So I haven't seriously liked a guy in awhile, a little over a year ago a guy hurt me when I was already really fragile, unstable, and sad due to other things. There was one guy who i liked a little bit after then, i felt a flip in my stomach every once and awhile when we hugged, but thats it. I wasn't even sure if I actually liked him. So what I am asking is...is it normal for me not to feel any definite feeling towards anyone? I'm just worried because I want to like someone again, I want to feel like that towards someone but I just don't. Do you think this is normal? Cuz I feel like there is something wrong with me..
Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:19 pm
Its very normal. I went through the same stage. just give yourself sometime to really get back to a happy stage. don't try to like anyone just be yourself. youll find someone that will make your heat beat fast and slow and you wont even realize you were looking
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Posted: Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:43 pm
Nothing is wrong with you, you're just not ready for the commitment or new feelings yet. If you're not ready, just enjoy being single, talk to new people, flirt a little maybe and once you want a serious relationship for sure, go for it. If it's none of that, maybe you're just shy. Shyness can be easy to overcome though (:
Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 11:27 pm
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 12:56 am
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Posted: Thu Aug 02, 2012 1:32 am
theres nothing wrong with you. it happens after a rough breakup/ emotional truma just give yourself space and wait for when your ready.