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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 9:00 am
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ok, so here's my next problem. just a few days ago, my mom told me i couldn't go over to my boyfriends house anymore. she says that i'm always the one who's going over, and he never comes over. and bcs f that, she wouldn't let me go over anymore. and if she found out i did, she'd take the car away. on top of that, my new curfew os midnight. I'M FREAKING 19 AND I HAVE TO B HOME BY 12?!?!?! that's just not right....so, can anyody help me? what should i do? my bro told me he udnerstood that my mom was being unreasonable, and that he'd take care of it, but my urge to say sumthin to my mom is HUGE!! i dunno if to wait and see what my br manages, or go ahead and say sumthin, which might screw up whatevr plan my bro may have....anybody got any ideas? crying xp
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 1:19 pm
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um, if your 19, and still living under her roof, then you better just do what she says, or else if she wanted, she could just kick you out. thats just my advice, either that, or move the hell out or that house and get your own place. age dont matter when it comes to parents, its as long as you live under the roof they provide over you, you must follow their rules. even if your 50, you'd better still listen to them.
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 3:16 pm
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Posted: Mon Oct 16, 2006 8:00 pm
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Posted: Tue Oct 17, 2006 8:15 am
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Posted: Wed Oct 18, 2006 10:22 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 9:23 am
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Posted: Thu Oct 19, 2006 3:15 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 20, 2006 6:58 am
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while i'll admit such answers were not the expected, i'm grateful towards everyone that has posted advice here for me to have a b*tch-slap of reality. i guess even tho it's not what i want, i have no other choice but to accept reality....i know she's lookin out for my well-being, but since it was so sudden and harsh, that's what caught me off guard. i've slightly calmed down, but i think i'll wait a little longer and then bargain with her to see if i can lighten up the situation. Anime Duncan, u couldn't be any futher from the truth, living alone is just too expensive. and i most certainly will wait for the issue to calm down [i was so pissed at my mom i didn't even wanna see or hear her over the phone...i just didn't want to interact with her in any sort of way]. so, yeah...cooling off is definetely what i need... also, since evryone here thinks i should press my boyfriend into getting his liscence [he's only a month older than me, so as to answer the "is he older" question], here's why i haven't done it: when i bring up the issue, even tho he remains calm, i know it bothers him...he's failed the exam 3 times already [the permit one...he hasn't, obviously, taken the actual driving one] and it's really frustrating for him. i never bring it up because of that. last time i did, he really got pissed. i handled it, of course, and we're stil together [ an argument that stupid is not enough to break a relationship that has lasted 1 year and almost 4 months]. so...that's why. if anyone can answer and advice to that other problem above mentioned, it'll b greatly appreciated. and to evryone that has already spoken, once more, THANK YOU VERY MUCH!! whee
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