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 Posted: Mon May 26, 2014 3:06 pm
I'm 25 and I got married last August, at the beginning of the year, my husband and I started trying to have a baby. Right after we started trying, my periods stopped completely, I was convinced that I was pregnant, but it just wasn't showing up on any home pregnancy tests. In Feb, I had a blood test done that confirmed I wasn't pregnant, I found out of Valentines day of all days. In March I went to an OBGYN that basically told me I was too fat to get pregnant, side comment, WTF is it with Canadians hating overweight people? Every Canadian I've met in person treats me like s**t because I'm overweight. (sorry to any Canadians who read that, it just bugs the living daylights out of me, I live in a tourist town and most of the ones who visit are stuck up, I've had good experiences with every Canadian I've spoken to on Gaia at least smile )
Anywho, she didn't take into consideration that my primary care doctor put me on thyroid medicine in September, then in January decided to stop putting in my prescription. That by itself screwed with my periods when I was on it.
My OBGYN put me on Provera, a pill that is supposed to help regulate my menstrual cycle, I've been on it for two months and both months it's cause me to have two periods, so trying for a kid right now is out of the question since the medication can cause major complications or miscarriages.
To top it all off, 4 of my coworkers have gotten pregnant during my ordeal, I'm glad for them, but I can't help being jealous. None of them were even trying, and one of them JUST had a baby 5 months ago.
I just don't understand why things come so easily to those who don't even try, yet when I work my a** of for something, I fail miserably. Not just in trying for a child, it keeps happening in my job, my health, bills, everything. I just feel like giving up.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2014 3:20 pm
You think that's bad, I got to a school that's full of girls who are still sixteen, even fifteen, who are mothers. I bet you there's only a max number of fifteen students there who's still a virgin, myself included.
But on a side note I completely understand the whole, "It's because your fat" thing. Birth control ******** up my periods so now I wait four months before I get mine. And I talked to my doctor here in the U.S., and she's like, "Come back and talk to me after you lose fifty pounds." b***h I'M A HUNDRED AND FIFTY POUNDS. THAT'S NORMAL. scream stressed
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2014 3:33 pm
Kumiko Fujiwa You think that's bad, I got to a school that's full of girls who are still sixteen, even fifteen, who are mothers. I bet you there's only a max number of fifteen students there who's still a virgin, myself included. But on a side note I completely understand the whole, "It's because your fat" thing. Birth control ******** up my periods so now I wait four months before I get mine. And I talked to my doctor here in the U.S., and she's like, "Come back and talk to me after you lose fifty pounds." b***h I'M A HUNDRED AND FIFTY POUNDS. THAT'S NORMAL. scream stressed Only 150 pounds and your doctor says you're overweight? That's ridiculous. I'm 340 right now, so I am fully aware that I am overweight. I'm 5'7" so it's distributes rather evenly. My thing is, I've seen bigger women get pregnant with ease, even my own mother was as big as I am and had no trouble getting pregnant. The main difference between me and my mom though is that I was put on thyroid medicine at a much younger age than she did. Plus I was on ADHD meds from 6th grade until I graduated high school, and I'm also currently taking 3 different antacids for chronic stomach pain, that doesn't help my situation either. as a whole, I don't eat much, I never got over the loss of appetite from being on the ADHD meds, so my body stores as much fat as it can, and my thyroid problems keep the fat from being burned off It bugs me that kids keep having kids at younger and younger ages. I stayed a virgin until I was 20 because I didn't want to become a statistic, plus I didn't even have a sex drive until I was 19 anyways. Since you're still a virgin, my advice is to wait, the guy I lost my virginity to was a jerk and a virgin who was so addicted to porn, that neither of us ever finished during the 2 times we had sex in our 2 year relationship. 6 months after he and I broke up, I met the man who became my husband, he was waiting until he met the woman he wanted to marry, I wish I had done the same. (funny thing is, we had sex on the first date, lol. we talked on the phone for a month before meeting)
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2014 3:40 pm
Iye Macilvana Kumiko Fujiwa You think that's bad, I got to a school that's full of girls who are still sixteen, even fifteen, who are mothers. I bet you there's only a max number of fifteen students there who's still a virgin, myself included. But on a side note I completely understand the whole, "It's because your fat" thing. Birth control ******** up my periods so now I wait four months before I get mine. And I talked to my doctor here in the U.S., and she's like, "Come back and talk to me after you lose fifty pounds." b***h I'M A HUNDRED AND FIFTY POUNDS. THAT'S NORMAL. scream stressed Only 150 pounds and your doctor says you're overweight? That's ridiculous. I'm 340 right now, so I am fully aware that I am overweight. I'm 5'7" so it's distributes rather evenly. My thing is, I've seen bigger women get pregnant with ease, even my own mother was as big as I am and had no trouble getting pregnant. The main difference between me and my mom though is that I was put on thyroid medicine at a much younger age than she did. Plus I was on ADHD meds from 6th grade until I graduated high school, and I'm also currently taking 3 different antacids for chronic stomach pain, that doesn't help my situation either. as a whole, I don't eat much, I never got over the loss of appetite from being on the ADHD meds, so my body stores as much fat as it can, and my thyroid problems keep the fat from being burned off It bugs me that kids keep having kids at younger and younger ages. I stayed a virgin until I was 20 because I didn't want to become a statistic, plus I didn't even have a sex drive until I was 19 anyways. Since you're still a virgin, my advice is to wait, the guy I lost my virginity to was a jerk and a virgin who was so addicted to porn, that neither of us ever finished during the 2 times we had sex in our 2 year relationship. 6 months after he and I broke up, I met the man who became my husband, he was waiting until he met the woman he wanted to marry, I wish I had done the same. (funny thing is, we had sex on the first date, lol. we talked on the phone for a month before meeting) Trust me I've already made the decision of waiting. I always was that one person who didn't follow the crowed. I'm sixteen and I have my very first real life boyfriend. I dated over the inter webs and met one of them, but we never really clicked.
