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Posted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 4:59 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 16, 2007 5:28 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 3:18 am
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Pure-hearted Conversationalist
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Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 3:59 am
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Posted: Thu Sep 20, 2007 5:36 pm
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It really depends on a lot of stuff. It's complex. If I dated the person I was with at the age of sixteen, it would've ended in divorce because he and I ended up breaking up. I don't necessarily think people need to play the field. Some people get lucky, and others don't. My boyfriend sees me as his one and only, and I'm actually his first girlfriend. He's actually my fourth "serious" boyfriend, but eighth total. Yes, I was one of those people who got into a few relationships when I was younger because I liked someone and they liked me back. Silly, really.
Anyway, if it's true love for both of you, then it should be okay. Just remember that you both have to give and take...sacrifice...compromise. All that stuff. I'm not sure how you guys are going to manage finances, eduction, work, etc, but hopefully it'll be alright. I mean, I'm almost 23 (next month) and I still live at home because I just graduated college earlier this year, and my parents have this thing where I can't really move on my own unless I have the money for it.
Good luck.
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Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 2:14 pm
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 1:24 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 24, 2007 1:56 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 12:50 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 25, 2007 9:09 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 12:26 pm
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Posted: Mon Nov 26, 2007 9:08 pm
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yes, i agree w/ all that's been said. it's very brave of you to take this life-altering step. i personally believe 16 is way too young. my sister is a junior and is turning 17 next month and i cannot imagine her married and sufficiently living her life w/ the responsibility of a husband, much more so w/ a future child. back then, and even now in some cultures, 16 is prime age to start a family, but that's due to living circumstances. people didnt' live much long, so they start a family as soon as humanly could. but nowadays, you have the option of choosing your own life. i agree w/ Sotur about strong love waiting. you still have your childhood to grow into and your own experiences to delve into. both of you are still growing. although, if this is what you deep down know you want and i think you're old enough to know how to dig down your own consciousness (like, analyzing yourself), then, hey, all the best of luck to you. but, you'll def. go through a hell of bumps, considering you're still underage. but if you're mature enough to marry, then be mature enough to handle those problems. remember, you're no longer just thinking for yourself. you're living for your family's future. and be prepared to wake up one day and realize both of you are different people. despite all that, i think it's sweet growing up w/ the person you love and have them be w/ you as you develop into your own woman. good luck! wink
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Posted: Tue Nov 27, 2007 7:30 pm
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I was married at seventeen, and am nineteen now.
I don't think there is a problem with you being married. So long as you two are devoted to each other, it'll be just fine.
Think of it as an opportunity to learn more about yourself and your husband, while becoming more mature and understanding the world better.
It'll be great, just make sure you talk a lot and have very good communication... if he is upset, find out why. If you're upset, go to him and tell him.
As a guy though, I'd ask the favor that you be staright-forward with him. Don't dance around the subject that's bothering you, and don't assume he'll know.
If you're upset, then say it clearly, and say why. The one thing that can get me the most upset/angry is when anyone (my wife included) will not directly address a problem.
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Khalida Nyoka Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 12:54 pm
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