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What is better to go for in a person? Looks or inner beauty? |
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Inner beauty.. Looks fade but the personality stays forever |
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Nope, neither im just bored |
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Gold, monies are my friend!!! |
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 6:19 am
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Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 8:41 pm
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Angel Of Sol Taxi Mama The most amazing thing about love... The person you love becomes beautiful to you! I am 40 pounds overweight, wear tank tops & men's shorts all the time, no makeup, with frizzy hair besides. And yet, my husband calls me Sexy, Gorgeous, Beautiful, etc... and I catch him staring at me googly eyed a couple of times a week, so I don't think he's fibbing. As I said, amazing! Ok, I have to ask (because he sounds wonderful, tie him up) does he have a single brother??? 4laugh rofl
Sorry, no! In fact, his brother is a married alcoholic with 3 messed up kids. I swear, it's just luck, not genetics or raising! But Wendy seems to be onto the same wonderful truth I've found, eh?
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 6:34 am
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Taxi Mama Angel Of Sol Taxi Mama The most amazing thing about love... The person you love becomes beautiful to you! I am 40 pounds overweight, wear tank tops & men's shorts all the time, no makeup, with frizzy hair besides. And yet, my husband calls me Sexy, Gorgeous, Beautiful, etc... and I catch him staring at me googly eyed a couple of times a week, so I don't think he's fibbing. As I said, amazing! Ok, I have to ask (because he sounds wonderful, tie him up) does he have a single brother??? 4laugh rofl Sorry, no! In fact, his brother is a married alcoholic with 3 messed up kids. I swear, it's just luck, not genetics or raising! But Wendy seems to be onto the same wonderful truth I've found, eh?
Absolutely! And it just keeps getting better!
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 12:57 am
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 8:27 pm
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Posted: Sat Sep 27, 2008 1:34 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 27, 2008 6:07 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2008 10:46 am
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Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2008 1:38 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2008 8:47 pm
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You know, I think one of the reasons that mostly women have posted here is that most men can't SEE inner beauty. I mean, sure, we'd like someone to get along with - but I can't tell if someone is lovely on the inside or not, often I have no idea even after knowing them for years.
Quite a few of my friends have just awful personalities, as a matter of fact. And one or two of my ex-girlfriends have been quite ugly inside as well, that's in addition to being somewhat plain on the outside, too (or so I am given to understand.)
Of course, my first thought on this post was: "You get to choose?" I've never really been a chick magnet, so it's not like I can sort through the possibilities. When I was younger it was really bad. I just pretty much grabbed at the first girl to show an interest, whether or not she was ugly inside and out... and often she was.
Now that I'm older, I find that most conventionally pretty women irritate me... and they're kinda expensive. Unfortunately, I've always projected the image of "money," even though I'm dirt poor, so guess who I've got to deal with most of the time? Yes. The irritating ones. Urgh!
So does that mean I prefer personality over looks? I guess. But it's not like I've run into much good on either front.
And, like I said: who can really tell what someone's like inside? I can't!
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Posted: Thu Oct 02, 2008 11:55 pm
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hahaha I like this topic.
For a long term relationship then you must want to talk to the person!! An older man once said to me, when you are married for a while you might not have sex with your spouse, but you will always have to speak to them.
But as someone who is still single and occasionally dating, to start a relationship, you have to want to go up and talk to that person in the first place (attraction). If you don't want to go get that person's clothes off, then it's likely that you'll end up just friends. So the person who I am more likely to date is the one that I want to get naked.
Now, I'm not dismissing personality, intelligence, humor, or behavior. But, attraction shouldn't be dismissed either when starting a relationship.
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Posted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 12:28 am
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Posted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 1:18 pm
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PHYSICAL LAYER People are like onions (or parfait); they have layers. Physical appearance is the outermost layer, which is the thinnest and least significant. I wouldn't be comfortable dating anyone more than ten years older, five years younger, 8 inches taller, or 100 pounds heavier. But I could be friends, if their personality was good. By the way, the shortest man I ever dated was 5'2" and 95 pounds; and it was COOL being able to talk while dancing.
PERSONALITY LAYERS How a person acts in public is the first hint of who they are. Watch how they interact with traffic, waitstaff, and strangers. Listen to how they treat their family, neighbors, and colleagues, to discover the more significant inner layers. Finally, find out what decisions they are proud of or regret, and see how they live out their values. That's how you know who this person REALLY is, and how they'd be to live with forever.
TRAITS I LOOK FOR I am drawn to high-energy, positive attitude, sense of humor, intelligence, and humble confidence. I'm repelled by cruelty, condescension, self destructive habits, and willful ignorance. What won me over completely? Responsible, respectful, considerate, self-supporting, nurturing, Democratic, and thinks I'm sexy. With all that going for him, it's easy to negotiate our differences over music, religion, pets, and child rearing smile !
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Posted: Mon Dec 01, 2008 6:22 pm
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Posted: Tue Dec 02, 2008 4:52 am
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Etoile de la Mer I'm stubborn. I'll wait for both. Looks attract me, but personality keeps me in the relationship. If the person isn't good looking, I won't even bother. I'll walk away. The only thing is...I don't see a lot of unattractive people. If they are sickly, that repulses me. I also have a personal preference for tall, slender partners. While I have seen some really beautiful people who aren't slender, they just don't give me that tingle. That's okay, I also don't particularly get turned on by blonds either. I also want a good personality. Why is there a belief that you can only have one or the other? It's almost as distrubing as the belief that good looking people are stupid. As a good looking and also an overeducated professor, I hate people thinking I'm stupid and bland because I look good. Probably just as much as overwight people dislike the stereotype of being lazy. I sometimes think thin people should jump on the bandwagon with the overweight people to protest society's stupid conclusions. It's not necessarily that good looking people are stupid. Stupid is as stupid does, no matter what you look like.
The problem is that there are a lot of people (ladies, some of us do this too) that know they are attractive and use their looks to play with who they hook up with. I have dated a couple really gorgeous guys who were so into themselves they ended up treating the relationship like crap, and me worse.
Give me someone with pudge, a beer in one hand and an xbox controller in the other and I'll be happy.
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