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PostPosted: Mon Aug 15, 2011 10:45 pm


Please understand I never do this, but this is important to me. This is pretty much copied and pasted from my thread but..

I did something stupid, which is my fault I suppose, but I still want my stuff back.
This is what I lost:

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I really don't care about the store bought items but hear me out on this. I know this is going to sound totally stupid but all of those cash shop items I earned.

My mom had a boyfriend for seven years, and he ruined my life. For seven years he molested me and I didn't tell because he kept the family financially stable. In return, when I did chores, he would pay my gaia bill.

All of that stuff is what I earned to have to put up with that guy for seven years.

I know this sounds like a bullshit story but it's true. His name was Roy, and he was a sick freak. Claimed he was madly in love with my after his wife Caroline died and only stayed with my mom for me.

Examples of the s**t he did were continuously exposing himself to me, masturbating in front of me, touching me whenever he could, touching me while I slept, etc.

Like I said, it may sound stupid, but this guy really ******** up my life and I'd just like it if I could get back what I earned of the seven years he took away from me, and to maybe fill the empty shell he left me as.

I don't ask for much. Just donations. I'll try to do something in return. I never ask for donations either...

I don't ask for much. Maybe just a little gold. Every bit helps, right? I come here because I think of you guys as my friends.

But if you don't want to, that's fine.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 9:48 am


That is extremely ******** up and I think you have bigger issues. I would give you my items but I don't have any of those. I got hacked like 5yrs ago and lost lots of very valuable s**t. After that I kind of gave up on collecting gold and saving for items.

Gabrielle_AnimalLuver
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 24, 2011 12:45 pm


I don't have any of these items.

But I do have things that you can sell to get those items anyway.

It's not much tho.

& I'm sorry to hear you went through a really hard time.
I hope you're doing alright now.
PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2011 12:35 pm


As a former rape/incest victim [raped by my grandfather at least once a week, for an unknown number of years.] Perhaps it's best that the items you "Earned" from that guy are gone... Cut the ties, get some counseling, earn the items back if you really want them, but don't do it because you "Earned" them from him.

Akiska


Gabrielle_AnimalLuver
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PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2011 3:31 pm


Akiska
As a former rape/incest victim [raped by my grandfather at least once a week, for an unknown number of years.] Perhaps it's best that the items you "Earned" from that guy are gone... Cut the ties, get some counseling, earn the items back if you really want them, but don't do it because you "Earned" them from him.


That's awful! I never knew that. *hugs*

GAWD people are so sick evil
PostPosted: Mon Aug 29, 2011 6:15 pm


I have fully come to terms with what happened to me and accepted that my grandfather was and still is a sick and twisted man. I only remember 3 years of the abuse, but they suspect it went on for a good majority of my life before I reported it. There a good many sick people in the world, you have to take what happens to you and move forward.

And I'm not trying to come and say what you went through doesn't mean anything, because it does, and things like that are hard to get through. Believe me I know. Clinging to things he bought you because you feel you earned them is not the way to move on and heal from the mental, emotional, and physical anguish associated with that type of abuse.

Akiska

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