Labels are sometimes what people need in ordeer to deal with the world around us. Sometimes they can be hurtful. Sometimes it can give someone order even if its just ihn their head.
How do I feel? That love can go beyond sex and gender. Love is an emotion that can't be nailed down in aterms of sex or definition. You can love someone without wanting to have sex with them. You can love a life partner without even having a sex drive. It is indeed a seperate thing thing sexual drive.
Our sexual drive, if we have one, is just our personal preference. There are many things that draw us to someone and gender is merely a part of that. Looks and personality come into play. Most important, we shouldn't confuse having sex with making love. Anyone can have sexual relations with someone and it would be meaningless. When you do it with someone you connect to, its something wonderful.