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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2014 7:56 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2014 8:32 pm
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2014 9:56 pm
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yeah, i can definitely bite the bullet on this one.
obviously, it's not as spread as homophobia (thankfully, as we don't need more hate), but it's there, because lots of people like to fight hate with hate.
i read a post wrong on tumblr, and sent the creator of the post an ask saying basically that in canon, that character wasn't trans, as a heads up. i then sent a follow up apology after i realized i read the post wrong and that they meant a headcanon. i later got an anonymous ask accusing me of being transphobic, and a "disgusting cishet white girl" who didn't know s**t and was oppressing trans people... by making a simple mistake. like, okay dude.
and it's getting a lot worse, it's really disgusting; fighting hate with hate is never a good course of action, and fighting people who could have been potential supporters of your cause because they aren't like you is never a good course of action.
i've seen stories about open minded people becoming horrifically racist, homophobic, and the like because of behavior like this, and it's sad; it disgusts me. and i've been called weak before because i don't think that acting like this is a good way to make change; racist, too.
and i'm terrified of speaking out, because of all the hate that people who do tend to get; sometimes people will even end up getting doxxed- their phone numbers, social security numbers, and so on are leaked online. x
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Posted: Mon Mar 31, 2014 11:01 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 03, 2014 8:46 pm
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Posted: Sat Apr 05, 2014 9:22 am
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Posted: Sun Apr 06, 2014 8:34 pm
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Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2014 2:18 pm
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Posted: Wed Apr 30, 2014 8:39 pm
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2014 3:12 am
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Posted: Thu Jun 12, 2014 8:55 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 2:52 am
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heterophobia? cisphobia? misandry? racism towards white people? please tell me you're joking. using those words as if they're comparable to homophobia, transphobia, and ACTUAL racism is a ******** joke
heterophobia is not real. cisphobia is not real. misandry is not real. reverse racism is DEFINITELY not real.
(i only mention reverse racism & misandry because someone else here did; i realize the discussion is mostly wrt "heterophobia"/"cisphobia")
is there discrimination? sure, we can use that word. for me it has stronger connotations than the situation deserves, but it works. but it's completely justified. it's not "fighting hate with hate." i have literally NEVER seen anyone (on tumblr at least) get s**t just for being cis/straight/white; i've only heard cis/straight/white people talk about it. there are jokes, sure, but it's not on the same level.
in regards to "misandry" at least, it's necessary. enough men are dangerous that women need to be on the defensive.
also the lgbt community being a loving, safe space?? that's also untrue. there is so much discrimination just within this community that i honestly can't say i really associate with it. just as other people have said, there's discrimination against bi/pan people. (which, btw, is NOT heterophobia; saying it's heterophobia means disregarding their sexualities)
and then, yknow, transphobia, and then among trans people there's transmisogyny, etc. etc.
i can't articulate this very well myself. words were never my strong suit...
also:
please don't say this. it's ableist.
EDIT: i guess i should clarify; "cr*zy" is an ableist term (though i don't think it's quite on the same level as slurs? hell if i know)
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Posted: Sun Jun 15, 2014 8:05 pm
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fernsehen heterophobia? cisphobia? misandry? racism towards white people? please tell me you're joking. using those words as if they're comparable to homophobia, transphobia, and ACTUAL racism is a ******** joke heterophobia is not real. cisphobia is not real. misandry is not real. reverse racism is DEFINITELY not real. (i only mention reverse racism & misandry because someone else here did; i realize the discussion is mostly wrt "heterophobia"/"cisphobia") is there discrimination? sure, we can use that word. for me it has stronger connotations than the situation deserves, but it works. but it's completely justified. it's not "fighting hate with hate." i have literally NEVER seen anyone (on tumblr at least) get s**t just for being cis/straight/white; i've only heard cis/straight/white people talk about it. there are jokes, sure, but it's not on the same level. in regards to "misandry" at least, it's necessary. enough men are dangerous that women need to be on the defensive. also the lgbt community being a loving, safe space?? that's also untrue. there is so much discrimination just within this community that i honestly can't say i really associate with it. just as other people have said, there's discrimination against bi/pan people. (which, btw, is NOT heterophobia; saying it's heterophobia means disregarding their sexualities) and then, yknow, transphobia, and then among trans people there's transmisogyny, etc. etc. i can't articulate this very well myself. words were never my strong suit... also: please don't say this. it's ableist. EDIT: i guess i should clarify; "cr*zy" is an ableist term (though i don't think it's quite on the same level as slurs? hell if i know)
you must be lucky and havent seen a lot of the blogs ive ended up seeing on tumblr, that site is becoming a cesspool
also some of us who arent mentally sound enjoy using the word crazy and feel its perfeclty ok that others use the word aswell smile
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Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2014 2:35 am
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Shanna66 you must be lucky and havent seen a lot of the blogs ive ended up seeing on tumblr, that site is becoming a cesspool also some of us who arent mentally sound enjoy using the word crazy and feel its perfeclty ok that others use the word aswell smile
yeah, ok, there are probably some extremists on tumblr. it's a given. but i've been on many blogs run by lgbtia+ (or is it lgbtqia+ i cant remember?) people and poc and, while there are quite a few jokes - some a little harsher than others - there's been nothing that even comes close to the s**t we face.
