Questions About Sex & Sexual Health

[Hamsterliciousness]

eccentricanomaly

My questions.

How bad does sex hurt?

Sex only hurts your first few times (unless you don't lube for a**l, or you try n have sex before your turned on), and the very first time hurts the most because your breaking a mucus membrane. The only other time that sex can hurt is when you incorporate pain (S&M/BDSM) into sex.

eccentricanomaly

Is it normal to think that sex is completely gross

Well, before we hit puberty (and some, if not most, people still think its gross during puberty), we think that sex is gross. Depending on how mature the person is, and/or how they were introduced to the idea of sex, it could be normal. But if your going into your early 20's and you still think that sex is gross, then there could be a issue, and you'd need to ask yourself why. Though, asexual people do find sex (and masturbation) as gross and messy.

eccentricanomaly

Is there anything anymore that doesn't have to do with sex or love or anything along those lines? Because it's serously starting to piss me off when every single song on the radio has to do with that subject. (I'm not like, trying to be bitchy about this particular post. Actually, I like this post. A lot. I just don't like the radio. And is it really necessary to have a naked/nearly naked girl in every single movie for teenagers/adults?)

I think I'll stop my rant for now.

Now...this one is answered by society. Sex sells items and products. It has to do with psychology and attraction. Men think that (even if its unconscious thought) if they buy products with attractive women in them, that the woman would want to be with him (I'm using males as examples, it goes for women to).

Even though society shows thin models/actors/actresses in movies n everywhere in the media, (most) men do find that they want their girls thin, with a big round bum and a huge rack with silken legs, arms and body. Until women start to fight the image that society wants to subject them to, there won't be any change. I have a bit of a tummy to myself, and I've found that few men want a woman with a lil more to love. Society also does also get on my nerves when they show all these images.

 

[Hamsterliciousness]

eccentricanomaly

I have another question.

When there's girl on girl "sex" and guy on guy "sex", how exactly do they . . . do it?

Well...I'll PM u this question...

 

[Pink Mint Tea]

xX Princess Heartbreak Xx

eccentricanomaly

My questions.

How bad does sex hurt?

Sex only hurts your first few times (unless you don't lube for a**l, or you try n have sex before your turned on), and the very first time hurts the most because your breaking a mucus membrane. The only other time that sex can hurt is when you incorporate pain (S&M/BDSM) into sex.

eccentricanomaly

Is it normal to think that sex is completely gross

Well, before we hit puberty (and some, if not most, people still think its gross during puberty), we think that sex is gross. Depending on how mature the person is, and/or how they were introduced to the idea of sex, it could be normal. But if your going into your early 20's and you still think that sex is gross, then there could be a issue, and you'd need to ask yourself why. Though, asexual people do find sex (and masturbation) as gross and messy.

eccentricanomaly

Is there anything anymore that doesn't have to do with sex or love or anything along those lines? Because it's serously starting to piss me off when every single song on the radio has to do with that subject. (I'm not like, trying to be bitchy about this particular post. Actually, I like this post. A lot. I just don't like the radio. And is it really necessary to have a naked/nearly naked girl in every single movie for teenagers/adults?)

I think I'll stop my rant for now.

Now...this one is answered by society. Sex sells items and products. It has to do with psychology and attraction. Men think that (even if its unconscious thought) if they buy products with attractive women in them, that the woman would want to be with him (I'm using males as examples, it goes for women to).

Even though society shows thin models/actors/actresses in movies n everywhere in the media, (most) men do find that they want their girls thin, with a big round bum and a huge rack with silken legs, arms and body. Until women start to fight the image that society wants to subject them to, there won't be any change. I have a bit of a tummy to myself, and I've found that few men want a woman with a lil more to love. Society also does also get on my nerves when they show all these images.

I know a few guys who like their girls heavy, but that's beside the point.

Yup. Society tries to push these perfect images of sex and sexual bodies on us that only represent about 2% of the population.
The majority of people aren't that sexy and don't have sex like that. Don't be fooled. There are tons of happy active people who are content with their sexual lives that don't even come close the glamorized sex featured in music and on tv.

I also get annoyed at the "complimentary sex scenes" they always try to push in movies. scream  

[Lysabear]

umm..this is kinda embarassing to ask, but what is bondage? And are there different kinds? Like, i've heard of kinky sex and bondage and all the stuff, but what is it????


and what is girl on girl??  

[Rei Uchikino]

Scubas_girl

umm..this is kinda embarassing to ask, but what is bondage? And are there different kinds? Like, i've heard of kinky sex and bondage and all the stuff, but what is it????


and what is girl on girl??

1. Bondage is when you tie up your sex partner during intercourse. There's different kinds, like ropes, chains, handcuffs, etc.

2. Girl on girl is when two girls have "sex". I'm not sure how that's logistically possible, but I bet if you look up lesbian porn you'll find out how they do it.  

