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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 5:40 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 5:42 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 5:46 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 5:47 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 5:54 pm
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Posted: Sat Dec 22, 2012 6:47 pm
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Posted: Sun Dec 23, 2012 8:27 pm
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Posted: Mon Dec 24, 2012 1:06 pm
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Keep calling the police. Keep notifying them of any incident. Don't let anything slip. If you keep on trying to get them to do something, then they'll more than likely understand that there is indeed something very wrong. I know in many cases, the police need evidence of this sort of thing before they can/will act, but just keep doing it. Document everything. Any kind of evidence of his harassment will help. They'll have to figure something is up if you keep accusing your stepdad of these things and if you also have proof that's even better. Tell them that you are not safe, do anything that'll get them to act.
Does your mom know? Does anyone know? Try and see if you can speak to a trusted adult/friend about this. In your mom's case, I can see that you might be scared to speak up since this is the man (I assume) she loves and wouldn't see him doing any wrong, but she needs to know. You're her daughter, she should be protecting you from things like this. I can't imagine a mother who would just let someone harass and potentially do worse things to her own daughter. But if she does know and isn't willing to listen, then contact other people. Get anyone to know about this and see if they can help. The more people you have backing you up on this, the better.
Just try try try not to be alone at home with him. Really, go anywhere else that you feel safe at. A friend's house, the store, the park, the library, anywhere that you feel comfortable being at for a while until your mom comes home. If you know your mom is leaving, then you leave too. Maybe even ask if you can go with her. It may not seem great, but anything is better than being alone with him.
I hope something can be done about this. Something needs to be done about this. This is no way to live, in fear of being hurt in your own home. I'm sorry you're going through this, just please do whatever you can to get it to stop. I wish I could be of more help or offer you a place to stay, I really hope you can get out of this.
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Posted: Thu Dec 27, 2012 7:57 pm
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Set up a hidden camera/s in your bedroom, and if you can, in any room that you tend to hang out in, or before he comes in the room. This is an idea I got from the book Such A Pretty Girl by Laura Weiss, which is about a teen who was molested by her father.
If it ever happens (and I really hope it doesn't) then you will have sufficient video evidence to put that ******** in jail. Video evidence is the best evidence, though... which is very sad.
Plan escape routes if you ever happen to be alone with him. Stay out of the house when you can if he's home. Go for walks around the neighborhood, read a book and sip coffee at the local cafe, whatever you can.
Try to record a similar conversation with your stepfather (try using your phone, which I believe most have some sort of recording device on it and press the button when it's hidden in your hoodie pocket). Show it to the police, your mom, anyone who can do anything about it.
Tell your mother, but I'm not sure if she'd believe you or not without evidence.
Everything that the above girls mentioned is what else I would've said, too.
Please be safe, girl. Please have a weapon on you at all times—that you can take out of your pocket easily—when you're around him—a pair of scissors, a screwdriver, a box cutter, anything. Maybe some mace. Hide something large near your bed so you can hit him with it, if need be.
Educate yourself with some self defense moves, which you can probably look up online.
Tell your friends. Tell your TEACHERS for goodness sake, if you go to school. Is there a counselor you can talk to? How about a close family member (uncle, aunt, older cousin) who will believe you?
I know I sound pessimistic, but assault on women by someone who is not a stranger, i.e. a family member, is more common than you may think.
I just don't want you to get hurt—and if it does happen, then you can put that sick mother ******** in prison.
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2012 12:16 am
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