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Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2014 11:42 am
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2014 2:26 am
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I'm not entirely sure about this situation either. I think you're right to be suspicious of the idea that his girlfriend okayed him cheating on her, unless you know them to be in an officially open/polyamorous relationship. Such relationships do exist, but they are based in a lot of communication, and it sounds like he's avoiding communication. You're also right to want to respect her and her relationship. If this guy can't be held accountable to do so, at least you're doing so. On that note, if you decide you have feelings for him or anything, it is not wrong. And if they do have an open relationship then perhaps you should try to contact this girl and work out an arrangement between the three of you.
However: scientifically it's been proven that cuddling released chemicals that create strong feelings of trust. This might be what's confusing you, and it might be confusing for your ex as well. The cuddling all sounds at least reasonably platonic except for towards the end. It sounds like your ex might want more from you than he's letting on, and I don't know if his girlfriend is totally in the loop.
Ultimately, if you keep the "cuddle buddy" relationship up you might end up developing return feelings for your ex, and he for you. If he is willing to break up with his girlfriend and date you, this might not be such a bad thing. If he's not willing, then I suggest you put a stop to this before your feelings start developing.
Of course this is just my opinion and I clearly don't know the full situation. Whatever you think is right, you should do.
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Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2014 5:43 am
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