Questions About Sex & Sexual Health

[LibraryFairy11]

Dazed Poppet

Hay im mean i think you and me are kinda in the same situation. I mean i realy want to and me and my ex boyfreind talk through fantasies and it was .... wow great. and i mean if me and him were still together im sure i wouldnt be able to say im a virgin right now....  

[flauterfli]

D: This thread is unfortunately inactive!!

@Dazed: it's normal to feel that way!
When you're young (and you are) all these new hormones are super overwhelming.
It's understandable that they might seem too much to handle
but no worries, you can do it. =]
Just remind yourself that you still have tons of life ahead of you
and don't need to be distracted so much by sex.

@bubbles: Most girls are more sexually aroused during their periods.
While sex can be gross if not in the shower, it can be more pleasurable.
For others, and this very common as well, sex can be too painful because of how sensitive we get.

The hymen is a small layer of tissue in the external v****a.
Sexual intercourse (penetration) will break the hymen.
However, vigorous exercise can stretch and sometimes break it.
The amount of pain and bleeding depends completely on the woman.
For some, especially non-athletes, it can be horrid
while others may not experience any at all.
Masturbation and tampon use supposedly stretches the hymen.

@Lily: A blow job is oral sex on a man.
It involves sucking, licking, and biting -- but rarely actual blowing.

Question regarding blowjobs...
Is it normal for a girl to get pleasure out of them?  

[RainbowAlpacaz]

I have questions...

1) Umm.... are you supposed to shave your "special area" (since I am not sure what to call it =P)

2) Why exactly do people say "Brianna, you are not fat. You have that pudge, but that's what you hang on to." Why would you hang on to it?  

[Moxcella]

FluffySquirrelz

I have questions...

1) Umm.... are you supposed to shave your "special area" (since I am not sure what to call it =P)

2) Why exactly do people say "Brianna, you are not fat. You have that pudge, but that's what you hang on to." Why would you hang on to it?

For the first question..
You don't have to if you don't want to but most gal's do shave their ' special area '

 

[Satil]

flauterfli

Question regarding blowjobs...
Is it normal for a girl to get pleasure out of them?

Yes. Most people get pleasure from pleasing their partners.

FluffySquirrelz

I have questions...

1) Umm.... are you supposed to shave your "special area" (since I am not sure what to call it =P)

2) Why exactly do people say "Brianna, you are not fat. You have that pudge, but that's what you hang on to." Why would you hang on to it?

1) Only if you want to. You don't have to. I personally find it more comfortable to keep things under control. If left unchecked I tend to get itchy.

2) For hip pulling. cool Or the innocent sweet version- For close hugs and cuddles.  

[Dazed Poppet]

Thanks everyone, for your help.

I have another question... well, it's not particularly a question... but yea...

Anyway... I'm sort of scared of... "man parts". I think they're gross and weird. But since these hormones of mine are retarded, I really want to have sex... So my trouble is that even though I really want the pleasure of sex... I don't want to actually have a "man part" inside me.

So I was just wondering what I should do to resolve this? (I'm much too young for dildos and other sex toys :S)

*** Might I add that masturbation isn't working. I've been trying to satisfy my sexual carvings with it, but it's not helping***  

[Daffodil the Destroyer]

FluffySquirrelz

I have questions...

1) Umm.... are you supposed to shave your "special area" (since I am not sure what to call it =P)

You're not "supposed" to shave anything; it's a matter of preference. Personally, I get horrid ingrown hairs and I itch like hell if I shave, so I don't do it. I just trim with scissors to keep things from getting too unruly.

 

[xena91388]

How can man bits be scary! They're so beautiful! It's the lady bits that scare me. If a girl doesn't wash properly, who knows what they got growing in there! (My fear is really stemming from a *non-blood* phobia of bodily fluids gonk I hated working in a retirement home!)

Anyways! Too young to buy toys or too young to use them? Personally I think no gal is too young for a good vibrator! 3nodding You don't need to buy anything big or insert-able, outside stim works too.

~Toy Ideas~

1) The Shower Head - Do you have one of those showers with a "massaging" pulsing shower head on an expendable attachment? If so, go wild!