[Perfect Stranger 3-0]

Rei Uchikino

Scubas_girl

umm..this is kinda embarassing to ask, but what is bondage? And are there different kinds? Like, i've heard of kinky sex and bondage and all the stuff, but what is it????


and what is girl on girl??

1. Bondage is when you tie up your sex partner during intercourse. There's different kinds, like ropes, chains, handcuffs, etc.



2. Girl on girl is when two girls have "sex". I'm not sure how that's logistically possible, but I bet if you look up lesbian porn you'll find out how they do it.

1. For an example of a nice bondage technique (with some S/M added), check my last post in page one.

2. Read what's in white.

Lesbian sex is not that different, except that it doesn't include intercourse (unless toys are used). Some lesbian techniques:

-mutual oral sex (AKA girl on girl 69)
-mutual masturbation
-"scissoring" (rubbing their vaginas together). Is called like that because the legs are opened like scissors.
-using toys (like dildos and strap on on each other; vaginal toys and/or a**l toys)


There you have it.  

[Hamsterliciousness]

Scubas_girl

umm..this is kinda embarassing to ask, but what is bondage? And are there different kinds? Like, i've heard of kinky sex and bondage and all the stuff, but what is it????

I'm actually into bondage/BDSM. Now, bondage is a sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner. Bondage materials are (but not limited to rope, tape, gags, handcuffs (rope, metal or fuzzy), stalks, bondage wear, etc.

BDSM includes bondage, but includes stuff like hitting/spanking/paddling/whipping/cropping/etc your partner and causing pain. Pain is a trigger (in this case) that causes pleasure.

 

[Lysabear]

0.o....woah. Yyyeaahhhh, that stuff scares me, no offense.
What does BDSM stand for?  

[Perfect Stranger 3-0]

Scubas_girl

0.o....woah. Yyyeaahhhh, that stuff scares me, no offense.
What does BDSM stand for?

Bondage

Disipline

Sadism

Masochism

BDSM is the general term used for (when is used in a sexual way; this term is not always used in a sexual manner) sexual techniques that involve submission, controlling, enslaving (in a figurative way), dominating, and the like. xX Princess Heartbreak Xx explained this in a broader way earlier in here.


In this thread, I already posted (in page 1 at the bottom) a nice BDSM technique. You can look at it (is in white, BTW), and have more information on how to perform a BDSM sexual act. Is not scary, and I didn't use XXX language. If you have more questions or comments, you can PM me or quote me.
 

[iAgdistis]

xX Princess Heartbreak Xx

eccentricanomaly

I have another question.

When there's girl on girl "sex" and guy on guy "sex", how exactly do they . . . do it?

Well...I'll PM u this question...

Can... can you PM me, too? redface I'm only really wondering about the Lesbian sex, though, because I don't roll with guys in that kind of way. And uh... does Guy on Guy Sex hurt? Wouldn't it? o.o  

[Taormina]

Nozomu Kotori

xX Princess Heartbreak Xx

eccentricanomaly

I have another question.

When there's girl on girl "sex" and guy on guy "sex", how exactly do they . . . do it?

Well...I'll PM u this question...

Can... can you PM me, too? redface I'm only really wondering about the Lesbian sex, though, because I don't roll with guys in that kind of way. And uh... does Guy on Guy Sex hurt? Wouldn't it? o.o

Yeah, I'm wondering about that too redface sweatdrop  

[Perfect Stranger 3-0]

Taormina

Nozomu Kotori

xX Princess Heartbreak Xx

eccentricanomaly

I have another question.

When there's girl on girl "sex" and guy on guy "sex", how exactly do they . . . do it?

Well...I'll PM u this question...

Can... can you PM me, too? redface I'm only really wondering about the Lesbian sex, though, because I don't roll with guys in that kind of way. And uh... does Guy on Guy Sex hurt? Wouldn't it? o.o

Yeah, I'm wondering about that too redface sweatdrop

I already PM the two of you.  

[Hamsterliciousness]

Ok, so we don't go madly PM'ing everyone who asks, I'll post it in the thread (I won't be past pg-13 on this one, so please PM me or Perfect Stranger if your confused).

Gay sex:

When two men want to have sex, its close to heterosexual sex. They both treat each other to foreplay (licking erogenous zones, hand jobs, blow jobs, etc) and when they feel that they want to have intercourse, they use lube on their...bums and slide something in. (If your wondering how they find it pleasurable, its the rubbing of the prostate that makes it pleasurable.)

Lez sex:

When two women want to have sex, its the same foreplay (licking erogenous zones, fingering, licking other parts) and when they want penetration, they use sex toys such as vibrators, dildos, etc. (When the c**t is stimulated, that's what causes the good feeling)

 

[inu828]

what do you look out for?  

[Lysabear]

I have a question.

Okay, say someone is straight, but straight porn doesn't turn them on so they watch gay porn which does. Does that make them gay or bi?