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 Posted: Wed Nov 07, 2012 9:14 am
I'm really not sure at all...I keep questioning things, and it's so difficult...One thing that I feel is that men are almost ALL creepy...*shudders* When I get hit on by any guy, even if it was Brad Pitt, it makes my stomach turn, and makes me feel gross...That is one of the reasons why I question my sexuality...
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Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2012 4:26 am
if you dont like penises and only like lady bits then you probably are a lesbian
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Posted: Thu Nov 08, 2012 9:11 am
Shanna66 if you dont like penises and only like lady bits then you probably are a lesbian uh, thanks... sweatdrop I should have been a little more descriptive I suppose. Perhaps I feel that I'm bi? I've never really interacted much with women, and I've been around so many men in my life. SO MANY. Where I work is FULL of them. But I've only ever had feelings for possibly two guys. I've only ever been with men, but it was always like a "Uh, sure, whatever. I'll go out with you I guess." But with women, I've had one strong crush before, and I always find myself looking at women. The things I think about when I'm preforming sexual acts hints that I may as well be a lesbian. But do those feelings that I've felt towards two men cancel that factor out? I've never really had friends that were girls for all of my life. And recently, I've been having more. There's one girl that I barely see, but her personality is attractive, as well as her looks. I want to get to know her more, but she is definitely straight. And I don't have that stereotypical in love feeling around her. Don't know if people always have that feeling...I've never even had a girlfriend before!...
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 4:05 am
Obsidian Deathwish Shanna66 if you dont like penises and only like lady bits then you probably are a lesbian uh, thanks... sweatdrop I should have been a little more descriptive I suppose. Perhaps I feel that I'm bi? I've never really interacted much with women, and I've been around so many men in my life. SO MANY. Where I work is FULL of them. But I've only ever had feelings for possibly two guys. I've only ever been with men, but it was always like a "Uh, sure, whatever. I'll go out with you I guess." But with women, I've had one strong crush before, and I always find myself looking at women. The things I think about when I'm preforming sexual acts hints that I may as well be a lesbian. But do those feelings that I've felt towards two men cancel that factor out? I've never really had friends that were girls for all of my life. And recently, I've been having more. There's one girl that I barely see, but her personality is attractive, as well as her looks. I want to get to know her more, but she is definitely straight. And I don't have that stereotypical in love feeling around her. Don't know if people always have that feeling...I've never even had a girlfriend before!... you can be bi and prefer one sex over the other, but if you have only been with 2 men and you didnt feel much about it and you are loving on the ladies i would assume lesbian for the most part. plus i would say that if you dont like sexy brad pitt then thats a pretty good indication that you bat for the other team lol also dont feel that you need to label yourself right away. knowing your sexual orientation can make dating easier but thats really all it does. if anyone asks you what you are you can simply say that you really prefer women but have fallen for a small number of men
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Posted: Fri Nov 09, 2012 6:16 pm
Shanna66 also dont feel that you need to label yourself right away. To virtually anybody who isn't really sure, I'd agree with this advice. As tempting as it is to seek out a label to get some sense of closure on an issue, it's worth taking the time and just seeing where you stand rather than trying to cram yourself into a box where you may not fit.
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Posted: Sat Nov 10, 2012 2:01 am
Wow...You both just answered everythingfor me!...Except that last 2-3 sentences of the bigger post I did, but that it's need to know information right now. I honestly can say that I feel like the right people responded to me...I feel a bit better about things...^_^Thank you both!...
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Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2012 4:11 am
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Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2012 3:30 pm
Shanna66 you can be bi and prefer one sex over the other, but if you have only been with 2 men and you didnt feel much about it and you are loving on the ladies i would assume lesbian for the most part. plus i would say that if you dont like sexy brad pitt then thats a pretty good indication that you bat for the other team lol also dont feel that you need to label yourself right away. knowing your sexual orientation can make dating easier but thats really all it does. if anyone asks you what you are you can simply say that you really prefer women but have fallen for a small number of men Well the brad pitt thing is not a good guide line. Man crushes are allowed on Brad Pitt and Ryan Reynolds, and it does not make you gay. So i think you can still be a lesbian and crush on them also.
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