.::Masturbation; Basics, Techniques, Questions Answered::.

[Booty Popping]

oOVintage CupcakeOo

There's another point to consider, I don't know if it's been pointed out before here, and it's that once you know how your body works and where all your buttons are, it's a lot easier to help your partner in pleasing you.
I've realized that the more I explore myself and orgasm on my own, the more I enjoy intimacy with my partner and I climax faster than before. x3

oh yesh, instead of your partner digging down there for the 'spot' all you have to tell them is ;oh, go over there and give it a few strokes' XD  

[Eternal Snow White Queen]

Well this is quite interesting....lol you better read it online than talk about it whith someone right whee  

[LibraryFairy11]

the second to last night that me and my exbf were still a couple, i was talking to him and we started in on this subject and hes like "are you doing any thing right now, and i said yeah, and we started talking bout what we were doing. It was funny me and him were both doing things.... and he started moaning quietly, and i gigled and kep up my moaning and saying things, then cause it turns me on he started saying things he would do to me... i was so enjoying the moment... then i heard him cuss, and i asked what, he was at his dads and was in his brothers bed, he said "i just cummed all over his bed, and i was enjoying myself." im gigling still laying on my back knees up playing with my c**t, he said oh well he aint done listening to me. i asked him how long we been at this he said three hours...... is it weird to do that stuff that long?  

[Dazed Poppet]

Thanks so much for this thread. It's really helpful. I just started masturbating a few months ago and it feels great. But I don't know if I'm doing it right :L I can tell I'm having orgasms but after a few minutes of it, I feel like I'm going to throw up and I have this tingling feeling inside me. Is this normal? Please let me know.  

[kittycross]

To Dazzed Poppet:
Orgasms feel different for differet people. Some feel things more like waves, or tingle or shocks. or one big gush or explosion.

Many women (and men) can experience differt sensations of orgasm depending on how and where they are stimulated.

Vaginal penitration orgasms can be great (those feel more like waves to me) but I think it's very different from a direct g-spot stimulation orgasm (I feel like a flooding burst) or clitoral or a**l.
It is possible for women to orgasm through breast stimulation, but many find this awkward and hard to achieve.


You might feel dizziness and elation with orgasm, that could cause nausea. Feeling sick or like throwing up could be psychological if you were raised to feel guilty about pleasuring yourself, but it could also just be adjusting to the disorientation.

As far as I know I have always masturbated, but I didn't have orgasms until I was 10. Then it was... WHOooa!!!!!!! And after I caught my breath a few minutes later, I had to see how I could do it again, but it was very disorienting xd  

[kittycross]

Oh. I wanted to say about wetness:
There is the lubricating wetness that is produced with arousal which can be wetter or dryier (or not there at all) depending on your hormone levels.

There is also female ejaculation. Not every one can or does, but if you can like me, by all means I hope you enjoy it as much as I do. And no, it's not urine  

[RainbowAlpacaz]

Um, so.. I really want to avoid masturbation... because my family views it as the same as "losing your virginity". My virginity is something I really value, and I would LOVE to wait until marriage... but hey, most have you have been fifteen before. It's hard to resist masturbating D:
So.. um... IS it the same as losing your virginity?  

[Tolora]

FluffySquirrelz

Um, so.. I really want to avoid masturbation... because my family views it as the same as "losing your virginity". My virginity is something I really value, and I would LOVE to wait until marriage... but hey, most have you have been fifteen before. It's hard to resist masturbating D:
So.. um... IS it the same as losing your virginity?

I personally don't do masturbate, but no it is not losing your virginity. A guy has to actually do you (XD) for you to lose your virginity. Your family is incorrect >_>;;  

[TheCassMeow]

I've never really told anyone this..
but i believe i have been doing this on and off since i was little. I never really realized what it was though until i was older, of course sweatdrop
But i kinda feel weird about it, since i did it when i was little. I realize it's probably normal buuut...

Also, alot of people at my school talk about and pick on each other about masturbating. I kinda just sit there going, if they found out that i do it they'd look at me differently!
Just thought i'd get that off my chest. redface

 

[Babomb-Dot-Com]

Alright...so, this is an embarrassing question that I'm not sure has been covered yet. I am 20 years old, sexually active (with only one partner), and seeing as it is long-distance, I am also in touch with "me". (That's what this whole page is about). Anyway, I have been increasingly interested in possibly buying an adult pleasure toy but I don't know what to get and am horribly embarrassed by the prospect of entering an adult store.

Any suggestions or help, please?  

[Hamsterliciousness]

I would like to thank all the great advice here! I know quite a bit about sex, but not all that much about masturbation rather then health reasons. Reading through here I learned a couple new techniques, and I can't wait to try them out!

When I see a sexual (health) thread, I usually give it a good skim through because there's some off advice, but from what I've read it's spot on!

I love how you covered ALL angles in the first few posts, it was very informative!  

[xena91388]

Late but I felt like replying.

What exactly do you consider virginity? Innocence of mind? First orgasm? or having an intact hymen?

If you consider innocence of mind virginity, then you probably already lost it by now. If you consider the experience of an orgasm losing your virginity, then there's no help for you. If you consider having an intact hymen virginity, then there is one thing you can do:

c**t Stim! The clitoris is made from the same erectile tissue as a p***s (in fact, it is what becomes a p***s when baby boys develop) and, just like a p***s, it responds to stimuli and can give you an orgasm if you "stroke" it right.

It's very easy to find some kind of vibrator or personal massager online or even at the mall (check Spencers if you have one). Orgasms from c**t stim really take the edge off when you're feeling horny.

RainbowAlpacaz

Um, so.. I really want to avoid masturbation... because my family views it as the same as "losing your virginity". My virginity is something I really value, and I would LOVE to wait until marriage... but hey, most have you have been fifteen before. It's hard to resist masturbating D:
So.. um... IS it the same as losing your virginity?

 

[queen ninty]

I have a question. I tend to rub myself(I think hump sounds weird) against one of my blankets or a pillow, usually around ten or eleven when everyone is asleep, and my lower torso and upper thighs get like a tingly feeling. Is that an orgasm.



.................... The only downside to this is that sometimes I get this pain in the outside of my thighs and I have to stop... emotion_facepalm

((Please quote me, or i won't know I have an answer or not))  

[tai-lerr--x]

Goddess -of- Gaming

I have a question. I tend to rub myself(I think hump sounds weird) against one of my blankets or a pillow, usually around ten or eleven when everyone is asleep, and my lower torso and upper thighs get like a tingly feeling. Is that an orgasm.



.................... The only downside to this is that sometimes I get this pain in the outside of my thighs and I have to stop... emotion_facepalm

((Please quote me, or i won't know I have an answer or not))

No, youd start moaning, and though Ive never had one personally, I am told that you will definitely KNOW when you are getting one. Just doing that is giving you "that pleasure-y" feeling, but its not so intense enough to cause an orgasm.