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 Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2012 10:45 am
Turn-ons:
-Intelligent
-Humorous
-STUBBLE
-Works out
-Hygienic
-Good w/ children and animals (I seriously melt at this)
-Uniforms
Turn-offs:
-Lazy
-Clingy/PDA
-Doesn't get along with my friends/family
-Only in it for the sex, not the relationship
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 12:08 am
Turn-ons:
~Blue or green eyes.
~Funny.
~Good with kids.
~Loves dogs. Must. Love. Dogs.
~Taller than me.
~Ambitious.
~Nice smile.
~Was in a fraternity in college. Hardly a requirement, but I was in a sorority and have always wanted to date a "brother."
~Spiritual. Same faith as me is a huuuge plus.
~Honest.
~Military. There's just something about a man in uniform...
~Can play an instrument, bonus points if guitar is one of them.
~Geeky/Nerdy. But not to the extreme or the point of being repulsive.
~Older than me, but not...old.
~On certain guys, glasses. Some guys are really cute with glasses, I'm finding.
~Trustworthy.
~Smart.
~Loves video games.
Turn-offs:
~Overweight or obese. I'm just not attracted to the "teddy bears."
~Lots of body hair. Reasonable amounts are okay, but I'm not a fan of hairy chests or backs.
~Too controlling.
~Illiterate online or in texts. Not a huge fan of chatspeak, u=you, or the lack of punctuation or capitalization.
~Hates animals or children. Loving both is a huge requirement.
~Doesn't have a car or doesn't like to drive. I prefer being a passenger and I like when a guy loves his car.
~Shorter than me.
~Vegetarian or vegan. I'm pretty much the complete opposite, it would be a huge disaster.
~Hippie. I went to college in a "4/20 capital," so I can judge.
~Doesn't shower. Gross.
~Facial hair. Some stubble is okay on some guys, but I hate beards and mustaches.
~Heavy smoker.
~Lots of tattoos or big tattoos. I would prefer none or maybe one.
~Lots of piercings.
~Too clingy. I'm more introverted, so I like my privacy sometimes.
~Long hair. If it's long enough for him to make a ponytail, it's too long.
~Unemployed. He can be working at McDonald's for all I care, as long as he's at least making money at this stage of life.
~Foot fetish. I hate feet, I don't want him doing anything to mine.
~Cheap/frugal.
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 8:17 am
Turn ons:
smart
polite
longer hair but not girls length kinds shaggy I guess medium lenght
play guitar
plays sports
muscular but not overly muscular
caring
mature
listens to me
good with kids
honest
taller than me
he accepts my weirdness
funny
Turn Offs:
lazy
immature
fat/obese
slob
shorter than me
dumb
not good with kids and pets
no sense of humor
doesn't accept my weirdness
hair that he could put in a pony
majorly controlling
bald~ sorry I like hair i can run my fingers through!
tatoos
lots of piercings
clingy~ I like my space sometimes
doesn't get along with my family and friends
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 9:11 am
Turn Ons:
Cute
Fit
Likes art and writing
Sweet
Listens
Smart
Does not lie
Tall
Just as strange as me, if not more.
Makes me laugh
Longish hair
Cares about me
Generous
Loves me
Turn Offs:
Dislikes art and writing
Not so cute
Mean
Not weird at all
Ignores me
Dumb
Lies
Short
Out of shape
Lazy
Slob
Short hair
Greedy
Doesn't care
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 10:08 am
Turn ons:
- He has to be tall.
