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Posted: Wed Apr 20, 2011 8:42 pm

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sigh..i tried...he HATE the feeling of lube...and he is VERY impatient when i try to inch in... crying

told him sooo many time we need lube...he just...sigh...I probably wont be in a multiple relationship though...i dont think i can handle TWO emotional needs

Well maybe you should let him try entering you instead. Or try other methods besides penetration? Maybe buy some toys and work up to the real thing. Try out different lubricants. Some feel different than others. If it seems like he's doing his best not to let u find a soultion then maybe it would be best if you two see other people.

sigh...we try oil base, water base...i am going broke for all the experimenting lol...funny thing he said they other day, he was going to buy me one of those fake bottom with the hole if i leave him alone...he just kidding but yeah...i shall figure out something..for now, its me and my hand tonight - pink rofl

Posted: Thu Apr 21, 2011 4:54 am

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sigh..i tried...he HATE the feeling of lube...and he is VERY impatient when i try to inch in... crying

told him sooo many time we need lube...he just...sigh...I probably wont be in a multiple relationship though...i dont think i can handle TWO emotional needs

Well maybe you should let him try entering you instead. Or try other methods besides penetration? Maybe buy some toys and work up to the real thing. Try out different lubricants. Some feel different than others. If it seems like he's doing his best not to let u find a soultion then maybe it would be best if you two see other people.

sigh...we try oil base, water base...i am going broke for all the experimenting lol...funny thing he said they other day, he was going to buy me one of those fake bottom with the hole if i leave him alone...he just kidding but yeah...i shall figure out something..for now, its me and my hand tonight - pink rofl

... if he really wants you fast and without lube, he wants to die. I can't imagine why anyone would want to get ripped apart down there, seriously, unless they want to bleed badly. gonk

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Posted: Thu Apr 21, 2011 5:02 pm

When you say that "He says it hurts" Im assuming you mean in the butt.

If it hurts him, you shouldnt put him through it.

If you arent happy with the amount of activity in your relationship, get another one.

Posted: Fri Apr 22, 2011 8:02 am

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sigh..i tried...he HATE the feeling of lube...and he is VERY impatient when i try to inch in... crying

told him sooo many time we need lube...he just...sigh...I probably wont be in a multiple relationship though...i dont think i can handle TWO emotional needs

Well maybe you should let him try entering you instead. Or try other methods besides penetration? Maybe buy some toys and work up to the real thing. Try out different lubricants. Some feel different than others. If it seems like he's doing his best not to let u find a soultion then maybe it would be best if you two see other people.

sigh...we try oil base, water base...i am going broke for all the experimenting lol...funny thing he said they other day, he was going to buy me one of those fake bottom with the hole if i leave him alone...he just kidding but yeah...i shall figure out something..for now, its me and my hand tonight - pink rofl

tried good old fashioned Vaseline? it's cheap (also know as petroleum jelly) and it works as lube. Maybe you shouldn't start with the real thing? Maybe start with a few fingers to loosen him up and then try it. Or...just don't put anything in at all. Try other ways of stimulation. I'm offering up many ideas because it seems that you really want to stay with this person and breaking it off just for sex might leave your partner a little upset.

I really think you need to drag him into a room, lock the door, and just tell him everything that you need to get out. What you want, how you want to get it, how your willing to work with him, etc. Do you two do anything else in bed or is this the whole thing?