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Posted: Fri Mar 25, 2011 3:33 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 9:07 pm
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Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2011 9:20 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2011 12:58 pm
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Posted: Fri Apr 29, 2011 6:58 pm
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 5:00 am
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Posted: Wed May 11, 2011 12:22 pm
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Posted: Thu May 19, 2011 3:53 pm
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Posted: Thu May 19, 2011 7:24 pm
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Posted: Thu May 19, 2011 7:29 pm
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xRainexArashix I haven't come out to my mom yet, but I don't think it's that big of a deal since I'm bi :l I dunno I always thought that if you were gay it would be a bigger deal... but anyway I did come out to my friends through a joke. What happened was we were talking about our class shirt Me: "It's gay!"(bad of me I know, but I don't use the word like that anymore) Friend one: "Well you're gay" Me: "That's only half true" Friend two: "Wait, you're bi?!" Friend three: "honestly I'm not surprised." Friend one: "Actually neither am I" and the whole table was cracking up in laughter. If I end up with a girlfriend then I figured I would just go up to my mom one day and say "Hey mom, I'm bi and this is my girlfriend (insert name here)" I'm thinkin she'll be a little surprised, but I know she'll be okay with it and may even laugh. Nearly this same situation happened with me when I was walking with some friends of mine. One of them said something, I said that was ghey, the other said that I was, I said only half, and they both kinda just stared at me for a bit and walked on the other side of the road for a few seconds jokingly. lol Was no big deal really.
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Posted: Fri May 20, 2011 3:45 pm
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Le Scratch xRainexArashix I haven't come out to my mom yet, but I don't think it's that big of a deal since I'm bi :l I dunno I always thought that if you were gay it would be a bigger deal... but anyway I did come out to my friends through a joke. What happened was we were talking about our class shirt Me: "It's gay!"(bad of me I know, but I don't use the word like that anymore) Friend one: "Well you're gay" Me: "That's only half true" Friend two: "Wait, you're bi?!" Friend three: "honestly I'm not surprised." Friend one: "Actually neither am I" and the whole table was cracking up in laughter. If I end up with a girlfriend then I figured I would just go up to my mom one day and say "Hey mom, I'm bi and this is my girlfriend (insert name here)" I'm thinkin she'll be a little surprised, but I know she'll be okay with it and may even laugh. Nearly this same situation happened with me when I was walking with some friends of mine. One of them said something, I said that was ghey, the other said that I was, I said only half, and they both kinda just stared at me for a bit and walked on the other side of the road for a few seconds jokingly. lol Was no big deal really.
XD how awesome. I actually just came out to my mom today. It went exactly as I thought it would, she told me she loved me for me ^^ made me happy.
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Posted: Sun May 22, 2011 1:48 pm
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Posted: Sat May 28, 2011 1:34 am
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I've come out to my parents separately, twice, for two different reasons o_o. First was... I don't even think I ever just came out rather than just state the fact that I liked both men and women to my mother in various ways to her for so long that I think she got the general idea over time. I remember sitting in the car once, and she was trying to rationalize it saying "Oh, I could think a woman is beautiful, you know! Find her special! But really, I couldn't have sex with her!" and I just snapped "Yes, well, I could". That was back when I hadn't come out about being transgender. She looked at me odd, but she' was really fine with it.
Coming out as a transgender was the real challenge. I've known since I was 13, and things before that suddenly make more sense. I broke up with my boyfriend because It was really hurting me that he saw me as a girl, and the evening I did my mother found me in my room. That's when I not only told her I broke up with him, I also came out. She was neutral towards positive, and after a few months suddenly started talking about it herself when she'd have the time to think it over. Now she's really supportive.
My dad... well that was forced, really. I told my ex about being male, because I didn't find it fair to just leave him hanging. He'd apparently told a friend of ours, though (that's how it goes, really), and the guy started stalking me over the months. In the end he started aggressively trying to get me to 'admit it' to him so he could be a saint and accept me and I should be grateful. Yes, it was very creepy. I was really upset over it, and when I was telling my mother angrily, my father walked in and overheard my rant. My mother and I didn't know if he got it, so in the end she helped me arrange a talk with him when we were all in the car on a long trip. He acted really positive, said "Well, it's not as if I'm surprised", and he's really supporting me in my physical changes as well.
Haven't really come out to friends and other family though.
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Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2011 8:10 pm
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Posted: Sat Jun 11, 2011 5:56 pm
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