Questions About Sex & Sexual Health

[Hamsterliciousness]

Scubas_girl

I have a question.

Okay, say someone is straight, but straight porn doesn't turn them on so they watch gay porn which does. Does that make them gay or bi?

Now, this is a tricky question. There are several things that make someone "gay", "bi", "straight", and "asexual". All of them have to do with attraction to the same and opposite sex, how you feel toward the same and opposite sex, their fantasy's and what gets you hot n heavy. Many straight girls find gay porn hot, some straight girls even find that lez porn is hot.

I'm bisexual and I find both genders attractive, I hit on men and women, I have fantasy's about being with men an women, and both genders arouse me.

Gay (men) find that men are attractive, have fantasy's about men, hit on men, and men turn them on.

Lesbians find women attractive, have fantasy's about women, hit on women and women turn them on.

So if a straight person finds that straight sex boring (don't worry, I find it terribly boring) and wants to watch 2 men have sex, or 2 women have sex it doesn't make them gay or lez. Its how you react to the same and opposite gender.  

[Perfect Stranger 3-0]

xX Princess Heartbreak Xx

Scubas_girl

I have a question.

Okay, say someone is straight, but straight porn doesn't turn them on so they watch gay porn which does. Does that make them gay or bi?

Now, this is a tricky question. There are several things that make someone "gay", "bi", "straight", and "asexual". All of them have to do with attraction to the same and opposite sex, how you feel toward the same and opposite sex, their fantasy's and what gets you hot n heavy. Many straight girls find gay porn hot, some straight girls even find that lez porn is hot.

I'm bisexual and I find both genders attractive, I hit on men and women, I have fantasy's about being with men an women, and both genders arouse me.

Gay (men) find that men are attractive, have fantasy's about men, hit on men, and men turn them on.

Lesbians find women attractive, have fantasy's about women, hit on women and women turn them on.

So if a straight person finds that straight sex boring (don't worry, I find it terribly boring) and wants to watch 2 men have sex, or 2 women have sex it doesn't make them gay or lez. Its how you react to the same and opposite gender.

Very important!!!!

Another possible reason of not finding pornography arousing is this:
women aren't visual creatures, like men. Women rely more on audition and tact to get in the mood. We might get a bit aroused by seeing something sexy, but when it comes to really get in the mood, nothing beats the audition (dirty talk, etc) and the touch.


But when is time to look for something to amuse the eyesight, porn is ok. Plus, what kind of women doesn't find sexy two persons of the same sex doing it?!

Women on women-we find them sexy because we know exactly what we like in our own bodies, and having someone who knows exactly what you like is an instant turn on. Plus, lesbian porn involves more touching and more clitoral stimulation.

Men on men-do I have to explain why?! Two guys together is dangerously sexy. Remember Brokeback Mountain? Or any yaoi? For the same reason guys like to see two girls, we like seeing two guys in action; is good for the eyes.  

[The heart of reality]

Perfect Stranger 3-0

xX Princess Heartbreak Xx

Scubas_girl

I have a question.

Okay, say someone is straight, but straight porn doesn't turn them on so they watch gay porn which does. Does that make them gay or bi?

Now, this is a tricky question. There are several things that make someone "gay", "bi", "straight", and "asexual". All of them have to do with attraction to the same and opposite sex, how you feel toward the same and opposite sex, their fantasy's and what gets you hot n heavy. Many straight girls find gay porn hot, some straight girls even find that lez porn is hot.

I'm bisexual and I find both genders attractive, I hit on men and women, I have fantasy's about being with men an women, and both genders arouse me.

Gay (men) find that men are attractive, have fantasy's about men, hit on men, and men turn them on.

Lesbians find women attractive, have fantasy's about women, hit on women and women turn them on.

So if a straight person finds that straight sex boring (don't worry, I find it terribly boring) and wants to watch 2 men have sex, or 2 women have sex it doesn't make them gay or lez. Its how you react to the same and opposite gender.

Very important!!!!

Another possible reason of not finding pornography arousing is this:
women aren't visual creatures, like men. Women rely more on audition and tact to get in the mood. We might get a bit aroused by seeing something sexy, but when it comes to really get in the mood, nothing beats the audition (dirty talk, etc) and the touch.