2) Personal Massager - You can find these in a dollar store, pharmacy, wal-mart, bath&body store, anywhere they sell stuff for natural beauty! They are small, round, some battery run or plug in, and they vibrate. If used right they can pack a satisfying punch!

3) Vibrating d***o - They sell tiny ones and even "virgin" sizes for young women who don't want anything too "rough" or just begining. Most malls have a store called Spencer's which actually sell such stuff at good prices. Most of the time the staff won't ask for ID as long as you look old enough.

4) O.k., I'm out of ideas. Hmmm, I did see Eliot using a washing machine on Scrubs but good luck explaining that one to the folks when they ask you why you're sitting there.

Dazed Poppet

Thanks everyone, for your help.

I have another question... well, it's not particularly a question... but yea...

Anyway... I'm sort of scared of... "man parts". I think they're gross and weird. But since these hormones of mine are retarded, I really want to have sex... So my trouble is that even though I really want the pleasure of sex... I don't want to actually have a "man part" inside me.

So I was just wondering what I should do to resolve this? (I'm much too young for dildos and other sex toys :S)

*** Might I add that masturbation isn't working. I've been trying to satisfy my sexual carvings with it, but it's not helping***

 

[Dazed Poppet]

Lol, I'll consider it XD
I might buy a little massager from home outfitters, but what do you exactly do with it? Put it on your... lady bits? :S

xena91388

How can man bits be scary! They're so beautiful! It's the lady bits that scare me. If a girl doesn't wash properly, who knows what they got growing in there! (My fear is really stemming from a *non-blood* phobia of bodily fluids gonk I hated working in a retirement home!)

Anyways! Too young to buy toys or too young to use them? Personally I think no gal is too young for a good vibrator! 3nodding You don't need to buy anything big or insert-able, outside stim works too.

~Toy Ideas~

1) The Shower Head - Do you have one of those showers with a "massaging" pulsing shower head on an expendable attachment? If so, go wild!

2) Personal Massager - You can find these in a dollar store, pharmacy, wal-mart, bath&body store, anywhere they sell stuff for natural beauty! They are small, round, some battery run or plug in, and they vibrate. If used right they can pack a satisfying punch!

3) Vibrating d***o - They sell tiny ones and even "virgin" sizes for young women who don't want anything too "rough" or just begining. Most malls have a store called Spencer's which actually sell such stuff at good prices. Most of the time the staff won't ask for ID as long as you look old enough.

4) O.k., I'm out of ideas. Hmmm, I did see Eliot using a washing machine on Scrubs but good luck explaining that one to the folks when they ask you why you're sitting there.

Dazed Poppet

Thanks everyone, for your help.

I have another question... well, it's not particularly a question... but yea...

Anyway... I'm sort of scared of... "man parts". I think they're gross and weird. But since these hormones of mine are retarded, I really want to have sex... So my trouble is that even though I really want the pleasure of sex... I don't want to actually have a "man part" inside me.

So I was just wondering what I should do to resolve this? (I'm much too young for dildos and other sex toys :S)

*** Might I add that masturbation isn't working. I've been trying to satisfy my sexual carvings with it, but it's not helping***

 

[xena91388]

What do you expect to do with it? I doubt it would do much good on your arm rofl

Dazed Poppet

Lol, I'll consider it XD
I might buy a little massager from home outfitters, but what do you exactly do with it? Put it on your... lady bits? :S

xena91388

How can man bits be scary! They're so beautiful! It's the lady bits that scare me. If a girl doesn't wash properly, who knows what they got growing in there! (My fear is really stemming from a *non-blood* phobia of bodily fluids gonk I hated working in a retirement home!)

Anyways! Too young to buy toys or too young to use them? Personally I think no gal is too young for a good vibrator! 3nodding You don't need to buy anything big or insert-able, outside stim works too.

~Toy Ideas~

1) The Shower Head - Do you have one of those showers with a "massaging" pulsing shower head on an expendable attachment? If so, go wild!

2) Personal Massager - You can find these in a dollar store, pharmacy, wal-mart, bath&body store, anywhere they sell stuff for natural beauty! They are small, round, some battery run or plug in, and they vibrate. If used right they can pack a satisfying punch!