((please note that while i mention poc, i'm white myself so i certainly can't speak for them; i don't believe i've overstepped any boundaries wrt that yet but please correct me if i'm wrong))
and no, i don't care that there are people in the community who disagree with me. i feel, as a member of that community, that we have the right to vent and make jokes and be a little harsh toward our oppressors online. it's the only place we can. as you've seen, i am most certainly not the only person who feels this way.
also, i'm not "mentally sound" (what the fresh hell does that even mean) and i'm not okay with it. a lot of mentally ill people aren't okay with it. i know people who are triggered by the word??? and using it as an insult or treating it as a negative thing isn't cool anyway????? :///
i probably won't continue w/this convo much further, to be honest? discussions in general are not my strong suit, and i really don't want to argue anyway. i've put in my two cents, and that's all i wanted.
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Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2014 3:37 am
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fernsehen Shanna66 you must be lucky and havent seen a lot of the blogs ive ended up seeing on tumblr, that site is becoming a cesspool also some of us who arent mentally sound enjoy using the word crazy and feel its perfeclty ok that others use the word aswell smile yeah, ok, there are probably some extremists on tumblr. it's a given. but i've been on many blogs run by lgbtia+ (or is it lgbtqia+ i cant remember?) people and poc and, while there are quite a few jokes - some a little harsher than others - there's been nothing that even comes close to the s**t we face. ((please note that while i mention poc, i'm white myself so i certainly can't speak for them; i don't believe i've overstepped any boundaries wrt that yet but please correct me if i'm wrong)) and no, i don't care that there are people in the community who disagree with me. i feel, as a member of that community, that we have the right to vent and make jokes and be a little harsh toward our oppressors online. it's the only place we can. as you've seen, i am most certainly not the only person who feels this way. also, i'm not "mentally sound" (what the fresh hell does that even mean) and i'm not okay with it. a lot of mentally ill people aren't okay with it. i know people who are triggered by the word??? and using it as an insult or treating it as a negative thing isn't cool anyway????? :/// i probably won't continue w/this convo much further, to be honest? discussions in general are not my strong suit, and i really don't want to argue anyway. i've put in my two cents, and that's all i wanted.
fair enough smile we can just disagree on some things. sorry if my post came off at bitchy or anything. lots of sad crap going on at work and sometimes it makes me a little pissy at people who dont quite deserve it
yeah i consider myself white too even though part of my family is from the middle east. dont know where and i dont know anything about that part of my family thanks to a racist grandmother but im really pale like my dad so i just call myself white.
and i totally understand ranting online. i do it too. crap allies being my main pet peeve. and i honestly have no idea what our acronym thing is anymore. i just say lgbt and people know what im talking about. sucks that im leaving some people out but i honestly cannot remember them all
also i hate the term mentally ill which is why i used not mentally sound. i think it sounds nicer. couple things wrong in my brain that i need some meds for but i hate the term illness with long term things that have kind of had a hand in making me who i am
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