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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:18 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:26 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 11:31 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 12:01 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 12:20 pm
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Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Most people I know actually like it. Just politely tell them no when they offer it, and that should be the end of it. You can also get the same clothes in your size for going out to eat. Nothing oversized. Or you can stop letting other people's judgements bother you. To me, it means that you do not like your own body, so if you can like your own body, then their judgements will bother you less and less until no more. Then the whole kid's menu thing will seem funny. I know places where the kid's menu is really good, though. emotion_drool True that some places are good for that. Not that I hate my body I just have anxiety and from past people who judged me I feel like thats what people do once I step out of the house so yeah.. it could affect me I guess, and don't worry when they ask I say no thanks not that I'd be like, "WHAT DID YOU SAY?!" rofl Is there anything to help with the anxiety? I think that might be the major root of the problem, if not the root. People who judge quickly are missing out, their loss. talk2hand Well my counselor says its just a fly and i have to swat it but sometimes it really gets annoying to where i cant deal with it but y'know i cant worry too much about it i guess cause its summer and i don't care as much cause people are going to forget quickly.
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 12:54 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 12:58 pm
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SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Most people I know actually like it. Just politely tell them no when they offer it, and that should be the end of it. You can also get the same clothes in your size for going out to eat. Nothing oversized. Or you can stop letting other people's judgements bother you. To me, it means that you do not like your own body, so if you can like your own body, then their judgements will bother you less and less until no more. Then the whole kid's menu thing will seem funny. I know places where the kid's menu is really good, though. emotion_drool True that some places are good for that. Not that I hate my body I just have anxiety and from past people who judged me I feel like thats what people do once I step out of the house so yeah.. it could affect me I guess, and don't worry when they ask I say no thanks not that I'd be like, "WHAT DID YOU SAY?!" rofl Is there anything to help with the anxiety? I think that might be the major root of the problem, if not the root. People who judge quickly are missing out, their loss. talk2hand Well my counselor says its just a fly and i have to swat it but sometimes it really gets annoying to where i cant deal with it but y'know i cant worry too much about it i guess cause its summer and i don't care as much cause people are going to forget quickly. Dealing with it is different for everyone. You might not do your best with the fly thing. For me, I had to find what was negative and make it positive. Aim still scared of nearly everything, but it is nowhere near as bad, so I can function normally now...more or less. I still have my bad days.
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 1:06 pm
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Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Most people I know actually like it. Just politely tell them no when they offer it, and that should be the end of it. You can also get the same clothes in your size for going out to eat. Nothing oversized. Or you can stop letting other people's judgements bother you. To me, it means that you do not like your own body, so if you can like your own body, then their judgements will bother you less and less until no more. Then the whole kid's menu thing will seem funny. I know places where the kid's menu is really good, though. emotion_drool True that some places are good for that. Not that I hate my body I just have anxiety and from past people who judged me I feel like thats what people do once I step out of the house so yeah.. it could affect me I guess, and don't worry when they ask I say no thanks not that I'd be like, "WHAT DID YOU SAY?!" rofl Is there anything to help with the anxiety? I think that might be the major root of the problem, if not the root. People who judge quickly are missing out, their loss. talk2hand Well my counselor says its just a fly and i have to swat it but sometimes it really gets annoying to where i cant deal with it but y'know i cant worry too much about it i guess cause its summer and i don't care as much cause people are going to forget quickly. Dealing with it is different for everyone. You might not do your best with the fly thing. For me, I had to find what was negative and make it positive. Aim still scared of nearly everything, but it is nowhere near as bad, so I can function normally now...more or less. I still have my bad days. Hm I guess i do hate how i look young and people get mixed up and treat me as a kid but oh well people say i wont regret looking young at 30. I hate how anxiety has to be a part of life sad
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 1:23 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 3:20 pm
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SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Most people I know actually like it. Just politely tell them no when they offer it, and that should be the end of it. You can also get the same clothes in your size for going out to eat. Nothing oversized. Or you can stop letting other people's judgements bother you. To me, it means that you do not like your own body, so if you can like your own body, then their judgements will bother you less and less until no more. Then the whole kid's menu thing will seem funny. I know places where the kid's menu is really good, though. emotion_drool True that some places are good for that. Not that I hate my body I just have anxiety and from past people who judged me I feel like thats what people do once I step out of the house so yeah.. it could affect me I guess, and don't worry when they ask I say no thanks not that I'd be like, "WHAT DID YOU SAY?!" rofl Is there anything to help with the anxiety? I think that might be the major root of the problem, if not the root. People who judge quickly are missing out, their loss. talk2hand Well my counselor says its just a fly and i have to swat it but sometimes it really gets annoying to where i cant deal with it but y'know i cant worry too much about it i guess cause its summer and i don't care as much cause people are going to forget quickly. Dealing with it is different for everyone. You might not do your best with the fly thing. For me, I had to find what was negative and make it positive. Aim still scared of nearly everything, but it is nowhere near as bad, so I can function normally now...more or less. I still have my bad days. Hm I guess i do hate how i look young and people get mixed up and treat me as a kid but oh well people say i wont regret looking young at 30. I hate how anxiety has to be a part of life sad Do you wear makeup? If you do it right, you can make people think that you are your age, and not offer a kid's menu. That might help.
