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 Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 3:41 am
Lady Kayura Baka Wolfii Is it just me, or do some gays act like it should be an easy trip into another gay's pants?
Because straight people never do this with other straight people. rolleyes
Out of my personal experiences, those that try to get into my pants often/quickly/with little effort are all men. Women are interested in a relationship in addition to sex. Would it be fair to ask if all guys were perverts? No? Okay then.In reference to the bolded part...not always xP I know a few women that have used guys just for sex >_>
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 4:26 am
just tell him parents anyways, 13 is way too young to be telling people to have sex with you
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 7:05 am
angelfromdown-under In reference to the bolded part...not always xP I know a few women that have used guys just for sex >_>
I was speaking in reference to my personal experiences.
I'm not saying any one group does something which is what the OP seemed to have insinuated, thus my example.
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 8:59 am
I agree with the pink haired avi who's user i can't read(stupid itouch). You're all very lucky to be able to save yourselves for someone special and shouldn't ever worry about it.
And I think that no matter the traits of person, there's always bunches of 'em just itching to get into people's pants. Way of life eh? Why we invented no and walk away....
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 9:12 am
BSPBleach I agree with the pink haired avi who's user i can't read(stupid itouch). You're all very lucky to be able to save yourselves for someone special and shouldn't ever worry about it. And I think that no matter the traits of person, there's always bunches of 'em just itching to get into people's pants. Way of life eh? Why we invented no and walk away.... its VampChick094 and thank you for agreeing with me
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Posted: Wed Feb 22, 2012 9:36 am
VampChick094 BSPBleach I agree with the pink haired avi who's user i can't read(stupid itouch). You're all very lucky to be able to save yourselves for someone special and shouldn't ever worry about it. And I think that no matter the traits of person, there's always bunches of 'em just itching to get into people's pants. Way of life eh? Why we invented no and walk away.... its VampChick094 and thank you for agreeing with me ah thank you! So there. I agree with VampChick094. :3
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Posted: Sat Mar 03, 2012 9:18 pm
I think you handled it well. You might want to tell his parents simply because of his age. Part of it could be a sex hungry teenager, but there are teenagers who go threw that time without having sex. Sounds like he was used to getting what he wants.
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 5:20 am
I think I would've knocked his lights out, but I'm not the nicest person when it comes to people pressuring me about things.
I find that's true for both gays AND straights. In my experience, I've seen it on both ends, so I think it really depends on what kind of person you are, no matter what your sexual orientation might be. I think it was a straight person who actually asked me how it was that I could live without ever having sex; I was about 17 at the time, and I believe my response went something like 'I don't require it to live,' or something to that general effect.
In any case, I don't think it's just gay people who do that. It seems like something that's more common around people who are sexually repressed to me. Perhaps I'm wrong, but that's the observation that I've made.
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 12:36 pm
Well, some of them could be like me. When you're molested as a child, most people think that it turns you off sex for good....but others (like me) find that when they hit puberty and their teen years, they have bigger urges and desire than normal people. I know I became a pervert because it affects the way my mind perceives even the most innoccent of things said to me. I've tried to stop it, but it doesnt work. It does kind of throw people off when I tell them that I'm still a virgin, though. If they know about me being molested or they know I'm a perv, they think im lying. ( There'a a difference between being molested and sexually abused/raped. )
I'm just saying, for some people, its not their fault that they are the way they are. Other people who just flat out want sex....just for the sex....( as in bang, finish, leave without even a goodbye ), now, those people this doesn't cover. They can't use this excuse.
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 2:04 pm
Don't have sex. That's how I found out I'm lesbian and not bi. stare
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 8:51 pm
Age 18, and still haven't even had my first relationship, or first kiss. Haven't even gone on a date.
Do I want to? No, not really. If being in a relationship means I have to deal with all of the crap and heart-break and self-loathing that's plagued everyone I know, then no thanks.
Maybe someday I'll meet someone I really fall for. I might kiss them. I might get further with them. Who knows. For now, sex and physical contact doesn't appeal to me.
Good for you for standing up for yourself. It's very honourable to be abstinent through pressure.
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2012 9:58 pm
I find the easiest way to get people to not be interested in me is to tell them that I am asexual (which is true). Granted my full title would be panromantic asexual, but it is kind of hard to find someone that loves to go on dates and stuff like that, but wants nothing in return. While I am still interested in some people, I am finding the longer I go without dating people, the more aromantic I become as well. I have a feeling I will be anticipating a life without sex and probably without any relationships. Sounds pretty nice to me.
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:27 am
I hardly know the definition of being a virgin anymore. This makes me think about the subject all the more. I wonder exactly where I stand.
Only God knows... 6-6
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 12:29 am
xXbelovedXxx Don't have sex. That's how I found out I'm lesbian and not bi. stare Do you regret discovering that about yourself?
or is it the way you learned it?
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Posted: Sat Mar 10, 2012 1:59 am
xMeddle I haven't really had any serious issues of the sort, but quite a share of annoying ones. Usually whenever I encounter, or befriend another bi/gay male, it seems to become their sole mission in life to flirt and have perverted thoughts about my southern regions. I recall a few months back, talking to bi male, whom I only knew for a few days. He suddenly started sounding all seductive, and rambling on about how he "wanted it" if you get my meaning. It was incredibly awkward, because I barely knew him at that point. Fortunately, that experience took place over a skype call, but either way, it's still annoying. I don't like feeling like I can't know any fellow bi/gay guys without having to instantly become some sex object for them. I guess I'm just more of the romantic type who'd prefer it with someone I loved. heart I know how you feel. I know a lot of guys who say they're bi like it's a trend. Yet one of the guys I know has had tonnes of girlfriends and I've never seen him with a guy...
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