should girls make the first move?

[Commander Sigma]

TigerLilyChick

I would personally never make the first move on the guy. I don't want to seem desperate. Plus, I'm a shy person. But mainly I feel like a girl shouldn't make the first move because she will be seen as desperate.

Anyone who sees you as desperate for making the first move is not worth your time. That kind of mentality - fearing people will think you're desperate if you make the first move - might not be helping how shy you are.  

[IVIoonBean]

yum_puddi yum_strawberry I think it depends on the person, as in who you are. If you really like someone, and you think they might like you too, I say make the first move, boy or girl it doesn't matter. The worst they could say is no, so...I'm all for it, if you feel its the right thing to do. yum_strawberry yum_puddi  

[physically nauseating]

I'd hold him fast in my fortress, lock him into my dungeon and never let him depart.
That's the horror of my love. Then I'd tear him open and live inside him .-.
True love is fearless.
If I love him then I'd do anything for him, anything, even make the first move, that wouldn't kill me, letting him go will do .-.