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 3:25 pm
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Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Is there anything to help with the anxiety? I think that might be the major root of the problem, if not the root. People who judge quickly are missing out, their loss. talk2hand Well my counselor says its just a fly and i have to swat it but sometimes it really gets annoying to where i cant deal with it but y'know i cant worry too much about it i guess cause its summer and i don't care as much cause people are going to forget quickly. Dealing with it is different for everyone. You might not do your best with the fly thing. For me, I had to find what was negative and make it positive. Aim still scared of nearly everything, but it is nowhere near as bad, so I can function normally now...more or less. I still have my bad days. Hm I guess i do hate how i look young and people get mixed up and treat me as a kid but oh well people say i wont regret looking young at 30. I hate how anxiety has to be a part of life sad Do you wear makeup? If you do it right, you can make people think that you are your age, and not offer a kid's menu. That might help. Sometime I do sometimes I dont either way if I wear or do not wear I'm still going to be seen as an 11 yr old. I think if i choose clothing that is more fashionable they will see me as an older person but i dont wanna go out of my way to do that.
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 3:26 pm
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SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Is there anything to help with the anxiety? I think that might be the major root of the problem, if not the root. People who judge quickly are missing out, their loss. talk2hand Well my counselor says its just a fly and i have to swat it but sometimes it really gets annoying to where i cant deal with it but y'know i cant worry too much about it i guess cause its summer and i don't care as much cause people are going to forget quickly. Dealing with it is different for everyone. You might not do your best with the fly thing. For me, I had to find what was negative and make it positive. Aim still scared of nearly everything, but it is nowhere near as bad, so I can function normally now...more or less. I still have my bad days. Hm I guess i do hate how i look young and people get mixed up and treat me as a kid but oh well people say i wont regret looking young at 30. I hate how anxiety has to be a part of life sad Do you wear makeup? If you do it right, you can make people think that you are your age, and not offer a kid's menu. That might help.Sometime I do sometimes I dont either way if I wear or do not wear I'm still going to be seen as an 11 yr old. I think if i choose clothing that is more fashionable they will see me as an older person but i dont wanna go out of my way to do that. Makes me wonder how many are actually jealous because you look so young.
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 4:25 pm
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Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Dealing with it is different for everyone. You might not do your best with the fly thing. For me, I had to find what was negative and make it positive. Aim still scared of nearly everything, but it is nowhere near as bad, so I can function normally now...more or less. I still have my bad days. Hm I guess i do hate how i look young and people get mixed up and treat me as a kid but oh well people say i wont regret looking young at 30. I hate how anxiety has to be a part of life sad Do you wear makeup? If you do it right, you can make people think that you are your age, and not offer a kid's menu. That might help.Sometime I do sometimes I dont either way if I wear or do not wear I'm still going to be seen as an 11 yr old. I think if i choose clothing that is more fashionable they will see me as an older person but i dont wanna go out of my way to do that. Makes me wonder how many are actually jealous because you look so young. I kinda wonder that too now you mention it i see people just judging me...that counts as jealousy right?? sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 4:28 pm
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SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Dealing with it is different for everyone. You might not do your best with the fly thing. For me, I had to find what was negative and make it positive. Aim still scared of nearly everything, but it is nowhere near as bad, so I can function normally now...more or less. I still have my bad days. Hm I guess i do hate how i look young and people get mixed up and treat me as a kid but oh well people say i wont regret looking young at 30. I hate how anxiety has to be a part of life sad Do you wear makeup? If you do it right, you can make people think that you are your age, and not offer a kid's menu. That might help.Sometime I do sometimes I dont either way if I wear or do not wear I'm still going to be seen as an 11 yr old. I think if i choose clothing that is more fashionable they will see me as an older person but i dont wanna go out of my way to do that. Makes me wonder how many are actually jealous because you look so young. I kinda wonder that too now you mention it i see people just judging me...that counts as jealousy right?? sweatdrop One thing I have noticed is that around here at least, those quick to judge before they know something/someone are jealous of them because they have the qualities the jealous one does not. So, for example, one girl is jealous of another girl's friends, so she labels the girl something she is not. People might be jealous of your youthful appearance, and so think that you are that young, even if you are not. Jealousy is strange.
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Posted: Mon Jul 01, 2013 5:34 pm
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Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence SoGummylicious Serah of Silence Do you wear makeup? If you do it right, you can make people think that you are your age, and not offer a kid's menu. That might help. Sometime I do sometimes I dont either way if I wear or do not wear I'm still going to be seen as an 11 yr old. I think if i choose clothing that is more fashionable they will see me as an older person but i dont wanna go out of my way to do that. Makes me wonder how many are actually jealous because you look so young. I kinda wonder that too now you mention it i see people just judging me...that counts as jealousy right?? sweatdrop One thing I have noticed is that around here at least, those quick to judge before they know something/someone are jealous of them because they have the qualities the jealous one does not. So, for example, one girl is jealous of another girl's friends, so she labels the girl something she is not. People might be jealous of your youthful appearance, and so think that you are that young, even if you are not. Jealousy is strange. It is strange.
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