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 Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 7:42 pm
Ok, ok. So I just had this uncomfortable talk about sex with my mom. (You know, about protection, love, and all that good stuff) I have a boyfriend. Been with him for a long time. The topic of sex has been brought up a number of times. He is just more experienced than I am. I haven't exactly told him that I was ready. (And I do believe I am) It's just really nerve raking thinking about the whole thing. I guess I just want some advice from you guys. How do I bring this up to him? How am I supposed to calm my nerves?Any advice?
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 7:53 pm
just bring it up in conversation and talk it out. it is alright to be nervous. ok?
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 7:55 pm
tanqela just bring it up in conversation and talk it out. it is alright to be nervous. ok? Yeah, thank you. But I'm more nervous actually doing it then talking about it.
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 7:56 pm
JunkMailz tanqela just bring it up in conversation and talk it out. it is alright to be nervous. ok? Yeah, thank you. But I'm more nervous actually doing it then talking about it. oh, just do it. go with the flow. your body knows what it likes, so just communicate with him so that he knows too c:
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 8:11 pm
tanqela JunkMailz tanqela just bring it up in conversation and talk it out. it is alright to be nervous. ok? Yeah, thank you. But I'm more nervous actually doing it then talking about it. oh, just do it. go with the flow. your body knows what it likes, so just communicate with him so that he knows too c: Alright, thank you. Lovely pic of you by the way.
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 8:11 pm
Don't force it, just let it happen in the moment so you will be a little less nervous, Let your mind roam, just not from condoms. (DO NOT DOUBLE UP)
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Posted: Sun May 05, 2013 8:12 pm
JunkMailz tanqela JunkMailz tanqela just bring it up in conversation and talk it out. it is alright to be nervous. ok? Yeah, thank you. But I'm more nervous actually doing it then talking about it. oh, just do it. go with the flow. your body knows what it likes, so just communicate with him so that he knows too c: Alright, thank you. Lovely pic of you by the way. thank you c: oh, btw, i'm still a virgin, but if i was in your situation, then i would probs do the same.
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Posted: Thu Aug 01, 2013 7:00 am
tanqela oh, just do it. go with the flow. your body knows what it likes, so just communicate with him so that he knows too c:
My first time was so awkward...to be exact...the first time me and my bf wanted to try it ( I was a virgin too) ..he was more nervous than me and couldn't get it in emo
Second time we tried, I took charge..got on top of him..that way you can move how its best for you. I'm not gonna lie, was a little painful at first, but nothing too bad =)
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Posted: Thu Oct 31, 2013 2:22 pm
As long as he's not pressuring you to do it, I think you should if you feel ready... I mean you are gonna have to do it sometime razz and Im sure everyone is nervous their first time too. Lol Im not sure about myself cuz I still have my v-card and only have talked about having sex with a guy like once when he brought it up (/,) it was really awkward hahah
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Posted: Mon Nov 25, 2013 10:11 am
Depends if you deeply love the person or not.
Does he tell you he loves you without you needing to physically do something to him?
Does he think of you and give you odd gifts once in a blue moon?
Does he do kind and caring things for you?
Does he hold long conversations with you that make you laugh?
Does he even make you laugh?
When your sick, is he there for you and comforts you or asks if you are doing well and checks up on you?
I think GIVING a man THE GIFT of your virginity should be earned since it IS a valuable treasure and not some piece of candy.
But that's just my opinion.
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Posted: Sat Dec 07, 2013 12:59 pm
All this sex thing is different in Sweden. We don't need to have a big discussion about our boyfriends if we're ready or not. We just make out a bit, and if we're ready for sex, we start bringing it a bit closer to that by taking off his clothes. If we're not ready to have sex yet, we leave it at kissing.
I think you should try something like that. I mean, loosing your virginity here isn't really a big deal, at least not compared to US.
Sorry if this is not helping sad
But relax, just think of it as "it happens when it happens" rather than talking about it. If you know what I mean haha.
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Posted: Sun Dec 08, 2013 2:13 pm
I think sex is kind of awkward (it's going to be somewhat awkward your first time no matter what) if it's planned. So don't plan WHEN you're going to do it when you talk to him about being ready. That'll fuel more anxiety. If you don't want to talk about it with him you could make it clear that's what you want through actions haha ;D
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