- Be naturally thin~
- Have a beautiful smile
- Good sense of humour
- Pretty eyes
- Nice hair style/colour
- Piercings
- Sing or play an instrument
- Being a Christian would be a plus
Turn offs:
- Immature
- Laughs at me when I do something wrong
- Controlling
- Bad hygiene
- Rude
But I've already found my price and we're having out 6 months anniversary next Sunday <3
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Posted: Fri Jun 22, 2012 5:24 pm
x
 Turn Ons:
-Little stubble of mustache(idk why, but I looooove it)
-Great hair
-Lets me wear his sweaters/hoodies <333333
-Likes to cuddle
-Likes to playfully wrestle
-Doesn't treat me like his whore in public
-Talks dirty to me ;3
-My height or taller
-Good sense of humor
-Being a Christian
Turn Offs:
-Does drugs and (underage)drinking(though, I don't judge people that do it, I prefer a man that doesn't do it)
-Acts like a total a*****e
-Doesn't be flirty to other girls while were dating(I understand you're friends, but, come on >:I )
-Acts like a total gangster/punk
-Acting like a woman
-Being irresponsible and doesn't even try to work hard in school
-Having tons of muscle(like body builders, gross)
-being too thin
-Teasing me when I make a mistake ;-;
These are only a few :U
 Happy Summer ♥
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Posted: Sat Jun 23, 2012 7:49 pm
heart Turn Ons heart Has dark hair, skinny(like not too skinny), for some reason has glasses, a cute smile, a soothing voice, smaarrrtt, dark eyes, kkind, loving, can treat a girl right!, isnt afraid to show PDA(Public Display of Affection), is tan (not oarnge or pale..just naturally tan), can talk openly with me, funny/a good sense of humor, is sweet, can make me smile biggrin
gonk Turn Offs gonk If hes fat (a lil chubby wld be ok, but i prefer him skinny), is tooo short, is younger then me, acts different around me around his friends, wont admit he loves me, is embaressed sayinf he loves me or being around me, wont spend time with me, flirts with other girls (its k if he has friends tht r girls tho), starts drama, wont work, wont help with anything
Thankfully my boyfriend has everything on the Turn Ons list 3nodding he be amazin emotion_yatta
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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2012 6:25 pm
yeah i agree!!
I emotion_bigheart smart guys who are intellegent.
shyness, humour, and guys who smell nice. And also a guy who will be respecful to my asian parents and their culture emotion_bigheart
turn off, guys who don't bother with hygiene cause that's sick. Guys who are disrespectful n sexist.
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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2012 2:31 pm
Turn ons:
Blonde...I'm a sucker for 'em
Open-minded
Into music
Likes animals
Tall
A little awkward
Turn off:
Obnoxious
sexist
perv
manwhore
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:02 pm
Prepare for the longest list in the thread. <3
Oh, and the asterisks are must-haves/must-not-haves.
Turn-ons
Tall. I'm 5'8" so I need someone who doesn't stand on their tip-toes to kiss me.
Tough. Like, Red Foreman tough. Protective of me. Balls of steel. Ohhh yeah.
*Spontaneous.
*Honest.
*Hygenic. I'm germaphobic, so if a guy has dirty hands and touches me, I will scrub my skin off.
Neat. I don't care if he's a neat-freak or not, but slobs set off my germaphobia and OCD.
*Good-humor. I love people that laugh. I get nervous in conversations, and laughter makes me comfortable.
*Smart.
*Musical taste/musician. I can NOT stress this enough. I simply cannot get along with people that have horrid taste in music. It's a proven fact. A bazillion brownie points if he listens to Tool.
*Gamer. It's incredibly sexy when I can discuss/play games with him. ;P
*Respectful.
*Loyal
*Patient. I'm about half deaf and have bad vision so he'll need some patience with my constant "What" and "Where" questions.
*Genuinely loves me.
*Listens to me.
Stylish.
Unique.
Nice smile and eyes. <3
Chivalrous. It's so cute.
*Kind/sweet. <33333
Able/willing to cook and clean. <3
*Kitten. Like teddy bear in the sense of cuddles, hugs, and softness, but also meows when I call his name. I have this thing where I train people to meow, so...yeah. emotion_kirakira
Turn-offs
*Smoker/junkie/alcoholic. I wouldn't be able to handle it.
Slobbish.
*Doesn't wash hands/bathe.
*Constantly begs for sex. I will have sex when I'm ready, but for now, it disgusts me.
