Questions About Sex & Sexual Health

[Empty Spiral]

BPD PsychoBytch

Sorry for quite the long absence from this topic you guys, I haven't been Guilding for a while, but I've been answering questions by people's PM's. I am xX Princess Heartbreak Xx, I changed my screen name to something I found more fitting.

I still am open to all PM's if you don't feel comfortable posting your questions here, please take a look at the first page for my specializations. I will try my best to answer questions outside of my expertise, whether it takes asking nurses to doctors (if necessary).

I will try my best to check into this topic every other day, but I do have somewhat of a life, but will do my best to respond as soon as possible. All questions will be quoted so you get a notification that your question is answered.

[~+~]

You're doing a great job hun. heart

 

[Hamsterliciousness]

Empty Spiral

BPD PsychoBytch

Sorry for quite the long absence from this topic you guys, I haven't been Guilding for a while, but I've been answering questions by people's PM's. I am xX Princess Heartbreak Xx, I changed my screen name to something I found more fitting.

I still am open to all PM's if you don't feel comfortable posting your questions here, please take a look at the first page for my specializations. I will try my best to answer questions outside of my expertise, whether it takes asking nurses to doctors (if necessary).

I will try my best to check into this topic every other day, but I do have somewhat of a life, but will do my best to respond as soon as possible. All questions will be quoted so you get a notification that your question is answered.

[~+~]

You're doing a great job hun. heart

Aww thanks

 

[Kyrene of Valhalla]

BPD PsychoBytch

The HPV vaccine is a precaution, and since it's so new (only about 5 or so years old to the public), we still don't know the full effects (since it is a life long vaccine) to reduce the transmission of HPV and prevention of cervical cancer.

I was told by my gyno I am a carrier, but there is a extremely low chance that it will become active in my body unless I catch it from a partner in conventional means (mainly unprotected vaginal, a**l, or oral sex), or that I will pass it onto my child and they'll get the infection.

You're sexual partner will have no risk of catching your HPV as active infection unless you have it as a active infection yourself.

That's the thing though, my doctor hasn't even had me checked to see if I "have" it. He just wants me to get the shots anyways. Well he told me to consider getting them (my previous doctor said the same thing too). I just want to know if I can still get the shots even if I've been sexually active ^^;

 

[Hamsterliciousness]

Kyrene of Valhalla

BPD PsychoBytch

The HPV vaccine is a precaution, and since it's so new (only about 5 or so years old to the public), we still don't know the full effects (since it is a life long vaccine) to reduce the transmission of HPV and prevention of cervical cancer.

I was told by my gyno I am a carrier, but there is a extremely low chance that it will become active in my body unless I catch it from a partner in conventional means (mainly unprotected vaginal, a**l, or oral sex), or that I will pass it onto my child and they'll get the infection.

You're sexual partner will have no risk of catching your HPV as active infection unless you have it as a active infection yourself.

That's the thing though, my doctor hasn't even had me checked to see if I "have" it. He just wants me to get the shots anyways. Well he told me to consider getting them (my previous doctor said the same thing too). I just want to know if I can still get the shots even if I've been sexually active ^^;

The reason why they advise women to get it is because there is a large portion of society that has it, but doesn't show symptoms (the carriers). Getting it is like getting any other vaccine. You'll feel a little sick for about 1-2 weeks after getting it, but you can still be sexually active from what I've read. If you do feel like abstaining from sex while you feel slightly under the weather, that's your choice. smile I hope I helped sweatdrop

 

[Kyrene of Valhalla]

BPD PsychoBytch

The reason why they advise women to get it is because there is a large portion of society that has it, but doesn't show symptoms (the carriers). Getting it is like getting any other vaccine. You'll feel a little sick for about 1-2 weeks after getting it, but you can still be sexually active from what I've read. If you do feel like abstaining from sex while you feel slightly under the weather, that's your choice. smile I hope I helped sweatdrop

Okie dokie. You did! Thank you very much ^^! <3

 

[Hamsterliciousness]

Kyrene of Valhalla

BPD PsychoBytch

The reason why they advise women to get it is because there is a large portion of society that has it, but doesn't show symptoms (the carriers). Getting it is like getting any other vaccine. You'll feel a little sick for about 1-2 weeks after getting it, but you can still be sexually active from what I've read. If you do feel like abstaining from sex while you feel slightly under the weather, that's your choice. smile I hope I helped sweatdrop

Okie dokie. You did! Thank you very much ^^! <3

Np smile Have fun smile

 

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

How do you know if you are asexual? The question sadly pertains not to me but to someone I'm interested in dating.  