3) Vibrating d***o - They sell tiny ones and even "virgin" sizes for young women who don't want anything too "rough" or just begining. Most malls have a store called Spencer's which actually sell such stuff at good prices. Most of the time the staff won't ask for ID as long as you look old enough.

4) O.k., I'm out of ideas. Hmmm, I did see Eliot using a washing machine on Scrubs but good luck explaining that one to the folks when they ask you why you're sitting there.

Dazed Poppet

Thanks everyone, for your help.

I have another question... well, it's not particularly a question... but yea...

Anyway... I'm sort of scared of... "man parts". I think they're gross and weird. But since these hormones of mine are retarded, I really want to have sex... So my trouble is that even though I really want the pleasure of sex... I don't want to actually have a "man part" inside me.

So I was just wondering what I should do to resolve this? (I'm much too young for dildos and other sex toys :S)

*** Might I add that masturbation isn't working. I've been trying to satisfy my sexual carvings with it, but it's not helping***

 

[Dazed Poppet]

Haha, I guess you're right. I'll think about it :3

xena91388

What do you expect to do with it? I doubt it would do much good on your arm rofl

Dazed Poppet

Lol, I'll consider it XD
I might buy a little massager from home outfitters, but what do you exactly do with it? Put it on your... lady bits? :S

xena91388

How can man bits be scary! They're so beautiful! It's the lady bits that scare me. If a girl doesn't wash properly, who knows what they got growing in there! (My fear is really stemming from a *non-blood* phobia of bodily fluids gonk I hated working in a retirement home!)

Anyways! Too young to buy toys or too young to use them? Personally I think no gal is too young for a good vibrator! 3nodding You don't need to buy anything big or insert-able, outside stim works too.

~Toy Ideas~

1) The Shower Head - Do you have one of those showers with a "massaging" pulsing shower head on an expendable attachment? If so, go wild!

2) Personal Massager - You can find these in a dollar store, pharmacy, wal-mart, bath&body store, anywhere they sell stuff for natural beauty! They are small, round, some battery run or plug in, and they vibrate. If used right they can pack a satisfying punch!

3) Vibrating d***o - They sell tiny ones and even "virgin" sizes for young women who don't want anything too "rough" or just begining. Most malls have a store called Spencer's which actually sell such stuff at good prices. Most of the time the staff won't ask for ID as long as you look old enough.

4) O.k., I'm out of ideas. Hmmm, I did see Eliot using a washing machine on Scrubs but good luck explaining that one to the folks when they ask you why you're sitting there.

Dazed Poppet

Thanks everyone, for your help.

I have another question... well, it's not particularly a question... but yea...

Anyway... I'm sort of scared of... "man parts". I think they're gross and weird. But since these hormones of mine are retarded, I really want to have sex... So my trouble is that even though I really want the pleasure of sex... I don't want to actually have a "man part" inside me.

So I was just wondering what I should do to resolve this? (I'm much too young for dildos and other sex toys :S)

*** Might I add that masturbation isn't working. I've been trying to satisfy my sexual carvings with it, but it's not helping***

 

[LibraryFairy11]

okay....welll...... Me and my boyfriend are realy been together alot lately. We make out sit and talk and ect. lately he's been sliping his hands in my pants. and in return i play with his d**k.... He asked me if he could have some sexy pictures of me.... and was wondering if you have any ideal poses...  

[Aularen has quit]

I've got a question. Sorry if it's already posted, but I didn't feel like going through over thirty pages to find it. xp Anyways, what exactly is the G spot?  

[Amitia]

LibraryFairy11

okay....welll...... Me and my boyfriend are realy been together alot lately. We make out sit and talk and ect. lately he's been sliping his hands in my pants. and in return i play with his d**k.... He asked me if he could have some sexy pictures of me.... and was wondering if you have any ideal poses...

Hope this answer isn't too late! (it's been a month, after all)
It really depends on what he likes, you should ask for tips and suggestions. My boyfriend asked for similar pictures when we were in a long-distance relationship, and I was totally clueless about what kind of poses I should do, so I asked him. Turns out he did have some poses in mind already, or at least some details about sexy pictures that he really likes. : P
Is this the same boyfriend you're talking about in your signature, though? If he's not treating you right, you certainly don't need to take any pictures for him. o:


As for Aularen's question, I'd like to know the answer to that one as well. :3