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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 10:15 am
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Posted: Sun Feb 19, 2012 12:18 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 10:49 am
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 12:58 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 1:54 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 2:24 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 3:40 pm
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Crystal Ice23 Lady Kayura Crystal Ice23 Just a question, how can two girls or two guys have kids..? Adopt?
Adoption and surrogates.Ok.. thx.
And let's not forget that with the help of a donor, lesbian mothers could give birth to their own children.
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:48 pm
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 5:56 pm
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OceaNova When I classified as gay male, I always thought when (and if) I have kids, I would be Dad and my partner would be Papa. Since, I've come out as transgender and took the steps preserving my sperm in case I want children in the future. It's difficult though, because my partner and I have been talking about kids, and since chimerism isn't yet possible with two sperm, he wants to adopt. I thought maybe if we could get a surrogate mother, she could bear two children for us: one with mine and one with his. Is that weird? There is chance for a lot of issues and complexes with that, but I don't think it would get out of control...And I wouldn't mind adoption, but I don't want to pay $300/year to keep a specimen that I'll never use. I don't it'd be weird at all. And i'm not sure what issues you mean. Genetic wise it'd just be like step-sibilings. As long as the surrogate isn't like somehow your niece. But then again you'd have other issues xd I think it's a great idea to have two kids, one with each. No playing favourites razz
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Posted: Mon Feb 20, 2012 8:03 pm
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 10:51 am
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BSPBleach OceaNova When I classified as gay male, I always thought when (and if) I have kids, I would be Dad and my partner would be Papa. Since, I've come out as transgender and took the steps preserving my sperm in case I want children in the future. It's difficult though, because my partner and I have been talking about kids, and since chimerism isn't yet possible with two sperm, he wants to adopt. I thought maybe if we could get a surrogate mother, she could bear two children for us: one with mine and one with his. Is that weird? There is chance for a lot of issues and complexes with that, but I don't think it would get out of control...And I wouldn't mind adoption, but I don't want to pay $300/year to keep a specimen that I'll never use. I don't it'd be weird at all. And i'm not sure what issues you mean. Genetic wise it'd just be like step-sibilings. As long as the surrogate isn't like somehow your niece. But then again you'd have other issues xd I think it's a great idea to have two kids, one with each. No playing favourites razz
Thank you! What I mean by issues would be like playing favourites...I couldn't imagine myself doing so, but what if the kids get older and use that against us? I don't know...but yeah, I refuse to use any family member as a surrogate, ha ha ha! THAT would lead to some trouble rofl
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 2:38 pm
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OceaNova BSPBleach OceaNova When I classified as gay male, I always thought when (and if) I have kids, I would be Dad and my partner would be Papa. Since, I've come out as transgender and took the steps preserving my sperm in case I want children in the future. It's difficult though, because my partner and I have been talking about kids, and since chimerism isn't yet possible with two sperm, he wants to adopt. I thought maybe if we could get a surrogate mother, she could bear two children for us: one with mine and one with his. Is that weird? There is chance for a lot of issues and complexes with that, but I don't think it would get out of control...And I wouldn't mind adoption, but I don't want to pay $300/year to keep a specimen that I'll never use. I don't it'd be weird at all. And i'm not sure what issues you mean. Genetic wise it'd just be like step-sibilings. As long as the surrogate isn't like somehow your niece. But then again you'd have other issues xd I think it's a great idea to have two kids, one with each. No playing favourites razz Thank you! What I mean by issues would be like playing favourites...I couldn't imagine myself doing so, but what if the kids get older and use that against us? I don't know...but yeah, I refuse to use any family member as a surrogate, ha ha ha! THAT would lead to some trouble rofl Lol yeah. And kids will start using favourites against you no matter what bout the ages of 8-12. If the issue is sorted it stops. Or keeps going until they realize that's totally stupid and unfair even if it is true. I was thinking a way to be sure no favourites were played were to get two surrogates and not know which is which but that really wouldn't work..... Sorry I don't have any advice to handle favourites. My brother used it on me all the time growing up so I'm immune to it, and no matter what my brother and i did(we're twins) our parents never addressed the issue. But I'm sure if you emphasize that you love them both, and they're treated differently beacuse they're different people, it should be fine biggrin
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Posted: Tue Feb 21, 2012 3:27 pm
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Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 10:13 pm
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The Bodacious Soul Reaper
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Posted: Sun Mar 11, 2012 11:02 pm
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I'm glad you strive to become a parent ^_^ I've come across that thought as well though. But theres a difference between having a disease and having children, to having children and them having two fathers. With a disease, you have an actual chance of them having the disease, then you would know if they had it, they for a fact would suffer. While with having two fathers, you would raise your children to stand up for themselves, and not take bullying. Even if they did, you would be there for them. Every person on this earth, no matter how much they deny it, has gotten bullied in some kind of way. Some worse than others of course, but you shouldn't avoid having children simply because you fear they would be bullied. A child would be bullied either way, but if you would like to be more cautious with it, raise them to stick up for themselves, or simply ignoring bullying. With the names, one of you could be called "Papa" and the other "Dad" or "Dad" and "Daddy", just different ways to say father. I have a friend who has two men as fathers, and he calls them "Pops" and "Gramps" now that he's older, but when he was little he said he'd call them "Poppy" and "Dad". This was long, sorry! ^_^'''
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