[Rained_on_Butterfly]

Kaiyle Brightblade

How do you know if you are asexual? The question sadly pertains not to me but to someone I'm interested in dating.

If you're asexual - then you probably wouldn't have an interest in dating people XD From what I understand - people who are asexual just don't find other's attractive or something along those lines x3  

[xena91388]

To be asexual means they have no desire for sex and do not get sexually aroused by anything. They can still date and love someone but they probably wouldn't be able to get very intimate with that person. Asexual people can still have sex though, they will probably just see it as a chore or ritual.

For the longest time I thought I might be asexual because my reaction to nudity and pornographic pictures is apathetic and clinical, I just don't care, but then I read this one really hawt Lady's Porn *cough* Romance Novel, and afterwards I was like: "OhBBY! Do me next!!" *roawer!* Pictures and videos do nothing for me but literature. . . . .

Maybe they just haven't found what turns them on yet?

Kaiyle Brightblade

How do you know if you are asexual? The question sadly pertains not to me but to someone I'm interested in dating.

 

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

xena91388

To be asexual means they have no desire for sex and do not get sexually aroused by anything. They can still date and love someone but they probably wouldn't be able to get very intimate with that person. Asexual people can still have sex though, they will probably just see it as a chore or ritual.

For the longest time I thought I might be asexual because my reaction to nudity and pornographic pictures is apathetic and clinical, I just don't care, but then I read this one really hawt Lady's Porn *cough* Romance Novel, and afterwards I was like: "OhBBY! Do me next!!" *roawer!* Pictures and videos do nothing for me but literature. . . . .

Maybe they just haven't found what turns them on yet?

Kaiyle Brightblade

How do you know if you are asexual? The question sadly pertains not to me but to someone I'm interested in dating.

He told me he thinks he's asexual because he's never wanted to date anyone before. I told him maybe he just hasn't met the right person yet.

That sounds a bit different than not wanting to have sex. But I guess either way there's not much I can do about it.  

[xena91388]

Asexual is a term that applies to the physical aspect so yeah maybe he just hasn't met "the one" because like I said before, they can fall in love and care for someone.

If he's directly telling you he has no interest in dating, he may just be trying to let you down nicely. Sorry sad

Kaiyle Brightblade

 

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

xena91388

Asexual is a term that applies to the physical aspect so yeah maybe he just hasn't met "the one" because like I said before, they can fall in love and care for someone.

If he's directly telling you he has no interest in dating, he may just be trying to let you down nicely. Sorry sad

Kaiyle Brightblade

He'd already told me he had no interest in dating me, and I accepted that. He said after that he thought he might be asexual, because like I said, he had never had any interest in dating anyone. I'm pretty sure it was a genuine admission.

I guess I posted this because I was a bit curious as to how or why someone would never get the urge to date anyone. He did say he had a few crushes before. I didn't think it was because he was asexual, because I thought asexuals could still develop emotional relationships. To me it sounds kind of like a mental block. Its none of my business of course and I don't plan to discuss it again unless he brings it up, but I was still curious.  

[Bipolar Masquerade]

So my boyfriend really wants to do a**l, but every time we've tried, its hurt like hell, even with tons of lube. Is there something wrong with me?  

[Kaiyle Brightblade]

Bipolar Masquerade

So my boyfriend really wants to do a**l, but every time we've tried, its hurt like hell, even with tons of lube. Is there something wrong with me?

Of course not! You have to relax your muscles or it will hurt.  

[tai-lerr--x]

Whats S&M? All the sudden I hear all my friends talking about it and I have no idea what it is.