.::Masturbation; Basics, Techniques, Questions Answered::.

[Seawicket]

••I C R I C K L E••
“Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.”

No you don't have to.
Unless you're comfortable with telling her.
Even then, you don't have to.

 

[Sensation Ari]

ShushYourPrettyMouth

I just have one question: Are you supposed to tell your mother that you're mastrubating? I would find it REALLY awkward gonk

Do guys tell their mothers when they start masturbating?
They'll find out if you aren't discreet about it.

 

[ShushYourPrettyMouth]

iCrickle

••I C R I C K L E••
“Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.”

No you don't have to.
Unless you're comfortable with telling her.
Even then, you don't have to.

okay thanks :3
do you think she knows? about me mastrubating?  

[Seawicket]

••I C R I C K L E••
“Dream as if you'll live forever, live as if you'll die today.”

Hmm, it's possible. At some point,
I'm sure every girl has try it. And I'm sure
every mother knows. Lol.

It's nothing to be ashamed about.

 

[The_Brightest_Moon]

AnnTheCool

Umm a bit awkward but I have been mastrubating since I was like 5 or 4. Is that normal?

Yup, totally. I've been doing it ever since I can remember. Of course I had no idea what it was back then, all I knew was that it felt good. When i was like 8-10 I got it into my head that it was a horrible thing and got so disgusted with myself that I started crying. My mom asked why and I embarassingly told her and she told me it was totally fine. THANK GOD FOR NON-UPTIGHT MOTHERS. this is awkward but my 'friend' and i when we were younger used to do it. She kind of made me sometimes. Does that count as sexual abuse? We had no idea back then, again. But now that I look back I'm like "...Was I technically abused?"  

[broken_bleeding_angel]

DeeDarling

broken_bleeding_angel

DeeDarling

i know spencers sells dildos, and vibrating dildos but i'm kind of embarrassed to go and buy them. even though me and my friends all admitted to each other that we all masturbate and share techniques and all but no one really has the guts to go out and buy one for the reason of the looks of the cashier person. i'm 18, looking 15. sweatdrop i want one, am afraid to buy one offline because what if it comes in a package with some really weird address and my parents freak out at me. they can't know, since they are EXTREME catholics and believe it is a sin. and i was born a catholic but it's not my religion, not the path i follow. i just want one, a vibrating one. :3 i have tried the whole carob thing, and permanent marker thing (a thicker permanent marker) but i want something that vibrates, it doesn't even have to be a d***o.

do i swallow my fear and embarrassment and buy one at spencers, keep my ipod on full blast so they cant say anything and avoid eye contact? help.

Often when you order online and they ship it to your house it comes in a cardboard packaging so people can't see what's inside. Though sometimes you don't know what you'll be getting once you open the box.
If you want it faster and not have to worry about your parents getting your mail. Then I would have to say suck it up sweetie and walk into that shop. If you do go in, don't giggle at things. That's what usually gives away underage kids.

Edit: I forgot to mention have some ID on you just in case.

okay thanks :3

You're welcome.  

[The Broken L]

iCrickle

how old are you?
spencer's usually has
vibrators that are relative
cheap. they have waterproof
ones. (:

Uhm... how old do you have to be...?  

[Call Me Apple]

Oh lawdy, I'm a bit stunned you went so indepth with this xd  

[broken_bleeding_angel]

OkamiGirl1901

iCrickle

how old are you?
spencer's usually has
vibrators that are relative
cheap. they have waterproof
ones. (:

Uhm... how old do you have to be...?

Generally 18 years or older.  

[Call Me Apple]

OkamiGirl1901

iCrickle

how old are you?
spencer's usually has
vibrators that are relative
cheap. they have waterproof
ones. (:

Uhm... how old do you have to be...?

To buy a sex toy you must be 18.
Spencer's DOES check ID's.  

[The Broken L]

Oh... s**t... Okay... Got a few years to wait then... redface  

[Call Me Apple]

Konayuki_ko

Yup, totally. I've been doing it ever since I can remember. Of course I had no idea what it was back then, all I knew was that it felt good. When i was like 8-10 I got it into my head that it was a horrible thing and got so disgusted with myself that I started crying. My mom asked why and I embarassingly told her and she told me it was totally fine. THANK GOD FOR NON-UPTIGHT MOTHERS. this is awkward but my 'friend' and i when we were younger used to do it. She kind of made me sometimes. Does that count as sexual abuse? We had no idea back then, again. But now that I look back I'm like "...Was I technically abused?"

Umm..if you two were the same age, then no, i dont think it was abuse. Just experimentation. But now abuse & experimenting as kids is a very blurry line. Do you feel abused?

&& as a reply to that first bit, when i was ike 10 years old my mum told me touching myself would make me pregnant. confused So it's cool you had such an open mum, lol.  

[Call Me Apple]

OkamiGirl1901

Oh... s**t... Okay... Got a few years to wait then... redface

You could always improvise 3nodding  

[Namikikyo]

OkamiGirl1901

Oh... s**t... Okay... Got a few years to wait then... redface

How creative are you willing to get for something to "tickle" your c**t fancy?

wink

 

[The Broken L]

Yeah I know but I always wonder... Cause I've only ever been raped when I had sex and I wanted to know what it feels like when it feels good...