*Lazy. I can stand laziness to a certain extent, but pissing in bottles and not grabbing that remote that's an inch out of reach is ridiculous.
Imbecilic. I'm wise for my age, so I'd go nuts if I was with some dipshit.
Rude/disrespectful. Now, I won't get butthurt if he doesn't cut his porkchop into tiny pieces, but when people have pissy attitudes and are ungrateful, I go apeshit.
*Controlling.
Treats me differently/ignores me around his friends.
*Ashamed of me. I was done the first time. If he won't show me off after 6 damn months, it's over.
*Insensitive. There are too many pricks in my life. I don't need one macking on me.
*Boring. I never get bored, so if he somehow bores me, it isn't meant to be.
*Flirts with other girls. No. Just no.
*Awkward. "So...what do you wanna talk about now?" If you have to ask me, I won't know.
*Jo-bro eyebrows and horrid teeth. FIX THOSE THINGS.
*Whorish.
*Too much facial hair. Stubble and sideburns are fine though.
*Immoral.
*Compulsive liar.
*Greedy.
*Hairier than my cat.
*Cheap
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:22 pm
Turn-ons:
-Funny
-Born-again Christian
-Occasional stupidity
-Courageous enough to ask me out in person
-Ball-sy enough to ask my parents' permission to go out with me (yeah, I'm a goody-goody)
-Honest...even if it is TMI or might hurt my feelings
-Firm dedication and assurance in his beliefs
-Willing to teach me little things ( how to cook, play Call of Duty, u get it!)
-Passion both motivation/career-wise and romantic-wise
-Idk...dark, tan, Asian/yellowish-pale skin I like my guys like my chocolate: the darker the better
Turn-offs:
-Taking advantage of my trust and kindness
-Being clingy in the relationship
-Making ME wear the pants in the relationship all the time...KEYWORD: ALL THE TIME
-Calling my language, my faith, my culture, my brother & family, and/or me stupid
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:35 pm
Turn ons: Taller than me, Funny, sweet, CUUUUUUUUTE, blue or brown eyes, longish hair, (where his jaw starts) nerdy, PDA, not too clingy, snugglely whee , flirty, strong (I just want him to be able to pick me up <3) skinny, christian would be GREAT and complimentary.
Turn OFFs: fat, (I don't know its just eww >.<) short hair, (I wanna be able to stroke his hair whee ) shorter than me, glasses (well glasses are kinda in the middle some guys look adorable with them on and some...DON'T) emo, tattoos, too many peircings (its ok it he has like his ears preirced like on the right or the left or both but nothing else please) in it for sex, pervy, ignorant, and sexist
Probably more for the turn offs but I don't want to take forever XD
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 3:41 pm
Oh my gosh, these have changed so much over the years.
I love... a tall man, dark hair, some chest fuzz, strong, funny, smart, sweet, he doesn't mind if I eat more than he does sometimes.
I hate, needy girly boys who beg for a**l sex like their lives depend on it. Back hair, guys who are full of themselves.
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Posted: Mon Jul 30, 2012 8:30 pm
I like my men tall, compassionate, mysterious, brutally honest, willing to exercise, and just someone that can get me out of my shell. I also seem to gravitate to guys with either little hair or long hair. And usually brown or hazel eyes.
I hate guys who feel the need to hang over and drool over me, cheaters, when that honesty becomes more like a verbal attack... I don't like being taller than my boyfriends (I'm 5'10 and the shortest one I've been with was 5'9).
Thing is, if I'm with a guy who frankly tells me he doesn't care and then goes around telling me no one else does either, my confidence will waiver. I have the tendency to be a bit too co-dependent and I will believe it to where I'm a broken fragment of myself. I'm working on it, but it's difficult.
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Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2012 12:19 pm
Turn ons:
Kindness
Open mindedness
Understanding
Glasses
Nerdiness
Gamer
Into exercise
Loves to read.
Turn offs:
Total jerk
Totally close minded
Doesn't tolerate other's differences
Verbally abusive
Physically abusive
Doesn't know how to read
Hates school
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