Turn ons and Turn offs?

[Pawprintz]

I've noticed there wasn't a thread for this... only for like a type of guy you like, but not what you don't like. so, ladies. Turn ons and turn offs?

i have a lot, only listing some. I can seriously go on forever. xD
-sigh- but sadly there are none of these guys in the douche school i go to. ; ^;

turn ons:
♪ playing an instrument, drawing or singing, or plays a sport.
♪ a sweetie pie that likes to cuddle.
♪ a sense of humor.
♪ who's honest to me, honey, if i look fat, please tell me i do, and don't lie. :c
♪ has a good fashion sense.
♪ smells nice.
♪ taller than me. this is easy since i'm 5'1. [:
♪ who's always there for me.
♪ nice hair
♪ buff but not too buff c: biceps = unf
♪ in the middle, not too skinny, not too fat
♪ keeps in touch.
♪ someone i can trust. you can talk to other girls, but don't be like 'hay bae you lookin gud todaee'.
♪ spends time with me.
♪ if a guy can cook, dammmmmmmmmmmmn
♪ who likes me for me!
♪ likes animals.
♪ understands me.
♪ likes the same music as me
♪ tan, basically not paper pale. not to the point where he's orange.

turn offs:
♪ sweaty constantly.
♪ constantly thinking wrong. like 24/7. i do this sometimes so i shouldn't be saying much... :'D
♪ rude and has a short temper.
♪ facial hair. a stubble is okay but babe please shave, ;__; i don't like cuddling with a porcupine lol.
♪ not nice to people, especially my family/disrespectful
♪ dumb. i understand if you're not as smart as me cus i'm smart, but he can't be dumb.
♪ too serious or too immature. he can be immature but not too much.
♪ doesn't understand me.
♪ discriminates me or anyone else. i'm not a terrorist, yo
♪ long long hair, if it's longer than the back of your head then nah brah
♪ whining constantly. that's my job.
♪ acts different with me in front of his friends.
♪ uses me.
♪ weaker than me. WHAT? show some masculinity.
♪ thinks i'm doing something he doesn't want me to. TRUST
♪ awkward. fine line between awkward and funny.
♪ creeper. self explanatory.
♪ doesn't have a life.... like, you can play games, but not to the point where you forget i exist! rahfuigsakj
♪ flirts with other girls. as i said in the trust turn on, you can talk to them, not flirt.
♪ someone who's not straightforward with me. i srsly can't take hints.
♪ someone who says 'swag' and 'yolo' constantly. i do it sometimes to break the ice but saying it all the time i cant omfg
♪ a douchebag that acts like sh!t to people and always having a rude comment up his sleeve, and causes problems.

dear guys: if i don't like you, you probably triggered a turn off.
so basically i don't like anyone at my school. lmao

actually i just described half the guys in my school in the turn offs and my dream guy in the turn ons.
 

[Babomb-Dot-Com]

Well, as I am 5'9 1/2" he must be tall! My boyfriend is 6'2" which is perfect! I have noticed I really like glasses but contacts will do too. He must be athletic--not beefy, though. I prefer a string-bean skinny guy in all honesty as long as he works out. <3
He has to make me laugh and idk why but I want him to love cats. (I've been told I will become a cat lady--I have ONE cat. That's it. one.)

Turn offs:
Treats me differently in front of his friends. (If my boyfriend did that to me, s**t would go down)
Rude in general
Fat (Chubby is fine especially if he's a teddy bear fat is not ok, though)
He isn't nice to his sister(s) or mother.  

[Banshee Cupcake]

Hmmmm turn ons for me are that he can play guitar, is sweet and kind, he'll treat me like a lady tonight at the gala *shot*, he's smart, has interestingly colored eyes, and likes cats.

Turn offs? He bashes MLP, is over protective as in I can't talk to any of my friends or do anything without him being there, is rude, and for some reason I don't like facial hair.  

[thatgirlwholaughsalot]

Turn Ons:
-I don't know why but I really like heavyset men.
-Widow's Peaks. I love them sweatdrop
-Thick eyebrows. I think they're really masculine.
-Dark hair, blue/green eyes.
-Smart
-Polite

Turn Offs:
-Rude
-Doesn't think before he speaks
-Too short  

[Cherry-x-Sorbet]

My Turn Ons:
-When a guy is dressed in a suit or tux.
-Amazing hair (prefferably natural; no crazy dye or style.)

