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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:36 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:39 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:41 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:42 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:45 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:50 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:55 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:57 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 10:59 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:04 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:11 pm
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digital m u f f i n s [@ druggie]: See. More of a reason to seriously affirm my distaste for Frats and Sororities. I don't need to buy my friends. Psh.
I hate this response so much. Its not buying the friends. You are already friends with the people when you join, I know plenty of people who aren't in my fraternity that still hang out with us.
The point of a Greek Organization isn't to buy yourself in a social standing, its coming together to be apart of something bigger than yourself. Its about being in a tradition, a shared cause, a bond that can cause two complete strangers to instantly become best friends.
On the money side, yes there is a finacial part to it, but its not just "Hurr, here's my money, now I'm apart of y'all right?" No. Its a funding things like a house, social and philanthropy events, paying staff in said house, and overall, supporting the fraternity or sorority itself.
As far as parties go, think of it in this sense, have you and your friends ever pulled money together to have some kind of extravagant event which ended up being a lot of fun? Thats the same idea here. Once again, its pulling together to be apart of something bigger than yourself.
Plus being in a Greek Organization helps your career. It is an old quote and very cliched but its the truth, "Its not the grades you make, its the hands you shake." Being in a Greek Organization not only puts you ahead of the curve in the professional sense (Dress, attitude, respect, etc. etc.) but it also streamlines you into meeting hundreds of people who share that same bond I mentioned earlier. And as easy as saying "I'm a _____" can get you a job given the right circumstances.
I don't mean to rant, but I absolutely hate it when people generalize the Greek Culture down to "Oh they're just drunken idiots who pay for friends." Don't ever judge a group from the outside looking in. I've been through so many different cliques, groups of people, and party settings that I can tell you that each has their merits, but the Greek System has the most to offer, and I won't let you degrade something that I take as much pride in as my Fraternity.
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:12 pm
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:21 pm
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Consider me from "The inside looking in". I've been to tens of parties for Frat events, not just Triangle. I've answered a bunch of emails about that junk for my brother. I've stayed several nights in The House as a guest. I'm friends with the majority of the members of his Frat. Many of his frat members were recruited by me.
That being said;
I agree that it isn't "Paying for friends." Nor is it some useless get together defined by getting hammered and mooning squares. I also agree that it's a way to better your career. Names make the person and the more people you know, the more you can do with your life. Presidents have been elected with average grades and famous friends.
However, A frat isn't "Ahead of a social curve". When you get out in life, your workplace is going to look NOTHING like your frat house.
Not everyone in a Frat House is friends. No frat house I've ever been in is like that. Everyone has to "Forcibly cope" with each other, and there are quite a few people who are all friends.
But there are people in your frat who you bullsh*t about with your friends about "How big of a douche he was" at some recent get together. -----------------------------
From the insider, unbiased perspective; No, it's not buying friends. Yes, it's fairly expensive, and Yes, it's cheaper to dorm elsewhere and not be in a frat at all. But no, it's not some goody-goody paradise where everyone shakes hands and wears suits and talks about how the stock market looks this fiscal year. And sometimes, you're paying for the ability to say, "I'm a ______"... Because, from your words, it can get you a job int he right circumstances.
It has its pros and cons. It's not perfect, and it's definitely not for everyone.
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Posted: Sun Sep 18, 2011 11:59 pm
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