What should I do?
Okay, I have this friend who's been through a lot. Like, things like depression, self image issues, illness and just plain awkwardness.
To me, she was fine in the beginning, I've only know her for about 5 months or so, but we got 'closer' during the last month or so.
The problem is, is that sometimes I just can't stand her. She's a gorgeous girl and she doesn't believe she is, calling herself fat all that time and saying she's worthless. Me and her other friends (the one's i introduced her to get her out of her house) tell her different because it's true.
She also has an immune disease that sometimes can get pretty serious, but she doesn't take it seriously whatsoever. It pisses me off because I have family members with the same disease and it can sometimes be crippling for them, but she acts like its not important, even when she's in obvious pain. One time, it even came to the point where I had to get and slice her medication because she 'didnt feel like it' trying to be cute and lazy, you know. And I was furious.
Then, there's the fact that I try to get her to open and date. Not to be mean, but I would say that I have more friends and a social life than her. But I try to let her out to get her to meet my friends and new people. She always annoyingly complaining that she wants a boyfriend, but she NEVER leaves the house or even tries to talk to the ones that obvious check her out.
There was also an incident where I tried setting her up with a friend of mine... Then I realized she was crazy. Like, she knew when he would read her texts and sometimes he wouldn't reply (because WORKED, landscape) and she would get crazy and self conscious. Finally he broke it off and I talked to him as to why, and apparently she was saying things like 'I see us having a future' and 'You and I have this connection'
She's acts like a know-it-all, she's self-centered, depressing, she treats her family horribly, she's clingy and a bragger.
But I still hang out with her, only to gossip and s**t talk her later because her personality makes me want to rip out my hair. But she's started to notice that I've been weird around her, because I just don't like her anymore.
I don't want me and my friends (who sh*t talk her as well) to leave her because she has no one else. But I don't want her having fake friendships.
What do I do?
(Btw, thanks for reading my rants :/)
Okay, I have this friend who's been through a lot. Like, things like depression, self image issues, illness and just plain awkwardness.
To me, she was fine in the beginning, I've only know her for about 5 months or so, but we got 'closer' during the last month or so.
The problem is, is that sometimes I just can't stand her. She's a gorgeous girl and she doesn't believe she is, calling herself fat all that time and saying she's worthless. Me and her other friends (the one's i introduced her to get her out of her house) tell her different because it's true.
She also has an immune disease that sometimes can get pretty serious, but she doesn't take it seriously whatsoever. It pisses me off because I have family members with the same disease and it can sometimes be crippling for them, but she acts like its not important, even when she's in obvious pain. One time, it even came to the point where I had to get and slice her medication because she 'didnt feel like it' trying to be cute and lazy, you know. And I was furious.
Then, there's the fact that I try to get her to open and date. Not to be mean, but I would say that I have more friends and a social life than her. But I try to let her out to get her to meet my friends and new people. She always annoyingly complaining that she wants a boyfriend, but she NEVER leaves the house or even tries to talk to the ones that obvious check her out.
There was also an incident where I tried setting her up with a friend of mine... Then I realized she was crazy. Like, she knew when he would read her texts and sometimes he wouldn't reply (because WORKED, landscape) and she would get crazy and self conscious. Finally he broke it off and I talked to him as to why, and apparently she was saying things like 'I see us having a future' and 'You and I have this connection'
She's acts like a know-it-all, she's self-centered, depressing, she treats her family horribly, she's clingy and a bragger.
But I still hang out with her, only to gossip and s**t talk her later because her personality makes me want to rip out my hair. But she's started to notice that I've been weird around her, because I just don't like her anymore.
I don't want me and my friends (who sh*t talk her as well) to leave her because she has no one else. But I don't want her having fake friendships.
What do I do?
(Btw, thanks for reading my rants :/)