But when is time to look for something to amuse the eyesight, porn is ok. Plus, what kind of women doesn't find sexy two persons of the same sex doing it?!

Women on women-we find them sexy because we know exactly what we like in our own bodies, and having someone who knows exactly what you like is an instant turn on. Plus, lesbian porn involves more touching and more clitoral stimulation.

Men on men-do I have to explain why?! Two guys together is dangerously sexy. Remember Brokeback Mountain? Or any yaoi? For the same reason guys like to see two girls, we like seeing two guys in action; is good for the eyes.

To make that point, let me say that reading M/M smut is extremely enjoyable. So is straight smut.

Here's my question: I really don't understand why licking of the genitals proves to be so stimulating. Why is it stimulating?

 

[Perfect Stranger 3-0]

The heart of reality

To make that point, let me say that reading M/M smut is extremely enjoyable. So is straight smut.

Here's my question: I really don't understand why licking of the genitals proves to be so stimulating. Why is it stimulating?

Because the genitals have more nervous ending than any other part of the body. The p***s head have over 4K endings, while the female clitoris have over 8K.

Plus the tongue has a better reach, is more flexible, and wetness has a smoother feeling in the genital area .  

[inu828]

im scared that the condom is going to break. how easy is it for a condom to break?  

[Rei Uchikino]

inu828

im scared that the condom is going to break. how easy is it for a condom to break?

In my experiences the condom has only broken when we were having rough sex. So I'd say condoms are pretty strong. You just have to be careful. Also as a precaution ask whoever you're having sex with not to ejaculate in the condom until after you're done having sex. That way if the condom does break there's a slim chance of getting impregnated.  

[SweetPam123]

even though im a little young for this but what is a hymen (did i spell it right?)  

[Rei Uchikino]

pamela3456

even though im a little young for this but what is a hymen (did i spell it right?)

The hymen is a fold of mucous membrane which surrounds or partially covers the entrance of the v****a of a virgin.  

[Rei Uchikino]

I have a couple of questions.

I've been thinking and I was wondering, how would a threesome work? Both between two men and a woman and two women and a man. Just how would three people go about having sex at the same time?

Also my boyfriend really wants to make me come. I'm not sure why but for some reason I just can't. Can anyone tell me some techniques he could use to help make me come? Also how do you know when you're about to come? And what does an orgasm feel like?  

[Hamsterliciousness]

Rei Uchikino

I have a couple of questions.

I've been thinking and I was wondering, how would a threesome work? Both between two men and a woman and two women and a man. Just how would three people go about having sex at the same time?

2 men, one woman: Now...there are some who prefer to have to men on their lower, one man on their lower and giving the other one a b*****b. If the man is bisexual, the man can be having sex with the woman, while blowing the other man.

2 women, one man: basically like the 2 men, one woman scenario, but replace the one man with a having (oral) sex with a woman (or using toys).

Rei Uchikino

Also my boyfriend really wants to make me come. I'm not sure why but for some reason I just can't. Can anyone tell me some techniques he could use to help make me come? Also how do you know when you're about to come? And what does an orgasm feel like?

There is a difference between someone coming, and orgasm (though with men you can't have one without the other, and both happen simultaneously). Women do ejaculate (not as...concentrated/forceful as men come out of their p***s), and that's considered "coming". Orgasms are defined as a climax of sexual excitement, characterized by feelings of pleasure centered in the genitals and (in men) experienced as an accompaniment to ejaculation.

 

[inu828]

Rei Uchikino

Also my boyfriend really wants to make me come. I'm not sure why but for some reason I just can't. Can anyone tell me some techniques he could use to help make me come? Also how do you know when you're about to come? And what does an orgasm feel like?

i have the same problem he comes really fast most of the time but he can never get me to  

[Perfect Stranger 3-0]

inu828

Rei Uchikino

Also my boyfriend really wants to make me come. I'm not sure why but for some reason I just can't. Can anyone tell me some techniques he could use to help make me come? Also how do you know when you're about to come? And what does an orgasm feel like?

i have the same problem he comes really fast most of the time but he can never get me to

This "problem" your bf suffers is called premature ejaculation. Is something many guys have problems with, but there are plenty of solutions for this "problem".

