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Posted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 10:56 pm
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..and i'm probably gonna change the title soon.
so before school started, i went and got some new bras. my mom wanted to be sure i got the right size, so i got my size checked, and they said i was probably a c cup.
i've always preferred the idea of me having a smaller chest (it was a bit upsetting for me to move up to a b cup, actually), so this was kind of devastating. i mentioned it to my mom, and she went through this whole rant about how she used to have a bigger chest than i did, that i should be thankful (she had breast cancer at one point, she feels very strongly about the fact "i have breasts" even though she has implants) for having a chest, etc., and pretty much ignored my comment that we're different people, and have different preferences for how we want to look
the thing is, before this i always hated the idea of having anything over a b cup, and i've been irrationally upset whenever anything about bras or chest size pops up and i'm reminded of that.
i'm not looking for a "your breasts are fine" at all here, i guess i just want to know my options for making my chest looking smaller/ getting a smaller chest, and knowing it's okay to feel like this?
and how to bring it up to my mom and to get her to listen instead of listening to her recite the times she had a dd chest at my age, and that i should be lucky that i have breasts finished off with a "you're beautiful," because it's seriously not helping at all.
i'm just really upset over this to the point where i feel like crying thinking about it, and i'd just really like to talk to someone besides my mom about this at the current moment.
i'm.. rambling at this point, but yeah.
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Posted: Sun Sep 15, 2013 6:36 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 4:15 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 3:14 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 3:18 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 3:19 pm
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Kitalpha Hart loonaboots i have tried those, and they've kin of worked- they generally make my shoulder hurt, as well as part of my neck (i fell asleep with a too-small sports bra on when i was twelve, neck wouldn't move without intense pain for a bit, and shoulder hurt as well).
so they do work, but i can't wear them for long. :l
thank you for the advice, dear! smile
i've got the kind that have the stretchy straps and a design that can be strapless (straps go around your body with the rest of the sports bra), one strap or two Kmart has them, I like them cuz the stamp doesn't lie on my mediport, and that's uncomfortable ah, that might be an option! i'd have to locate a k-mart though, aah.
thank you so much! smile
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Posted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 3:22 pm
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loonaboots Kitalpha Hart loonaboots i have tried those, and they've kin of worked- they generally make my shoulder hurt, as well as part of my neck (i fell asleep with a too-small sports bra on when i was twelve, neck wouldn't move without intense pain for a bit, and shoulder hurt as well).
so they do work, but i can't wear them for long. :l
thank you for the advice, dear! smile
i've got the kind that have the stretchy straps and a design that can be strapless (straps go around your body with the rest of the sports bra), one strap or two Kmart has them, I like them cuz the stamp doesn't lie on my mediport, and that's uncomfortable ah, that might be an option! i'd have to locate a k-mart though, aah. thank you so much! smile wish I knew what they were called...
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Posted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 6:46 pm
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Kitalpha Hart loonaboots Kitalpha Hart loonaboots i have tried those, and they've kin of worked- they generally make my shoulder hurt, as well as part of my neck (i fell asleep with a too-small sports bra on when i was twelve, neck wouldn't move without intense pain for a bit, and shoulder hurt as well).
so they do work, but i can't wear them for long. :l
thank you for the advice, dear! smile
i've got the kind that have the stretchy straps and a design that can be strapless (straps go around your body with the rest of the sports bra), one strap or two Kmart has them, I like them cuz the stamp doesn't lie on my mediport, and that's uncomfortable ah, that might be an option! i'd have to locate a k-mart though, aah. thank you so much! smile wish I knew what they were called... well, i can always look online.
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Posted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 6:47 pm
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loonaboots Kitalpha Hart loonaboots Kitalpha Hart loonaboots i have tried those, and they've kin of worked- they generally make my shoulder hurt, as well as part of my neck (i fell asleep with a too-small sports bra on when i was twelve, neck wouldn't move without intense pain for a bit, and shoulder hurt as well).
so they do work, but i can't wear them for long. :l
thank you for the advice, dear! smile
i've got the kind that have the stretchy straps and a design that can be strapless (straps go around your body with the rest of the sports bra), one strap or two Kmart has them, I like them cuz the stamp doesn't lie on my mediport, and that's uncomfortable ah, that might be an option! i'd have to locate a k-mart though, aah. thank you so much! smile wish I knew what they were called... well, i can always look online. true dat
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Posted: Sun Sep 22, 2013 6:50 pm
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Kitalpha Hart loonaboots Kitalpha Hart loonaboots i have tried those, and they've kin of worked- they generally make my shoulder hurt, as well as part of my neck (i fell asleep with a too-small sports bra on when i was twelve, neck wouldn't move without intense pain for a bit, and shoulder hurt as well).
so they do work, but i can't wear them for long. :l
thank you for the advice, dear! smile
i've got the kind that have the stretchy straps and a design that can be strapless (straps go around your body with the rest of the sports bra), one strap or two Kmart has them, I like them cuz the stamp doesn't lie on my mediport, and that's uncomfortable ah, that might be an option! i'd have to locate a k-mart though, aah. thank you so much! smile wish I knew what they were called... well, i can always look online.
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Posted: Sun Sep 29, 2013 5:52 am
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Posted: Sun Sep 29, 2013 6:26 pm
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