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Fee blanche

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:44 pm
I would like some outside views on this topic.

I am an Asexual Gay, but for a couple years I've been feeling like I should be a male rather than female.
I hate having breasts and I'm not planning on having children or anything.
But, I also like dressing up and wearing dresses and skirts.
So I did some research and found out about the 'Third Gender'.
I kind of think that's what I might be, because I don't feel like a female, but I don't completely feel like a male.

Any third gender people in this guild?
 
PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 6:50 pm
                    well... kind of.
                    let me explain- i am female, i use female pronouns, all that.
                    but at the same time, i don't feel female, really. .-.
                    and genderqueer seems odd to me, along with female. so i guess i count as non-binary?
                    idk, all i know is that i think of myself as "person." XD
 

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 7:58 pm
I'm 3rd gendered- I think there are lots of things that describe gender in a spectrum between masculine and feminine, but that whole spectrum doesn't fit me at all.

You have to ask some questions of yourself:
Why do you feel you "should be male"?
What is it about dressing in skirts and dresses that you enjoy?
What does it mean to feel like a male to you and why don't you feel like it fits you?

A lot of people can have those feelings and habits, but not be third gendered- so the why can be important in discovering our gender.  
PostPosted: Wed Sep 19, 2012 8:37 pm
Fee blanche
I would like some outside views on this topic.

I am an Asexual Gay, but for a couple years I've been feeling like I should be a male rather than female.
I hate having breasts and I'm not planning on having children or anything.
But, I also like dressing up and wearing dresses and skirts.
So I did some research and found out about the 'Third Gender'.
I kind of think that's what I might be, because I don't feel like a female, but I don't completely feel like a male.

Any third gender people in this guild?
Omigosh I feel the same way, I like wearing dresses sometimes but feel like I shouldn't be a female, right now I just try to look androgynous. I'm not too certain what I am now but I can say this, don't feel rushed to decide your gender even if you may want to know right now, things like this take time to figure out and a lot of acceptance. 3nodding  

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PostPosted: Sat Oct 20, 2012 9:04 pm
well I'm gender queer/non-binary if thats what youre looking for

i dont give a s**t about gender, basically

i dont dress like a girl or a boy
i kind of qualify myself as a girl most of the time off the internet at least

if someone calls me a boy, especially on the internet, i dont correct them
i go with the flow man
B)  
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