My Turn Offs:
-Disrespectful/Curses constantly
-Never does work

 

[D1RTY C3X C3LL]

Turn Ons:

- I like sweet guys. Gah. You can steal me by just one look if you know how to work the sweet factor.

- I don't really like pale or dark guys. A nice medium tan is what really gets me, especially paired with dark hair and eyes.

- Muscle. I love it.

- He's gotta be huggable. Before kissing comes hugging, so that's a staple.

- He needs to be equipped with a sense of humor and some patience if he's gonna be with me--God knows he'll need it.


Turn Offs:

- No sense of humor.

- Immaturity. There's a fine line between humor and immaturity, so he has to know when to stop.

- Foot fetish--don't make me go there.

- Obnoxious voice.

- I hate it when I'm put on hold for someone else's conversation, especially if I was talking to him first.

- Smell. If he hasn't taken a shower, I don't want to be anywhere near him. I also hate the smell of cologne--I prefer natural, I guess.

 

[The Maharani]

Turn-ons:

+ Guys in suits (as Cherry Ki mentioned xD)
+ An upbeat personality, frequently smiling
+ Does things that are considered feminine (dances, cooks, etc.)
+ About as smart as me, though not a deciding factor, by any means
+ Politeness/Manners
+ Jokes as much as me

Turn-offs:

- Has backward traditions concerning women, race, orientation
...(Sorry honey, you can pick up your own plate. ^^)
- Aims to have a certain type of friends and doesn't venture out
- Generally mean or rude  

[L4uren]

On:
- smells good~
- longer hair (but not to the point of looking girly)
- taaaaallll (like 5"10 at the least.)
- I don't like super muscly guys, but they should still have strength.
- smart (but not like, reads encyclopedias for fun.)

Off:
- CLINGY (biggest pet peeve)
- doesn't know how to not be an a*****e
- foot fetish. just no. I know a guy like that and I avoid him as much as i can.
- creepy

 

[V2Mew]

On:
Longer hair
Beautiful eyes
cute laugh
good humor

Off:
talking in weird voices
making sex jokes  

[M i n i R e d S t a r s]

On:
Funny
Good hearted
Kind

Off:
Rude
Facial Hair
Arrogant
Self obsessed  

[vxrs]

Turn ons:
-Sweet and hilarious
-I'm 5'6 I think, so he has to be tall
-Buff. Muscular. Yes Yes yes.
-And a deep voice.
-And because Im not very picky, a boy that loves me for me.

Turn off:
-Short dude....no.
-Squickly voice....hell to the no.
-Arrogant and Annoying, I know some boys like that.
Awkward things(stares, etc.)  

[FenHareI]

On- Longer hair, a sweetie pie, smells good, has a bit of an accent, can speak a foreign language, loves to cuddle, and wears suits/tuxs, especially if they're white. whee

Off- smells bad, treats me differently in public, talks down to me, and has muscles. I'd rather have a little skinny thing, then someone who has muscles bigger than my head.  

[Aria of Blood]

On:
Black hair-blue eyes combo (even if his hair is dyed)
6 ft at the least
Quirky-ness or Oddness is always good in my book
Smells good
Is Rowdy
Calls alot

Off:
Sexist: I'm not a domestic goddess, that's how it's going to stay
Needs me to do everything for him: I don't want to date a three year old
Lazy
Ignores me for his friends
Texts when he can call
Is jugedmental when it comes to race or sexuality <- that one's pretty major for me, hate it.  

[Empty Spiral]

[~+~]

Genuinely surprised there wasn't a thread like this here already.

Turn ons:
- Taller than me (not that that's difficult)
- Nice arms (i have no idea why, just have a thing for arms)
- Smart
- Good sense of humour
- When guys are dressed up smart/in uniforms. (Yeah, cheesy i know)
- Likes dogs (as sad as it sounds, a necessity, as i don't think i could live life without one. ;>_> )

Turn offs:
- Stupidity. I hate guys that aren't intelligent. Sorry, i'm a snob.
- Fat fat (as in, i like guys with a bit of meat on them, but not to the point where it's kinda gross and unhealthy)
- Skinny (as in, boney skinny, i know some guys are thin, but i mean more the ones who are...skeleton-y in appearance. ;>_> )
- Facial hair. Hateeee. Well, i don't mind a bit of a stubble, but a beard is a definite no-no. As is a moustache. Ew.