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 Posted: Thu Oct 18, 2012 8:05 am
My best friend was hanging out everyday with this other girl, i tried hanging out with them but i just felt left out so i gave up. So instead i hung out with this other group of girls. This guy that is in my class started texting my best friend like everyday... So once i decided to see if he really liked her. I told him that i heard he was texting her and he looked really embarrassed....He was thinking and did not even looking at me in the eye. Right then i regretted it but at the same time, i knew it... He really liked her. My friend heard about what i had done and flipped out! She texted him apology messages hopping he would not be mad or anything... I could tell she was really mad at me and i felt guilty about it... I know you guys probably think im soo stupid for doing that and i know it was... but... idk maybe i was just a little jealous... The next day my friend told me that he was not mad... So we were back to normal...A few days later he asked her out. She told me that she did not like him but still said yes him. Apparently, she got pure pressured into going out with him... They went out for 3 days until she broke up with him saying that she did not like him. He looked sad to me and he still did not stop texting her. My best friend stopped hanging out with the other girl and we started hanging out again. She started hanging out with me and a bunch of other girls. The guy asked my best friend to the moves (Last week) and she said no because she was hanging out with me that day. The guy said that he was going with some friends so i gees it was a group hang out. I facebook message the guy while he used to text my friend but not everyday because you would have to be online at the same time... I showed my best friend some of the facebook messages and she said that he texted some of the same things to her. Today, I was with my best friend and we were talking about him i gave her some advice and i think she likes him. She was oppressed with him and could not stop talking about him! I found out that this other girl liked him and she wanted to go out with him so my best friend told me she did not want that to happen...I told her that i know she likes him and she said: Maybe... I gees so... She said that she would try and get in contact with him and maybe they could be together... I was happy for my friend... But then I realized... That i like the guy... And idk what to do! I can't stop thinking about him! When ever i see those cute teenager post or pictures i always think of him! I wish he would like me back! When ever we do group assignments i just get soo exited and everything! My heart beats when he is close to me! And i always stare at him in class and i can't stop myself!!
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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2012 1:31 pm
When it comes to someone liking someone, you never know how things will turn out because it's up to the other person to respond to it. Knowing that he is going with another girl, I know how it feels. That anger and regret.
But don't let them be your centre of problems. Yes, it may seem hard, but you have other friends who support you, don't forget that. smile
You should spend more time with your friends, going out with them, having a girls' night over or something, and try letting your mind go about their relationship. Distract yourself away from what they're doing. You should also stop texting the guy you like, and try and minimise your connections with him. It may sound mean, but it's a way of taking care of yourself and have personal time to think things over. Time, frustrating as it sounds, would help you.
I've been through something like that as well. I knew him for 5 years, from primary to high school. We would get along so well, so I would assume he would like me. I liked him as well. But suddenly, he went out with a girl whom he recently knew. I always wondered why he was so nice to me, but in a way, hurt me so badly. So I decided to divert my attention to my awesome friends, gone out with them, studied, had fun with my family, and so, their relationship doesn't do much to me now as it would before.
I would used to message him a lot, but when I stopped, my hands were itching to text him, but I forced myself to stop talking to for a while to think things through. It worked.
Tell me how things work soon. smile
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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2012 1:41 pm
Dustbunny Spirit When it comes to someone liking someone, you never know how things will turn out because it's up to the other person to respond to it. Knowing that he is going with another girl, I know how it feels. That anger and regret. But don't let them be your centre of problems. Yes, it may seem hard, but you have other friends who support you, don't forget that. smile You should spend more time with your friends, going out with them, having a girls' night over or something, and try letting your mind go about their relationship. Distract yourself away from what they're doing. You should also stop texting the guy you like, and try and minimise your connections with him. It may sound mean, but it's a way of taking care of yourself and have personal time to think things over. Time, frustrating as it sounds, would help you. I've been through something like that as well. I knew him for 5 years, from primary to high school. We would get along so well, so I would assume he would like me. I liked him as well. But suddenly, he went out with a girl whom he recently knew. I always wondered why he was so nice to me, but in a way, hurt me so badly. So I decided to divert my attention to my awesome friends, gone out with them, studied, had fun with my family, and so, their relationship doesn't do much to me now as it would before. I would used to message him a lot, but when I stopped, my hands were itching to text him, but I forced myself to stop talking to for a while to think things through. It worked. Tell me how things work soon. smile Thank you, i really appreciate it biggrin
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