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Posted: Tue Nov 19, 2013 9:35 pm
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Posted: Wed Nov 20, 2013 4:56 pm
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I really wish I had something helpful to offer, especially considering how many times I've encountered people who are in the same situation, but I'm afraid I don't. Every scenario is different, and you're already aware of the options and their potential consequences. In threads like these, inevitably there are those who will encourage you to take the risk, while others will suggest that it would be more prudent to just maintain your friendship rather than risk it. Either could be right choice, but we have no way of knowing; it works out for some people, and not for others. sweatdrop
You know your friend better than any of us. Do the two of you have any other mutual friends that you trust? If so, it might be a good idea to get their perspective.
An indirect option would be to simply start being flirtatious with her, and then try and gauge her reaction. That said, I see two potential problems with this method. First, she might not take the hint, or may misinterpret it. Second, even if she does respond positively to flirting, she may be open to the idea of being friends with benefits, but nothing more.
Wish I could be of more help. sad
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Posted: Wed Nov 20, 2013 8:54 pm
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Taeryyn I really wish I had something helpful to offer, especially considering how many times I've encountered people who are in the same situation, but I'm afraid I don't. Every scenario is different, and you're already aware of the options and their potential consequences. In threads like these, inevitably there are those who will encourage you to take the risk, while others will suggest that it would be more prudent to just maintain your friendship rather than risk it. Either could be right choice, but we have no way of knowing; it works out for some people, and not for others. sweatdrop You know your friend better than any of us. Do the two of you have any other mutual friends that you trust? If so, it might be a good idea to get their perspective. An indirect option would be to simply start being flirtatious with her, and then try and gauge her reaction. That said, I see two potential problems with this method. First, she might not take the hint, or may misinterpret it. Second, even if she does respond positively to flirting, she may be open to the idea of being friends with benefits, but nothing more. Wish I could be of more help. sad Thank you, I appreciate your insight on this whee it helps more than you'd think
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Posted: Thu Nov 21, 2013 8:24 am
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Posted: Sun Nov 24, 2013 5:33 pm
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