Slumbering Princess
I agree with everything ThisEmptySoul said. I would have never known any of the information I commented on if you hadn't told me. And reading through my posts. I don't think I ever one said "so what else does he do?". So it got derailed once you started bringing up other things he does. In the end you are both young and you clash quite a bite. Just communicate is the last thing I will say. Good luck to you
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Whoa, I missed a lot.
Goodness. Otia, I will only ask once, but have you heard of co-dependency? It's defined as an emotional disorder and you seem to be a textbook case of it. Although you do not really NEED a relationship to be happy, you do NEED communication and socialization with someone like friends you may have.
Honestly, I think that both of you need a break, not a break-up, but a break to get both your lives in order. THEN, if you see fit, get back together. Neither of you is going to benefit by clinging to something that may not be there anymore. You won't know that you won't survive unless you actually try.
To deal with him being flirty is rather simple: put up with it or don't. It's your call.
