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 Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 4:39 pm
broken_bleeding_angel Hester Peche broken_bleeding_angel Hester Peche broken_bleeding_angel Do boob surgeons make a lot of money? Yes. Why because people want to look good. They want to be noticed, lusted after, and what not. So people will do what they can to have that. They want to acknowledged and such. I can understanding wanting to look good, I have that want everytime I open my closet. It's just the extremes people go to...it's kind of depressing. It is. Especially when they're obsessed with being better then everyone else. Yeah it's like some people only focus on others "good qualities" instead of seeing that they have many of their own. So they'll twist and contort their image to be what they think people want to see. And I really hate the media for things like that--they make it seem like the "perfect" girl is some Aryan-esque bimbo. Agreed. And yes those girls are gorgeous, but what else? Can she burp the entire alphabet? Kick a** at Soul Calaber? Stick spoons on her face for hours? Among other things that people are capable of doing. It seems like the media wants dumb, pretty girls, who sleep around and do as they're told. Which, quite frankly doesn't fly with me. I can kick a** at Soul Calibur! It doesn't bode well with me either, it's like the media has become like...I don't know...subliminal nazis. Instead of physically killing the "unfit to be in the master race" they're killing people's personalities, self-esteem and individuality. It's like a kind of emotional genocide.
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 5:43 pm
I agree.
Changing yourself for anybody, not just who you're interested in, but your friends or parents, is only lying.
Your originality is what makes you who you are.
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Posted: Tue Jan 19, 2010 5:46 pm
Hester Peche broken_bleeding_angel Hester Peche broken_bleeding_angel Hester Peche broken_bleeding_angel Do boob surgeons make a lot of money? Yes. Why because people want to look good. They want to be noticed, lusted after, and what not. So people will do what they can to have that. They want to acknowledged and such. I can understanding wanting to look good, I have that want everytime I open my closet. It's just the extremes people go to...it's kind of depressing. It is. Especially when they're obsessed with being better then everyone else. Yeah it's like some people only focus on others "good qualities" instead of seeing that they have many of their own. So they'll twist and contort their image to be what they think people want to see. And I really hate the media for things like that--they make it seem like the "perfect" girl is some Aryan-esque bimbo. Agreed. And yes those girls are gorgeous, but what else? Can she burp the entire alphabet? Kick a** at Soul Calaber? Stick spoons on her face for hours? Among other things that people are capable of doing. It seems like the media wants dumb, pretty girls, who sleep around and do as they're told. Which, quite frankly doesn't fly with me. I can kick a** at Soul Calibur! It doesn't bode well with me either, it's like the media has become like...I don't know...subliminal nazis. Instead of physically killing the "unfit to be in the master race" they're killing people's personalities, self-esteem and individuality. It's like a kind of emotional genocide. Lol so can I. XD It's more like a personality genocide. =3= Honestly I like being the way I am now. Took me a long time to get back to the way I like myself with out anyone giving a crap.
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Posted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 1:53 am
I can relate to this.
My boyfriend, when we first starting dating 6 months ago, was addicted to porn. Weird porn... WEIRD.
I found out the reason why he couldn't have a healthy sex life with me, it was because he spent all his time looking at porn. I got extremely upset, because it wasn't healthy for him, and told him to stop.
He kept on doing it, choosing it over me.
It got to the point where I'd be lying in bed next to him and he would boot up my xbox to watch some girls in bikinis jump around.
I'm not ugly or fat or deformed... I've had no problem with guys my entire life, but for some reason, he put this seed of doubt into my mind. I'd cry and cry and ask him why he chose these fake women over me, constantly. I felt so disgusting.
But I started to realize- it isn't my fault. It isn't my problem. Guys being stupid and selfish doesn't have to do with me. Or how I look. I'm beautiful. I love myself now more than I did before I met him.
I don't have a place to go right now, but I'm going to give him one more chance because nobody is perfect. He's trying his best and has no access to this stuff anymore. It's just important that I realize I'm perfect the way I am. ^_^
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Posted: Wed Jan 20, 2010 9:43 am
Good for you. I'm glad that you realized you weren't the issue and are both working together at his problem.
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Posted: Fri Jan 22, 2010 8:27 pm
Welcome to my secret lair on Skullcrusher Mountain I hope that you've enjoyed your stay so far I see you've met my assistant Scarface His appearance is quite disturbing But I assure you he's harmless enough He's a sweetheart, calls me master And he has a way of finding pretty things and bringing them to me I hate girls like that.
Sure, you're a twig, you've got everything else going for you. So a boy doesn't like you..
I've never liked anyone except one guy. And there was this whole story..