Try these things, to see if things improve:

_Foreplay-make sure to start off things slowly. That includes (for him especially) to take the clothes off slowly, etc. For you (so you could come), tell him to touch your body, giving emphases to your ears, neck, nipples, and clitoris. Kisses are a must.

_Sexual Positions-girl on top happens to be extremely good for these cases; it slows down your guy, and it stimulates the clitoris, which makes having an orgasm easier, and more pleasant. Doggie style is good too, since it stimulates the G spot directly. More positions, PM me.

About your "come" question. I think you're talking about female ejaculation. If that's the case, let me tell you about female ejaculation:

_Not all women are able to ejaculate.

_However, women with strong PC muscles are able to do it. Kegels exercises are needed to strengthen them.

_Female ejaculation doesn't happen all the time.

_The fluid is colorless, odorless, and it feels watery. You might ejaculated, and haven't notice it.
 

[Rei Uchikino]

Perfect Stranger 3-0

inu828

Rei Uchikino

Also my boyfriend really wants to make me come. I'm not sure why but for some reason I just can't. Can anyone tell me some techniques he could use to help make me come? Also how do you know when you're about to come? And what does an orgasm feel like?

i have the same problem he comes really fast most of the time but he can never get me to

This "problem" your bf suffers is called premature ejaculation. Is something many guys have problems with, but there are plenty of solutions for this "problem".

Try these things, to see if things improve:

_Foreplay-make sure to start off things slowly. That includes (for him especially) to take the clothes off slowly, etc. For you (so you could come), tell him to touch your body, giving emphases to your ears, neck, nipples, and clitoris. Kisses are a must.

_Sexual Positions-girl on top happens to be extremely good for these cases; it slows down your guy, and it stimulates the clitoris, which makes having an orgasm easier, and more pleasant. Doggie style is good too, since it stimulates the G spot directly. More positions, PM me.

About your "come" question. I think you're talking about female ejaculation. If that's the case, let me tell you about female ejaculation:

_Not all women are able to ejaculate.

_However, women with strong PC muscles are able to do it. Kegels exercises are needed to strengthen them.

_Female ejaculation doesn't happen all the time.

_The fluid is colorless, odorless, and it feels watery. You might ejaculated, and haven't notice it.

I think what I meant to ask about was orgasms.
Sorry for the confusion. I don't know much about sex lingo.  

[Perfect Stranger 3-0]

Rei Uchikino

Perfect Stranger 3-0

inu828

Rei Uchikino

Also my boyfriend really wants to make me come. I'm not sure why but for some reason I just can't. Can anyone tell me some techniques he could use to help make me come? Also how do you know when you're about to come? And what does an orgasm feel like?

i have the same problem he comes really fast most of the time but he can never get me to

This "problem" your bf suffers is called premature ejaculation. Is something many guys have problems with, but there are plenty of solutions for this "problem".

Try these things, to see if things improve:

_Foreplay-make sure to start off things slowly. That includes (for him especially) to take the clothes off slowly, etc. For you (so you could come), tell him to touch your body, giving emphases to your ears, neck, nipples, and clitoris. Kisses are a must.

_Sexual Positions-girl on top happens to be extremely good for these cases; it slows down your guy, and it stimulates the clitoris, which makes having an orgasm easier, and more pleasant. Doggie style is good too, since it stimulates the G spot directly. More positions, PM me.

About your "come" question. I think you're talking about female ejaculation. If that's the case, let me tell you about female ejaculation:

_Not all women are able to ejaculate.

_However, women with strong PC muscles are able to do it. Kegels exercises are needed to strengthen them.

_Female ejaculation doesn't happen all the time.

_The fluid is colorless, odorless, and it feels watery. You might ejaculated, and haven't notice it.

I think what I meant to ask about was orgasms.
Sorry for the confusion. I don't know much about sex lingo.

OH, ok. I'll PM you about orgasms 101. Then, I'll put in in here.  

[LuciaBane]

Wow.. this thread has been really informative and educational. biggrin That is, this is the first time I've posted in it but I've been reading posts in this thread for some time now..

I have a question, actually. Well-- I'm virgin. Blah, there I said it. xP And I'm over 18. I'm curious about sex toys.. I don't want to damage the hymen so.. I'm just looking for something that can stimulate the outside without the penetration..

So um.. suggestions? Or advice? ^///^'