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 Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 7:10 pm
╔═ ☆ ⋆══════════════════════════╗ update: wow, so here's more of me not understanding things, though I feel like I'm just ranting to myself... ANYWAY, so I don't really think that I like this guy in that way, I am cool just being friends with him or whatever, but my friend (who mind you was making out with him on two occasions) thinks he likes me. She asked him (via texting) and he just did not answer the question, he asked why she wanted to know and then proceeded to change the subject.
I mean, I don't really have a problem if it turns out that he does like me, it just feels kind of strange to me.
Maybe I'm just crazy... emotion_8c
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So if anyone has read my last post in this subform, this issue involves the male from the second thing.
I'll try to keep this short and sweet, but you do need a little info on the situation.
So I work with this guy, and basically since around the second month I had the job he started asking me about guys I've liked, if I've dated anyone, why haven't I dated anyone, etc. (and I must add that the why question gets brought up quite often). So when he was asking about guys I've dated one day, he goes "wait have you even ever kissed anyone", and being the person I am, instant blush coated my face and gave away the answer that I haven't. His response was just "oh my god you are so innocent!!" in a crazy, shocked kind of way.
Since then he has frequently brought up this fact, including at a party a couple days ago.
I really don't understand why he keeps making such a big deal out of it, because to me it really isn't. Yeah, I want to experience these things, but I go at my own pace. I don't get why he makes such a big deal out of it, and repeatedly brings it up. (he even goes as far as to ask if he can tell people so that he can talk about it some more....)
Do guys just think it's insane to not do these kinds of things by a certain age or something? I mean seriously. Or maybe the rest of the population thinks it's a bigger deal than I do. he almost kissed me btw, but was like "just kidding i have to work with you later" then proceeded to make out with someone else ╚══════════════════════════ ☆ ⋆ ═╝
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Posted: Wed Dec 26, 2012 8:13 pm
I don't think it's much of a big deal. I know some people who want to have their own pace when it comes to relationships, so I suppose it's pretty normal to find someone who hasn't kissed or dated anyone yet.
I dunno, I'm socially awkward when it comes to stuff like this but it does look like he's shocked that you're a bit of a virgin, and I guess that would be a bit surprising at first. Maybe he's excited about the fact that if you ever kiss someone, it would be your first kiss? (lolwut) xp emotion_sweatdrop I'm not sure. It's really not a big deal for me, and even if it was I wouldn't go so far as sharing it to the world (so maybe it's a really big deal for him, that or he just can't let go of the issue).
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Posted: Sun Dec 30, 2012 3:56 pm
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