I'm a geek. I am a nerd! I am slightly oddly shaped, I have freckles, I talk gibberish half the time, and I have an addiction to Pokemon, partly because I'm so easily amused, and I..I don't wear makeup. I don't change for people! Who cares what they think? I have friends I act like a dork with. I'm so into you But I'm way too smart for you Even my henchmen think I'm crazy I'm not surprised that you agree If you could find some way to be A little bit less afraid of me You'd see the voices that control me from inside my head Say I shouldn't kill you yet
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:39 am
finally!! Someone who understands my pain of having to deal with you worried guy obsessors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:59 am
OP is 100% correct!
My last relationship lasted 2 and a half years and we spent the final year unhappy because I came to accept that we were just too different. We didn't know each other all that well when we started dating, and I guess we thought we were different people than we actually were.
Long story short, personality-wise I was too much of a tomboy. He had this idea in his head about what his girlfriend should be and I just didn't fit it.
My current boyfriend knew me from a small forum where we were both members, and we became friends with no interest in each other, just chatting on MSN about anything and everything. I could really be myself with him, because I felt like we were close friends and we were comfortable with each other. He had seen an old picture post of me and thought I was beautiful. We started liking each other for who we really were, and then met up in real life and it was like a dream come true.
He can accept all my personality quirks that most people don't find appealing, and finding someone that loves me without having to compromise any aspect of my personality was worth waiting for. I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend, this just kind of happened out of the blue.
So don't go about compromising yourself, because you will find someone who wants you. I don't know when, because the future is uncertain, and anything can happen!
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 4:50 pm
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 5:35 pm
・・・・・★
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And when i think of the future, what lies ahead, and when i don't see myself where i want...
i agree. aye. i like someone and i think he likes me back if not oh well i'll move on. but if he does, i cant let my one friend (mariola) who always tries to mess my relationships up. and does. this is what she does, i say i like someone like infatuation or crush-wise and am happy and everyone knows it and then randomly she'll be like "oh i like them, i think they are hott, and want to get with them." trying to be a good friend i let her have them, but she never dates them just plays with them and their minds and throws them away she's 2 years younger then me. and i'm a virgin, she isn't no offense. freshman year it was max, sophomore year it was matt, junior year it was my best friend mike but i had a friend like her named kim and she got in the way and not mariola and crap happened cuz she cheated on him 3 times with the same guy and blew a temper tantrum cuz me and him were best friends with mutual feelings for eachother creating drama crap and now im not friends with either D:, now it's this guy now and mariola is getting in my way, and for once im gonna act first and fast if he accepts me yay i'm not telling her if he doesn't whatever i'll move on. what do you think? ...my heart drops down to my rib cage passed the locks and keys with it's wings chained up to the bars of my body.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 6:44 pm
Uhhh.... Thanks and that's not a good friend girl. I hate when girls go after guys because some other girl is interested in him. =3= You should go for him if he likes you and vice versa.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 7:46 pm
broken_bleeding_angel Uhhh.... Thanks and that's not a good friend girl. I hate when girls go after guys because some other girl is interested in him. =3= You should go for him if he likes you and vice versa.
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And when i think of the future, what lies ahead, and when i don't see myself where i want...
yeahh i hate it. when i told people the problem thats when i started realizing she isn't a true friend or a good friend and deserves neither. and thanks for the advice. i'll ask for his number if he gives me it :3 if not oh well. missed a chance with a lovely girl. ...my heart drops down to my rib cage passed the locks and keys with it's wings chained up to the bars of my body.
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:10 pm
Color mi Amazing broken_bleeding_angel Uhhh.... Thanks and that's not a good friend girl. I hate when girls go after guys because some other girl is interested in him. =3= You should go for him if he likes you and vice versa.
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And when i think of the future, what lies ahead, and when i don't see myself where i want...
yeahh i hate it. when i told people the problem thats when i started realizing she isn't a true friend or a good friend and deserves neither. and thanks for the advice. i'll ask for his number if he gives me it :3 if not oh well. missed a chance with a lovely girl. ...my heart drops down to my rib cage passed the locks and keys with it's wings chained up to the bars of my body.
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★・・・・・ Awesome. Good luck! ^w^
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Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 8:53 am
Omg my friend's bf (ex I guess) is being a douchebag and 'dumped' her for her best friend (he said he was joking and we're like "how the ******** do you joke about something like that, you sick p***y?!" we called him with quite a few things to say.... at a dance.... in the bathroom.... like 20 of us... xD) but shes like "why does he like her? I'll just never be good enough" and im like THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU. GOOD GOD IT'S OBVIOUSLY HIM. HONESTLY,WHAT DID YOU DO?! and she still believes its her.
I often ask why guys dont like me seeing as I've been single for ages (recently I had a few chances but none of them worked out. C'est la vie) but I dont go 'IM JUST NEVER GOOD ENOUGH' and at least I realize that there is most likely nothing ACTUALLY wrong with me
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