Masturbation!

[Taeryyn]

Mikael Satsuya

this topic is just so wrong.

In what way, exactly?  

[Kerrigan_dragon]

It's actually really not. Masturbation is a natural animal occurrence. Even orangutans know how to masturbate with sticks.  

[X_X - Hemlock - X_X]

rofl rofl some of the things people are posting here just seem so amusing!
Although, if I had to decide who matubated more, guys or girls, I would have to say guys.  

[-Resurrected Writer-]

That it's guys usually doing that more has led me to some awkward moments in my straight relationships. Two girls whom I had been in long-term relationships that had gotten physical nonetheless felt too ashamed of their lady bits to masturbate, at least with their own hands. It was depressing.

My boyfriend, on the other hand...  

[Taeryyn]

-Resurrected Writer-

That it's guys usually doing that more has led me to some awkward moments in my straight relationships. Two girls whom I had been in long-term relationships that had gotten physical nonetheless felt too ashamed of their lady bits to masturbate, at least with their own hands. It was depressing.

My boyfriend, on the other hand...

Ashamed? sad That's too bad. I have female friends who are the same way. They don't like doing it, because they find their genitalia "gross". :s Plus, I think it's slightly more taboo for girls to talk about it, which doesn't make any sense.  

[Kalgara]

A lot of people shying up about something natural it's like middle school health class all over again hmm anyhow from what I've seen 50/50 but I talk with only open people i've gotten to know so  

[Zalaznick Valkyrie]

shiiiit. an ex girlfriend of mine masturbated like.. 4 times a day. Plus the amount of sex we had...

just saying. She was a straight nympho. And it was good. wink

 

[Zakery P]

Drixzy

Alright everyone. Who do you think masturbates the most? Gay men, straight men, lesbians, or straight women?
I find this an interesting topic because people always say that gay men are the most sexual, premiscuous, etc., though they also say straight guys always want sex.
So, the test of true horniness; masturbation.
How often do you do it?

just because i do..  

[Theodore Bell]

I have had this conversation many a time. I don't know whether sexuality has to deal with it, but guys in general tend to masturbate more because its easier to get to as well as it being a relaxer. Women don't have such easy accessibility nor do they use it as a relaxant because their bodies don't have to make more eggs afterward. I'm not saying that girls don't like to masturbate though, because some of my friends tend to really go in depth about masturbating.  

[Lyonette]

Wait, how is masturbation not a relaxant for girls? It's the release of endorphins, not of eggs or sperm, that makes orgasm so relaxing.

I would do it a lot more often if I could. I think I masturbate a lot more frequently than most girls my age. However, from what I know, I would say that guys still masturbate more, regardless of sexuality.  

[Madame Satine Le Diamant]

Drixzy

KyrosDevil XIII

This is a totally inappropreit subject. Not only is it asking people extremely personal questions, but this is definately not keeping it PG13 which I believe is a Gaia TOS and it is not a subject protected by being an indepth discussion that is held at a purely observational veiw. Also, keep in mind that we are still on Gaia and as such there are teenagers and younger present.

1.) This site is PG13, and if people who are under are on here, that's their own fault.
2.) If you're 13 and you don't know what masturbation is, you shouldn't be on Gaia.
3.) If you don't like the topic, don't post in it.
4.) Gaia has much worse. Have you never been in the GD or the Chatterbox? The topics there are very vulgar and personal. The CB has topics about tying people down, whipping them, flirting, and this is your concern?
Go somewhere else.

I think there is a fine line between what is appropriate and what is inappropriate. Depending on the OP's intentions, it could get out of hand. A nice clean discussion on the topic would be appropriate, but a vulgar and less educational and more se.xual discussion is inappropriate. Let's all keep it safe and fun. mrgreen  

[Skrapz]

I can't speak for an entire demographic like that, but I'll freely admit that I masturbate almost every day.  

[PervyKirby]

I think it all depends on the person because I know some guys who are total prudes and I know some freaky girls (not that I mind)!

Take me for example, I'm a girl but I find other people don't know what you want like you yourself does (if that made any sense). I tried having sex once and it was a total failure but I won't judge all guys on that experience. Cough...anyways, as I was saying, I'm perfectly fine with me and my hand, I mean, look at my signature! xd  

[MissDemeter]

I would have to say that more males masturbate than females do. It is, however, quite taboo to talk about it among females. I'm rather open about it. One of my female friends didn't even know that girls could do it. As far as I know, only two of my friends do it. One, because we often forward porn/erotica (mostly erotica) to each other, and the other admitted to being caught by her mother. A few friends denied it when I asked. And yes, occasionally I do ask people. I'm trying to get people to accept it as a natural and healthy thing, as opposed to something dirty and perverted. And so I bring it up as a topic of discussion. Of course, that has led to me being labeled as the dirty-minded member of my group of friends. Meh, whatever it takes.  

[Kamirose]

KyrosDevil XIII

Drixzy

KyrosDevil XIII

This is a totally inappropreit subject. Not only is it asking people extremely personal questions, but this is definately not keeping it PG13 which I believe is a Gaia TOS and it is not a subject protected by being an indepth discussion that is held at a purely observational veiw. Also, keep in mind that we are still on Gaia and as such there are teenagers and younger present.

1.) This site is PG13, and if people who are under are on here, that's their own fault.
2.) If you're 13 and you don't know what masturbation is, you shouldn't be on Gaia.
3.) If you don't like the topic, don't post in it.
4.) Gaia has much worse. Have you never been in the GD or the Chatterbox? The topics there are very vulgar and personal. The CB has topics about tying people down, whipping them, flirting, and this is your concern?
Go somewhere else.

I'm just speaking in terms of what the administration says is 'inappropreit' or not. I'm fine with this. Though to number four; two wrongs don't make a right lol. Anyway, your welcome. I got some discussion flowing in here after 7 days.

Okay, just to make things clearer on the ToS side of things:

Talking about sex is okay.
Graphically describing sex is not okay.

So a discussion about masturbation is fine as long as it doesn't go over that line. If your post is so descriptive that I can clearly imagine the sex that you are describing by reading your post, then it's not okay.