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Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 12:23 am
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Posted: Sat Dec 06, 2014 8:04 pm
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Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2015 4:51 am
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2015 12:51 pm
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Infinite_Randomness I agree with Arillena and I wanted to address a few other points: I don't know if you told your father about this boy, but I'm sure that if he knew, that he'd probably support your decision. (I don't know your father or your relationship with him, but most dads are protective of their girls when it comes to relationships with boys. smile ) Additionally, I think that he does know why you haven't been talking to him- I'm glad you stood up to him every time, tactful but strong. > biggrin Honestly, I feel like most of your exchange was about two things for him- to change your mind (talking to you about sexual topics when you said that you weren't interested, trying to chat up your friend) and make your his 'own' (trying to get you emotionally invested in his 'love life', talking down his own girlfriend while making you some half-assed offer for being FWB). I agree with you in that he probably did think that trying to get close to friend was supposed to make you jealous...the only thing is that I guess he really didn't take your lack of interest in his love life seriously. He had a good friend and ruined it by making things all awkward with his silly posturing and attempts at emotional manipulation. Dear Dear Diaryxo, you have done the right thing and done it well by continually standing up for yourself. I hope that you he doesn't bother you anymore and that you find a better guyfriend and don't have to deal with such nonsense anymore. smile
Thanks both of you i was worried I was doing something wrong. The only thing I did wrong was not tell him directly what I thought of him instead of saying we cant talk because its too awkward.
Thanks so much guys!! After the xmas break he finally stopped passing by my locker and stopped bothering my friend so I'm pretty sure he's given up.
Unfortunately he might be in my physics class next sem .. :/
I'll worry about that when it happens but I really appreciate the feedback!!
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2015 5:08 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2015 7:03 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2015 7:43 pm
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Dear Diaryxo comickit He wants you. You are doing the right thing not talking to him tbh. Thanks smile . The sad thing is it's completely for sexual purposes and here I thought he was a good guy. Sigh. Guys are so disappointing.. I find it hard to make guy friends, not sure if it's just me. I know exactly how you feel and its not only you. Don't worry about just be cautious when making friends (including females!).
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2015 8:07 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 18, 2015 11:16 am
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Dear Diaryxo Infinite_Randomness I agree with Arillena and I wanted to address a few other points: I don't know if you told your father about this boy, but I'm sure that if he knew, that he'd probably support your decision. (I don't know your father or your relationship with him, but most dads are protective of their girls when it comes to relationships with boys. smile ) Additionally, I think that he does know why you haven't been talking to him- I'm glad you stood up to him every time, tactful but strong. > biggrin Honestly, I feel like most of your exchange was about two things for him- to change your mind (talking to you about sexual topics when you said that you weren't interested, trying to chat up your friend) and make your his 'own' (trying to get you emotionally invested in his 'love life', talking down his own girlfriend while making you some half-assed offer for being FWB). I agree with you in that he probably did think that trying to get close to friend was supposed to make you jealous...the only thing is that I guess he really didn't take your lack of interest in his love life seriously. He had a good friend and ruined it by making things all awkward with his silly posturing and attempts at emotional manipulation. Dear Dear Diaryxo, you have done the right thing and done it well by continually standing up for yourself. I hope that you he doesn't bother you anymore and that you find a better guyfriend and don't have to deal with such nonsense anymore. smile Thanks both of you i was worried I was doing something wrong. The only thing I did wrong was not tell him directly what I thought of him instead of saying we cant talk because its too awkward. Thanks so much guys!! After the xmas break he finally stopped passing by my locker and stopped bothering my friend so I'm pretty sure he's given up. Unfortunately he might be in my physics class next sem .. :/ I'll worry about that when it happens but I really appreciate the feedback!! You are most welcome. smile I'm glad to hear things are going well- I anticipate that he will not be a problem for you this following semester. And if he is, I feel like it'll be no big because you've gotten the major problem of out the way. emotion_awesome
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