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 Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 5:30 am
I like doing psychology stuff, like graphology, but when it comes to reading body languages, I'm really bad at doing it for real, but I analyze them afterwards.
There were some signs that he showed that he likes me, but I dunno. How about you girls judge for me? 3nodding
1. Whenever we see each other, he would normally approach me and talk to me.
2. My brother told me if I look at a guy and our eyes would met, if he looks away, that means he likes me. I did it and he looked away.
3. We are in this group called peer facilitator under the guidance council. I help the counselor in relaying out the messages regarding about our events. So naturally, I would also text him about that. And then yesterday, he approached me to tell me he's unsure if he's going. Today, I saw the list of people going written by the counselor, and I saw his name. When we saw each other again, we had a conversation.
(btw the event is during our exam week)
Guy: Hey! I'll be going to the event.
Me: Yea. I saw your name on the list.
Guy: What? I didn't sign anything.
Me: Oh, the counselor writes down the people who are going.
Guy: I see, what time is it again? 11 til what?
Me: 11 til 1.
Guy: Oh, I can't stay long though, I've exams at 1.
Me: Yea, I know.
(and then the guy smiled differently, it feels like he was really happy when I told him I know his exam schedule)
What do you girls think? o.o
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 7:06 am
I'm guessing from some of the context , high school ?
unless you two are like best buds , that #1 really says it all : he does like you .
unless they are unusually shy , men ( and boys ) will tend to " go out of their way " to
interact with women / girls they are attracted to .
I'm not saying that means you're guaranteed to start dating and fall in love yada yada ,
a lot can happen . but à moment , like you , he does .
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 9:47 am
Trance Harper I'm guessing from some of the context , high school ?
unless you two are like best buds , that #1 really says it all : he does like you .
unless they are unusually shy , men ( and boys ) will tend to " go out of their way " to
interact with women / girls they are attracted to .
I'm not saying that means you're guaranteed to start dating and fall in love yada yada ,
a lot can happen . but à moment , like you , he does .
College actually XD Do you maybe have any suggestions on how I can make him confess or something similar to that? o.o
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 2:26 pm
yuintakie_yuki College actually XD Do you maybe have any suggestions on how I can make him confess or something similar to that? o.o Tell him how you feel and see how it goes? It's not really fair to try to make him confess if you're not willing to do so yourself. Besides, you're in college. The worst he can do is say that he's not interested and once you graduate you'll probably never see him again.
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Posted: Tue Mar 11, 2014 3:06 pm
omg sorry ><
well , I agree with frantic on that one a little . it's unfair to make him do anything ,
but you can be crafty and wily about it . that's why we're woman :p
if you're not the sort to openly stay " hey , I like you . what do we do about this ? " then you
can always try asking him out ; to coffee ( or drinks if you're old enough ) , or something
low-key . real dates like dinner ought to be initiated by him c;
in college and after , it's more " socially acceptable " for women to make the first move .
granted , we're the firelight and they're supposed to be the moths , but men these
days aren't as brave as they used to be because it's too common and acceptable to
just straight up refuse to give them the time of day ( even if they aren't total creepers ) .
asking him to coffee lets him know that you want to spend time with him c:
of course , I didn't actually date in college ( I'm slutty that way xp ) so my advice is entirely
based on just knowing people and psychology stuff ;p
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 2:35 am
ll-Frantic-ll yuintakie_yuki College actually XD Do you maybe have any suggestions on how I can make him confess or something similar to that? o.o Tell him how you feel and see how it goes? It's not really fair to try to make him confess if you're not willing to do so yourself. Besides, you're in college. The worst he can do is say that he's not interested and once you graduate you'll probably never see him again. I didn't want to confess because I didn't want to lose a friend again =(. Back in high school, I confessed to a guys, and he ignored me (up until now actually, since we're in the same university and we seldom bump into each other) Also he's in the same building as me, so it's gonna be pretty hard cuz we bump too often. But I'll try to ask him out =)
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 2:39 am
Trance Harper omg sorry ><
well , I agree with frantic on that one a little . it's unfair to make him do anything ,
but you can be crafty and wily about it . that's why we're woman :p
if you're not the sort to openly stay " hey , I like you . what do we do about this ? " then you
can always try asking him out ; to coffee ( or drinks if you're old enough ) , or something
low-key . real dates like dinner ought to be initiated by him c;
in college and after , it's more " socially acceptable " for women to make the first move .
granted , we're the firelight and they're supposed to be the moths , but men these
days aren't as brave as they used to be because it's too common and acceptable to
just straight up refuse to give them the time of day ( even if they aren't total creepers ) .