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2014 3:48 pm
Kumiko Fujiwa Iye Macilvana Kumiko Fujiwa You think that's bad, I got to a school that's full of girls who are still sixteen, even fifteen, who are mothers. I bet you there's only a max number of fifteen students there who's still a virgin, myself included. But on a side note I completely understand the whole, "It's because your fat" thing. Birth control ******** up my periods so now I wait four months before I get mine. And I talked to my doctor here in the U.S., and she's like, "Come back and talk to me after you lose fifty pounds." b***h I'M A HUNDRED AND FIFTY POUNDS. THAT'S NORMAL. scream stressed Only 150 pounds and your doctor says you're overweight? That's ridiculous. I'm 340 right now, so I am fully aware that I am overweight. I'm 5'7" so it's distributes rather evenly. My thing is, I've seen bigger women get pregnant with ease, even my own mother was as big as I am and had no trouble getting pregnant. The main difference between me and my mom though is that I was put on thyroid medicine at a much younger age than she did. Plus I was on ADHD meds from 6th grade until I graduated high school, and I'm also currently taking 3 different antacids for chronic stomach pain, that doesn't help my situation either. as a whole, I don't eat much, I never got over the loss of appetite from being on the ADHD meds, so my body stores as much fat as it can, and my thyroid problems keep the fat from being burned off It bugs me that kids keep having kids at younger and younger ages. I stayed a virgin until I was 20 because I didn't want to become a statistic, plus I didn't even have a sex drive until I was 19 anyways. Since you're still a virgin, my advice is to wait, the guy I lost my virginity to was a jerk and a virgin who was so addicted to porn, that neither of us ever finished during the 2 times we had sex in our 2 year relationship. 6 months after he and I broke up, I met the man who became my husband, he was waiting until he met the woman he wanted to marry, I wish I had done the same. (funny thing is, we had sex on the first date, lol. we talked on the phone for a month before meeting) Trust me I've already made the decision of waiting. I always was that one person who didn't follow the crowed. I'm sixteen and I have my very first real life boyfriend. I dated over the inter webs and met one of them, but we never really clicked. Good, more power to you. There's way too much pressure for young girls to have sex these days. It gets old after a while anyways.
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2014 7:46 am
There was a time I was jealous also ... For example, people that are more fortunate (rich), that has a job that they like with a good pay and couples (people who found their life partner).
I am single and my career is not determined yet. I completed a bachelor degree and I found no job related to what I've studied for while some people did find something. I just wish I was part of them. I work part-time in a drugstore/pharmacy helping the pharmacist to count the med...
So, I read books and tips online on how to not compare myself to others. I learn to accept the fact that everyone is different and everyone life's path is different. Some people will take more time to accomplish something. Focus on yourself stop thinking about others.
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Posted: Wed May 28, 2014 7:46 pm
Do yourself a favor and see what you can do to limit the drugs you are taking. Or make the doctors aware of your want to get pregnant. By law the doctor will have to assure that you are presented with proven medicine that will not effect the healthy growth of a baby while in the womb... Entertaining jealously is like rocking in a rocking chair. Give up on comparing yourself to others. Start seeing the beauty you have around you and within. Smile more, enjoy your husband more... Focus on what will be...speak life into your situation And be patient Drink water. Find an active activity to do for at least 45 minutes every other day(walking/gardening/bicycling/swimming!! to name a few). Read the ingredients on food & drink labels to become knowledgeable of what you are placing into your body. If there is an ingredient that you find(after research) to be harmful or useless like artificial coloring and favoring, good looking out 4laugh , and rid it from your diet. Prenatal vitamins, they exist for those meaning to get pregnant too (stick the natural (organic) kinds...artificial means just that artificial it does nothing but complicate your precious body system)... Fresh fruits and vegetables are great snacks and even perfected when juiced (you know how sometimes the banana may get too ripe and it's all mushy... blend it for a smoothie or juice. Same when a watermelon is more water than it is melon...JUICE it!- it's an investment you will not go wrong with ). Ah, check out the natural teas...over coffee. You will find your match in doing what is right for your health, and you will make a difference if that is what you want to do...can't stick to the same excuses and unhealthy tolerances that effect you both mentally and physically... *practice makes habit , so get to speaking life into your situation. " Do your best and trust God with the rest! "
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