What he wants is not what you want (mature subject)

[Miss_XxAriaxX]

Girls, if a guy want to have sex and you don't want to and he keeps asking would you break up ?

I was reading a post about a girl saying how her boyfriend kept asking for sex. She said she wasn't ready but she gave in, starting with oral sex (bl*wj*b). He kept asking for more but she didn't want to. However, she gave in again and again. So he got what he wanted then he ask for a**l and she gave in. She said she loves him and now she keeps having flashbacks of those experiences that she hated and were painful.

I feel so sorry for her, she wasn't able to respect HERSELF!

Girls don't do it sad if you are not ready you will possibly regret like this girl.  

[flauterfli]

Err, yes! Ergh yes. Never let a man degrade you like that. Poor girl.

I thought you meant just begging for sex in general, like you've already had it together and you usually like it well enough but ya just don't feel like it tonight.
And he keeps bugging you for sex, not in a mean or demanding or creepy way, but just like every lover you will ever have.
Annoying but normal for most couples.

Any gal should punch a guy in his overactive nuts if he doesn't get that she is not ready!

 

[ScarletSanity]

How can she thinks his guy loves her if he keeps wanting her to do things she isn't ready for? I feel so bad for these girls that think that no one can like them so they must give into a$$holes like this guy. The perfect man is out there, don't hold yourself back to find him just because you haven't found him yet.  

[Miss_XxAriaxX]

flauterfli

Err, yes! Ergh yes. Never let a man degrade you like that. Poor girl.

I thought you meant just begging for sex in general, like you've already had it together and you usually like it well enough but ya just don't feel like it tonight.
And he keeps bugging you for sex, not in a mean or demanding or creepy way, but just like every lover you will ever have.
Annoying but normal for most couples.

Any gal should punch a guy in his overactive nuts if he doesn't get that she is not ready!

Totally Agree !!  

[Miss_XxAriaxX]

ScarletSanity

How can she thinks his guy loves her if he keeps wanting her to do things she isn't ready for? I feel so bad for these girls that think that no one can like them so they must give into a$$holes like this guy. The perfect man is out there, don't hold yourself back to find him just because you haven't found him yet.

I agree smile !!!!  

[Your WatchQueen]

It's time to have a serious discussion with your boyfriend. Make him listen that you aren't ready for sex. If he cares about you, he'll respect your wishes and wait till you are ready. If he doesn't, break up.

I had a boyfriend who visited me at college, followed me into the bathroom(while on my period no less) and tried to force me into having sex with him. He grabbed my shoulders with painful force and with blood from my period down my leg, tried to force himself in. I screamed and cried and since I shared the bathroom with three other girls I guess he freaked out they would hear my cries and gave up and left. When he flew back home I dumped him because I knew he was no good.

I'm not saying your situation will be like this, but remember you have every right to say no.