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Is this appropriate behavior for a 12 year old?
  Hell no.
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Fuit Gummy

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 8:43 pm



I'm all aggro/disgusted right now. I'm spending the night at my grandma's house
with my 12 year old cousin. For privacy reasons, we'll call her Raisins. So,
Raisins was telling me about her the most recent updates of her and her friend's
social lives. All I can say is that I am utterly disgusted with what I was told.

Raisins told me that, keep in mind that she and all of her friends are TWELVE,
she's been cybering online with 20 year olds. That she wants to be emo
because it's cool, she's mad that she is the only one of her friends that are
a virgin and that she's going to try to yiff.

When I asked what yiffing was, she told me that it's where you dress up as
a furry and perform sexual activities.
(I don't know if that's right, I'm not a furry.)

She then continued to tell me about her fellow 12 year old friends. One of her
friends is gay, which didn't bother me. It was the fact that she told me that
he had already had sex AT LEAST 50 times. Apparently he has been giving
her tips on how to give a good b*****b and the, apparently, six ways you
can have fun sex.

She then proceeded to tell me about another friend that, another 12 year old,
is pretending to be 21 years old on the internet so she can buy AP products.
(IMVU s**t like penises, naked bodies, explicit actions) And that she's not a
virgin either, she's also giving her sex tips.


Oh, before I forget, she just now mentioned that her sister, age 14, is now
cutting herself because the guy she likes likes emo chicks.

I'm utterly in shock at what's going on and what is now considered normal
for children to do. When I was 12, I didn't even know that sex existed. I
was still a child, played outside, watched cartoons, ect. What the ********? I just-- I can't.

Someone's mother is getting called tonight.

I guess I just wanted to rant and, sorta, ask what the hell happened to being
a child? Why are 12 years old exposed to this s**t? Seriously, I'm 18 and
I'm still a virgin AND mentally a child. What the actual ********?


PS - Sorry if this belongs somewhere else.
PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 10:55 pm


I'm pretty sure that " emotion_0A0 " is the proper response...
I'm almost 18 myself, still a virgin (and consider myself asexual, actually...) and am TOTALLY a kid at heart. I don't understand the desire to "grow up"- I really don't. Like, you only have a little while to be a kid and get away with being irresponsible and not having a life. But after that's done, you have to spend the rest of your life being an adult. Why rush the inevitable?
But that... That's just disturbing. Don't mind me, I'm just gonna go curl up in a ball and sob for the children for a bit.

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Lustnmisery

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PostPosted: Fri Nov 29, 2013 11:19 pm


I can understand the social and moral implications of a child this age wanting acceptance, but seriously, wtf!!!!!! People's children need a slap from reality.
Do Raisins or her sister and friends realize or consider the fact that if they do follow this path it may lead to more traumatic events or occurrences?
PostPosted: Sat Nov 30, 2013 10:18 am


I don't even know what to say. What you're telling us seems too shocking to be reality, you know? I'm 16 now, and didn't know about sex until I was about, eh, 13? But that's just due to TV (I never got 'The Talk' or w/e). I hope that Raisins is educated in self worth, and that she doesn't need to give herself away like that, just because her friends are doing so, too.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 30, 2013 1:23 pm


.....I babysit three kids, one of them is a girl who's two years younger than your cousin and I just....dear gods if I found out she was doing something like that I don't know what I'd do, I've known that kid since she was born.

you know it's really sick that kids that young think they need to do something like that. that they are supposed to be sexual and want this sort of thing now. I get that centuries ago kids their ages were getting married, I get it, really, but that really doesn't apply now. they don't need to think about things like sex, and how to perform well in any area of it, they're still just kids. I think it's sick that our culture is just so obsessed with sex that it's making kids thing they need to rush into it now, before they've even really hit puberty and are ready for that kind of thing physically, mentally, emotionally....it's just messed up
PostPosted: Thu Dec 05, 2013 3:23 pm


crazy kids am i right

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