Help... Masturbation... =_=

[Cxxkie]

Well, I'm 18 yrs old... and i know that masturbation isn't bad or anyffin like that, it's not like i'm addicted to it..

but the thing is that.. idk.. sometimes i feel bad or embarassed when i do it, and sometimes i feel like i'm overdoing it or idk.. it's just weird.. it's not like i don't like it or anyffin like that... but i mean.. IDK.. salghlghsghkl... I just need help or an advice or someffin to distract myself or to don't do it so often..

I just do it when I feel stressed or in these weird short periods of time

I mean, I just want to stop doing it, but i feel like I don't have the strenght enough to stop doing it...

and also I WANTED TO KNOW WHEN IS IT TOO MUCH? (i know this post is rly stupid but it matters to me... =_=") thanks..  

[Cxxkie]

One more thing... my native language isn't english so don't criticize my stupid grammar or spelling... =_= thanks...  

[Destructive-Kiwi]

It is too much if you are doing it EVERYWHERE..like at the movies, randomly touching yourself around the house..
I would say once a day, twice at most.  

[Le Scratch]

It's a good way to relieve stress. If you are doing it the entire day or for hours at a time every day, or in places you shouldn't really do so (like in public areas), then you probably are doing it too much. Everyone has their preferences and limits and as such you should figure out when that is (within reason).  

[Cxxkie]

Le Scratch

It's a good way to relieve stress. If you are doing it the entire day or for hours at a time every day, or in places you shouldn't really do so (like in public areas), then you probably are doing it too much. Everyone has their preferences and limits and as such you should figure out when that is (within reason).

._. okey .. haha !!! that's good to hear... xD well.. definitely.. i don't do it on public places.. and.. well.. xD i do it like.. mmm... two times per week or once a week..or a month... =_= D:

and i thought.. that i did it wayy toooo much... T__T
thnks  

[Cxxkie]

Destructive-Kiwi

It is too much if you are doing it EVERYWHERE..like at the movies, randomly touching yourself around the house..
I would say once a day, twice at most.

hahah thanks.. seriously... well.. D: idk.. i do it like.. once per week or someffin like that... D: and i dont.. i felt really bad about it.. i thought that.. i did it way too much..  

[Le Scratch]

Cxxkie

Le Scratch

It's a good way to relieve stress. If you are doing it the entire day or for hours at a time every day, or in places you shouldn't really do so (like in public areas), then you probably are doing it too much. Everyone has their preferences and limits and as such you should figure out when that is (within reason).

._. okey .. haha !!! that's good to hear... xD well.. definitely.. i don't do it on public places.. and.. well.. xD i do it like.. mmm... two times per week or once a week..or a month... =_= D:

and i thought.. that i did it wayy toooo much... T__T
thnks

Once a day or even a few times a day is acceptable, if you want to do so. Do what you like and when you like, within reason. 3nodding After all, masturbation is a very personal activity and a very personal choice, so you have a great deal of freedom with it.  

[iamBelovedHope]

Le Scratch

Cxxkie

Le Scratch

It's a good way to relieve stress. If you are doing it the entire day or for hours at a time every day, or in places you shouldn't really do so (like in public areas), then you probably are doing it too much. Everyone has their preferences and limits and as such you should figure out when that is (within reason).

._. okey .. haha !!! that's good to hear... xD well.. definitely.. i don't do it on public places.. and.. well.. xD i do it like.. mmm... two times per week or once a week..or a month... =_= D:

and i thought.. that i did it wayy toooo much... T__T
thnks

Once a day or even a few times a day is acceptable, if you want to do so. Do what you like and when you like, within reason. 3nodding After all, masturbation is a very personal activity and a very personal choice, so you have a great deal of freedom with it.

I do it like 3-4 times a day, depends on the day, I also want to know if there's anything that will help, you cant really tell your family about this. It also ruined a relation ship with an ex.there was no trust communication just sex. I feel so ashamed of my self.  

[Le Scratch]

RomeoOfYaoi

I do it like 3-4 times a day, depends on the day, I also want to know if there's anything that will help, you cant really tell your family about this. It also ruined a relation ship with an ex.there was no trust communication just sex. I feel so ashamed of my self.

It's quite alright; things like that do happen. You know better now and that's what counts.

Also, what exactly do you need help with?  

[Destructive-Kiwi]

Cxxkie

Destructive-Kiwi

It is too much if you are doing it EVERYWHERE..like at the movies, randomly touching yourself around the house..
I would say once a day, twice at most.

hahah thanks.. seriously... well.. D: idk.. i do it like.. once per week or someffin like that... D: and i dont.. i felt really bad about it.. i thought that.. i did it way too much..

Nah, you're fine. Masturbation is totally natural and healthy, as long as you're not all rough  

[iamBelovedHope]

I might be adicted crying  

[The Laziest Czar]

Masturbation isn't exactly bad.
It's all up to you but, meh.
I haven't masturbated in over 3 Months, although I have reasons.
Not like, American Pie Stiffler reasons, but I have some none the less.
Anyway, you shouldn't worry. You seem to be fine.

 

[Destructive-Kiwi]

Northe

Masturbation isn't exactly bad.
It's all up to you but, meh.
I haven't masturbated in over 3 Months, although I have reasons.
Not like, American Pie Stiffler reasons, but I have some none the less.
Anyway, you shouldn't worry. You seem to be fine.

surprised  

[ForteAmora]

From what I've read you can't really masturbate too much unless it gets in the way of everyday life and the other things you HAVE to do. Also did you know in an average man's lifetime he will release a total of 7,000 times, 2,000 of those being masturbation alone. And I totally get where you're comming from with the stress thing. I masturbate to all hell when I'm frustrated. So don't feel bad :3

 

[Seraphim of Forgiveness]

Feeling bad or embarrassed is actually normal, all or most people who masturbate will feel embarrassed or bad at times, because the mind doesnt know if it wants to enjoy the pleasure the mind may sometimes feel guilty, of which all this will pass on sooner or later its common, and twice a day is enough but some people do it more, there is no such thing as too much but doing it in public places can be a little awkward and of which possibly learn some self control and try not to do it out in public.