asking him to coffee lets him know that you want to spend time with him c:
of course , I didn't actually date in college ( I'm slutty that way xp ) so my advice is entirely
based on just knowing people and psychology stuff ;p
Rofl I'll try my best =D Thanks
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 9:27 am
yuintakie_yuki I didn't want to confess because I didn't want to lose a friend again =(. Back in high school, I confessed to a guys, and he ignored me (up until now actually, since we're in the same university and we seldom bump into each other) Also he's in the same building as me, so it's gonna be pretty hard cuz we bump too often. But I'll try to ask him out =) I understand that but sometimes you have to because they won't do it. Some guys are just as nervous to ask as you are.. and some of them may not even realize that you're actually interested in them. So, even if you don't want to ask him out or anything try talking to him and find out if he's interested in you or something, you'll thank yourself later even if you don't think so now. Best case scenario, he says that he likes you and you get a go at dating him. Worst case scenario, he says no, and it's kind of awkward for a little while, but you get it off your chest and off your mind. Peace of mind will make it worth it. Again, I know how it feels to want to try being with someone but being afraid to lose them as a friend. I tried it anyway because I didn't want to go the rest of my life not knowing or not letting them know then always having to see them with someone else. Good luck dear, you can do it. ^_^;
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 11:14 am
ll-Frantic-ll yuintakie_yuki I didn't want to confess because I didn't want to lose a friend again =(. Back in high school, I confessed to a guys, and he ignored me (up until now actually, since we're in the same university and we seldom bump into each other) Also he's in the same building as me, so it's gonna be pretty hard cuz we bump too often. But I'll try to ask him out =) I understand that but sometimes you have to because they won't do it. Some guys are just as nervous to ask as you are.. and some of them may not even realize that you're actually interested in them. So, even if you don't want to ask him out or anything try talking to him and find out if he's interested in you or something, you'll thank yourself later even if you don't think so now. Best case scenario, he says that he likes you and you get a go at dating him. Worst case scenario, he says no, and it's kind of awkward for a little while, but you get it off your chest and off your mind. Peace of mind will make it worth it. Again, I know how it feels to want to try being with someone but being afraid to lose them as a friend. I tried it anyway because I didn't want to go the rest of my life not knowing or not letting them know then always having to see them with someone else. Good luck dear, you can do it. ^_^; Thank you! =) I'll try this friday =D
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Posted: Wed Mar 12, 2014 3:30 pm
yuintakie_yuki I like doing psychology stuff, like graphology, but when it comes to reading body languages, I'm really bad at doing it for real, but I analyze them afterwards. There were some signs that he showed that he likes me, but I dunno. How about you girls judge for me? 3nodding 1. Whenever we see each other, he would normally approach me and talk to me. 2. My brother told me if I look at a guy and our eyes would met, if he looks away, that means he likes me. I did it and he looked away. 3. We are in this group called peer facilitator under the guidance council. I help the counselor in relaying out the messages regarding about our events. So naturally, I would also text him about that. And then yesterday, he approached me to tell me he's unsure if he's going. Today, I saw the list of people going written by the counselor, and I saw his name. When we saw each other again, we had a conversation. (btw the event is during our exam week) Guy: Hey! I'll be going to the event. Me: Yea. I saw your name on the list. Guy: What? I didn't sign anything. Me: Oh, the counselor writes down the people who are going. Guy: I see, what time is it again? 11 til what? Me: 11 til 1. Guy: Oh, I can't stay long though, I've exams at 1. Me: Yea, I know. (and then the guy smiled differently, it feels like he was really happy when I told him I know his exam schedule) What do you girls think? o.o i think you should tell him i told someone i like him and he said he like me too you should try it
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Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 1:25 am
MusicNinja1993 yuintakie_yuki I like doing psychology stuff, like graphology, but when it comes to reading body languages, I'm really bad at doing it for real, but I analyze them afterwards. There were some signs that he showed that he likes me, but I dunno. How about you girls judge for me? 3nodding 1. Whenever we see each other, he would normally approach me and talk to me. 2. My brother told me if I look at a guy and our eyes would met, if he looks away, that means he likes me. I did it and he looked away. 3. We are in this group called peer facilitator under the guidance council. I help the counselor in relaying out the messages regarding about our events. So naturally, I would also text him about that. And then yesterday, he approached me to tell me he's unsure if he's going. Today, I saw the list of people going written by the counselor, and I saw his name. When we saw each other again, we had a conversation. (btw the event is during our exam week) Guy: Hey! I'll be going to the event. Me: Yea. I saw your name on the list. Guy: What? I didn't sign anything. Me: Oh, the counselor writes down the people who are going. Guy: I see, what time is it again? 11 til what? Me: 11 til 1. Guy: Oh, I can't stay long though, I've exams at 1. Me: Yea, I know. (and then the guy smiled differently, it feels like he was really happy when I told him I know his exam schedule) What do you girls think? o.o i think you should tell him i told someone i like him and he said he like me too you should try it Thanks I will =D
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Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2014 4:04 am
yuintakie_yuki MusicNinja1993 yuintakie_yuki I like doing psychology stuff, like graphology, but when it comes to reading body languages, I'm really bad at doing it for real, but I analyze them afterwards. There were some signs that he showed that he likes me, but I dunno. How about you girls judge for me? 3nodding 1. Whenever we see each other, he would normally approach me and talk to me. 2. My brother told me if I look at a guy and our eyes would met, if he looks away, that means he likes me. I did it and he looked away. 3. We are in this group called peer facilitator under the guidance council. I help the counselor in relaying out the messages regarding about our events. So naturally, I would also text him about that. And then yesterday, he approached me to tell me he's unsure if he's going. Today, I saw the list of people going written by the counselor, and I saw his name. When we saw each other again, we had a conversation. (btw the event is during our exam week) Guy: Hey! I'll be going to the event. Me: Yea. I saw your name on the list. Guy: What? I didn't sign anything. Me: Oh, the counselor writes down the people who are going. Guy: I see, what time is it again? 11 til what? Me: 11 til 1. Guy: Oh, I can't stay long though, I've exams at 1. Me: Yea, I know. (and then the guy smiled differently, it feels like he was really happy when I told him I know his exam schedule) What do you girls think? o.o i think you should tell him i told someone i like him and he said he like me too you should try it Thanks I will =D well good for you
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