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 Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2012 4:24 pm
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Gigi Deveraux I can't believe I'm actually posting here... cat_sweatdrop I used to be the one everybody came to for advice, but... I have a bit of a problem lately. I'm, well... perpetually horny. Masturbation helps, but it never really goes away. I'm on the Pill, so it's likely not a hormonal-rollercoaster thing. Any ideas as to causes and/or solutions?
I'm actually going through the same problem right now (my boyfriend says he's sore from last week when we actually had smexy time for the first time in months).
Do you have any fetishes you could play out (safely)? Anything from orgasm denial (it builds up the tension for the next time you play) to self BDSM (be careful with anything hot, electric, cold, or anything that could *really* hurt you and keep a knife/scissors very close in case what your bound in starts to hurt.... 911 on dial couldn't hurt either) could be played out by yourself.
I found that helped when I discovered mine...but now that I'm able to fulfill (some) of my fetishes by myself, I find that I lose control of my hands while masturbating (but that's another problem).
Is there anyone you could have sex with? I find that after a really good session (or equally awesome sessions) really did me well. I found that a afternoon/night did me for a while, but your partner knowing what their doing can do you within 10 mins or longer (depending on what you'd like).
If all these are unavailable (especially if you live with your parents), then you really need to find a night you're especially horny and just go to town (it helps if you have the house to yourself so you can make all the noise you want). Don't stop until you're close to falling asleep, that's worked for me in the past.
As always, use protection (including dental damns) when it comes to having sex with any partner (even if they say they're clean). Make sure that if you do partake in any fetishes you do have, please be safe doing it. I've mentioned scissors/knife to cut binds, 911 if something really goes wrong, or if you're going out with someone, make sure you have a safe call (someone you feel comfortable calling in case something goes wrong).
I hope this helps smile |
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Posted: Sun Jul 15, 2012 4:33 pm
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Hamsterliciousness Gigi Deveraux I can't believe I'm actually posting here... cat_sweatdrop I used to be the one everybody came to for advice, but... I have a bit of a problem lately. I'm, well... perpetually horny. Masturbation helps, but it never really goes away. I'm on the Pill, so it's likely not a hormonal-rollercoaster thing. Any ideas as to causes and/or solutions? It's okay Gigi! I'm actually going through the same problem right now (my boyfriend says he's sore from last week when we actually had smexy time for the first time in months). *SNIP* Is there anyone you could have sex with? I find that after a really good session (or equally awesome sessions) really did me well. I found that a afternoon/night did me for a while, but your partner knowing what their doing can do you within 10 mins or longer (depending on what you'd like). If all these are unavailable (especially if you live with your parents), then you really need to find a night you're especially horny and just go to town (it helps if you have the house to yourself so you can make all the noise you want). Don't stop until you're close to falling asleep, that's worked for me in the past. *SNIP* I hope this helps smile
Thanks... could part of the problem be that there's someone new in my life and I can't be intimate with them as much as I would like?
Living with the parental units certainly doesn't help, especially when I'm the.. ah... loud type. Any suggestions for a gag that will actually work?
Thanks again! |
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Posted: Tue Jul 17, 2012 1:34 pm
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Gigi Deveraux Hamsterliciousness Gigi Deveraux I can't believe I'm actually posting here... cat_sweatdrop I used to be the one everybody came to for advice, but... I have a bit of a problem lately. I'm, well... perpetually horny. Masturbation helps, but it never really goes away. I'm on the Pill, so it's likely not a hormonal-rollercoaster thing. Any ideas as to causes and/or solutions? It's okay Gigi! I'm actually going through the same problem right now (my boyfriend says he's sore from last week when we actually had smexy time for the first time in months). *SNIP* Is there anyone you could have sex with? I find that after a really good session (or equally awesome sessions) really did me well. I found that a afternoon/night did me for a while, but your partner knowing what their doing can do you within 10 mins or longer (depending on what you'd like). If all these are unavailable (especially if you live with your parents), then you really need to find a night you're especially horny and just go to town (it helps if you have the house to yourself so you can make all the noise you want). Don't stop until you're close to falling asleep, that's worked for me in the past. *SNIP* I hope this helps smile Thanks... could part of the problem be that there's someone new in my life and I can't be intimate with them as much as I would like? Living with the parental units certainly doesn't help, especially when I'm the.. ah... loud type. Any suggestions for a gag that will actually work? Thanks again!
I find that cloth gags or screaming into your pillow works well for noise (also holding your breath but breathing out in huffs might work....remember to breathe though!) |
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Posted: Fri Oct 19, 2012 4:50 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2013 1:51 pm
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Posted: Thu Sep 05, 2013 2:01 pm
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Perpetual Apocalypses When does sex start to feel good?
I've had sex with my boyfriend thrice already-- the pain comes from the same origin. When he hits all the way in, I feel a pain in the pit of my stomach. Is this even normal?
Depending on how your body is built, slender ladies do have a bit more trouble adjusting if their boyfriend is larger or wider then average.
Let's go through what happens when us ladies lose our virginities:
When the p***s is inserted, the v****a must have sufficient lubrication (preferably through foreplay so the body is relaxed and aroused) to start to accommodate the head of the p***s. Until we lose our virginity, we have a intact hymen (rough outside activities such as horseback ridding, landing at a weird angle hard, or being born without one can result in not having a intact hymen for virginity), and the act of penetration during our initial sex act tears the hymen.
Now, if we had sufficient lubrication, the p***s won't snag the hymen and won't cause the tearing to be more painful then it would be if it wasn't properly lubricated.
It will also stretch the vaginal walls to accept the new size. This will also cause quite a bit of discomfort as the v****a hasn't needed to do this before for any known reason.
Another sensation you might feel when your boyfriend goes all the way in is the pressure on your Cervix. have you ever played with your belly button? Try it right now, take a finger, push and wiggle your finger. You should feel about the same sensation in the pit of your stomach. This is because your body isn't used to the pressure.
Although most diagrams of female sexual organs exclude this detail, there IS tissue connecting the belly button and reproductive organs, left over from our days spent in the uterus. Because fetuses receive nutrients from/expel waste through the umbilical cord during their development, there is a tube that connects our bladder to our bellybutton, (a vestige of the umbilical cord) which doesnt completely disappear after birth. |
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Posted: Sat Sep 21, 2013 1:46 am
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 5:05 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 6:40 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 6:41 pm
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Posted: Tue Apr 22, 2014 6:47 pm
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Posted: Sat Jul 12, 2014 2:01 pm
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