tue Mar 22, 2011 12:33 pm
im not sure
 

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PostPosted: Wed Mar 23, 2011 5:14 am
you dont have to be sure. just know that you are you and it really doesnt matter what or who you are attracted to. lesbian, gay, bi, these are all just words we use to make things a little easier but they dont define who we are  
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