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I think that's exactly why that kind of thing shouldn't be done. Although I think a lot of it is exaggeration by those who don't know what's healthy. Don't mistake that exaggeration for what should be 'ideal' in real life. They're like greedy kids asking for more then they can get. It's more important to be healthy and happy with yourself than conforming to someone else's ideal.

Now, I don't play games with player-made mods (not a good PC to game on), but I do have some of my console games that have skimpy alternate costumes for female characters. I just choose to never use them.